Umusizi wo muri Irlande Robert Lind yigeze kuvuga ati: "Mu mibanire hagati ya nyirasenge, abashywa babo na pishles hari ikintu gitandukanye rwose nabandi. Isosiyete ifite abishywa yabo n'abishywa babo bazi ko ari abantu bafite amahirwe. Umuyoboro w'imyenda hari ukuntu wacitse intege: Nta nshingano bafite usibye kwishima. " Kandi mubyukuri! Mugihe ababyeyi bavunagura umutwe kuburyo bwo kwigira umwana batanu kandi hari igikoma cya mugitondo, umurimo wonyine wa bene wabo ba hafi b'umwana ni ukumuha kumva umutekano no kuzenguruka urukundo. Hano hari inama, uburyo bwo kubaka umubano mwiza nabashywa:
Ganira
Bumwe mu buryo bwiza bwo gushiraho umubano nabana nukumenya ibitekerezo byabo. Reka tuvuge ko uhagaze kumadirishya yububiko hamwe na ice cream kandi ntushobora guhitamo hagati ya strawberries na shokora. Baza mwishywa wimyaka itanu ko azakugira inama yo gutera no gukurikiza amahitamo. Uzabona amaso yumwana fraze kubera ubwibone. Abana kubera imyaka bakunze gufatwa, kubwibyo wibanze ku nama zabo, bitera umubano wa hafi hagati yawe no kwizerana.
Wige kwishimisha abana bafite inyungu
Shaka imigenzo myiza
Niba mwishywa wawe muri Harry Potter, umuhe urukurikirane rwa firime hamwe. Hura muri wikendi, guteka popcorn no kunywa indimu - gusenyuka by'agateganyo uburyo bwo gusinzira no gutegeka amashanyarazi bizagirira akamaro imyumvire y'umwana. Hamwe nabakobwa guteka pies hamwe nubukorikori bwa leopame bava muri plastine. Umwuga urashobora kuba uwufite, ikintu cyingenzi nuko mwembi mwembi mwakiriye umunezero ubikuye ku mutima. Kurikiza ukuri ko asoma ashimishijwe, asa kandi yumva umwana, rwose ntutakaze hamwe namatike yo mu gitaramo cyumuhanzi ukunda cyangwa firime muri firime.
Menyesha kugiti cyawe
Niba bene wabo bato baba kure, iyi ntabwo arimpamvu yo kuterana nabo kumunsi wamavuko. Ganira ku mbuga nkoranyambaga, guhuza ku itumanaho rya videwo no kwandika amabaruwa. Ntushobora kwiyumvisha ukuntu hazabaho umwana wimyaka 7 kubona ibaruwa nyayo yamuhaye kugiti cye. Gerageza gushaka byibuze iminsi ibiri yo kuguruka kubasura kandi akenshi ubahamagare mubiruhuko byawe. Mugihe udafite abana bawe bwite, ni ngombwa kwishyura igihe kinini gikenewe kubakeneye ubufasha - mwishywato.
Kenshi guhamagara abana gusura
Ube umukunzi mwiza
Ntabwo buri gihe mubana bigaragara kugirango wubake umubano wa hafi nababyeyi. Niba uri muto mumuryango kandi mukuru wawe cyangwa umuvandimwe wawe azakura abana, urashobora kuba kuri bo kubuyobozi kubera itandukaniro rito. Iyo ingimbi zigeze kuvuga kubyerekeye uburezi bwimibonano mpuzabitsina, amarira nyuma yigitabo no gufasha wige algebra yangwa, urashobora kubikora mubyiza byubunararibonye bwawe muribi bibazo. Nyizera, abana nka ntawe uzibuka ubufasha bwawe kandi ukamushimira.