Ihohoterwa ryakozwe mu rugo Mubihe byinshi bifitanye isano no guhohoterwa kumugore: Birasa natwe umunyagitugu ukomeza umugore we ubwoba. Ariko, ukurikije imibare, abagabo barwaye kwigaragaza ntabwo ari munsi y'abagore, atari mu Burusiya gusa. Imwe mu batozo bazwi cyane muri iki gihe, ifitanye isano n'ihohoterwa rikorerwa mu ngo umuntu - ikibazo cyo gutandukana kwa Johnny Depp na Amber. Mu ikubitiro, umukobwa yagerageje kumvisha abaturage ko uwahoze ari umugabo wagaragaje ibitero inshuro nyinshi kandi yitwaye mubijyanye nayo, ariko usibye amagambo ye, umukobwa ntashobora kwerekana ikintu na kimwe. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, imyifatire y'imiryango ya Leta ntabwo yigaragaje igihe kirekire - ubusho bwambutse n '"ijwi ryo guteterejweho kandi rirababaje."
Urwango rukomeye rwanga, rwerekeza ku mukinnyi, wagishyigikiye Hollywood yose kandi rwose abahoze ari abakobwa, mu nyigisho, bari bakwiye gukora byose "ku buryo bushobora kwizera.
Umukinnyi yababaye kandi mumutwe muriyi sano
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Ntabwo twuzuza ubusumbane kuri aderesi yawe, umukubite wagize inkubi y'umuyaga ati: "Nahohotewe mu ngo" muri kimwe mu biganiro, nkana amagambo yanjye atemera amafoto y'urutoki, ndetse n'ubwoko butandukanye bw'imyanzuro y'abaganga yatanze ubuvuzi. Nkuko byagaragaye, abantu bose bakomeretse bahawe n'uwahoze ari umugore: bakurikije ababyiboneye, ubushyo bwatoranije inshuro nyinshi, batangaza ko ari umugabo we wabaye inyuma y'imiryango ifunze. Urubanza ruteganijwe muri Gashyantare umwaka utaha, ariko ubu, nyuma y'ukuri guteye ubwoba, umukinnyi yakira inkunga no gusaba imbabazi kubantu babonaga ko ari uw'igitero.
Johnny Depp yatanze ikirego cyo kurwanya uyu mugore, ashinja gusebanya mu ruhame no gushimangira ikirego cye n'amafoto ateye ubwoba akomeretse
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Nkuko bigaragara ku karorero ka dep-herd, umugabo yafashe imyaka itari mike kugirango yemere mbere yisi yose ihohoterwa muri Aderesi yabo kumugore. Kuki igice gikomeye cyo kuganira? Reka tugerageze kubimenya.
Igice kinini kihagaze imbere y'uwahohotewe n'umugabo - "abantu bazavuga iki?" Mubisobanuro, umugabo ntashobora gucika intege kurusha abagore, kumenyekanisha ihohoterwa muri uru rubanza bizavuga ku munsikondo byayo mu maso ya sosiyete kandi, icy'ingenzi, imbere y'abandi bagore. Niba tuzirikanaga imyambarire igezweho kubahohotewe, umugabo ategereje isoni zidashira, birakwiye gusa ko umugore ashoboye kumubuza, ndetse nibura, byibuze.
Akaga ka kabiri kumugabo - umugore amukatira cyane mu mico. Birashobora kuba umugore udasanzwe witonda wenyine, nkuko byari bimeze muri depp, ariko mugihe avugana wenyine, abagore nkabo bazakora byose kugirango bemere kwihesha agaciro, bityo bakamufata ubwabo kandi ntibatanga we n'amahirwe. Umugabo yamenaguye psyche kandi yigira kwishinja kandi wenyine.
Ikibazo cya gatatu nihariye, ahubwo, abagabo, abarusiya, bameze neza, bitondera ubuzima bwumubiri, birengagiza imitekerereze. Ntabwo tugitekereza kwiheba n'indwara mbi, mugihe avuna ubuzima bwabantu ibihumbi magana, mugihe kitajyanye ninzobere. Ku mugabo, igitutu cyumugore we cyangwa umukobwa mukobwa akenshi biba bimaze kubaho mubuzima.
Ibimenyetso byubugizi bwa nabi bivuye kumugore:
- Guhora ukoresha interuro n'ibitabo bibabaje ku mugabo, bitanga igitekerezo cy'uko adafite agaciro wenyine.
- Kugereranya nabandi bagabo.
- Iterabwoba rihoraho, nubwo muburyo busekeje, mubyukuri, ntakindi kirenze kwigaragaza kwa passive.
- Gutezimbere.
- kwirengagiza.
- Kugendera kumugaragaro, guhagarika hagati yinteruro.
- Ubuhemu.
- Blackmail.
- "gukonjesha" ingeso mbi kumufatanyabikorwa.
Birumvikana, nta kigereranyo kidashoboka nta gutongana, ariko ntibigomba kuba ihame.
Nigute ushobora gukora umugabo winjiye muri "inzara" yumugore Abuzer
Icya mbere, birakenewe kumva ko bidasanzwe - ntushobora gukoreshwa, kumubiri cyangwa imyitwarire. Niba ufite abana, igitero ugera kuri aderesi yawe birakoreshwa kuri bo. Kubwibyo, birakenewe gufata ingamba: niba udakora, ugasiga kandi ubaza umuhanga niba wumva ko ibintu bitakuwe.
Nk'ubutegetsi, abagabo batera imiryango ifite abagizi ba nabi b'abagore babikora bareba mu bwana bwabo: Birashoboka cyane ko umugabo wahohotewe na nyina. Gukura mubidukikije, umugabo mugihe kizaza arashaka umugore usa numva urukundo yiboneye nyina. Igitero kuri uru rubanza ntigifatwa nkubwiza bubi - erega, nyina ukunda cyane yari amwe.
Wibuke ko nta bihe by'ibyishimo n'ubwiyunge byishyura ubujurire wibeshye ku rukundo.