Ibaruwa y'abasomyi w'umugore:
"Mwaramutse Maria!
Ndagusaba ntabwo nkumu psychologue, ariko nkumukobwa ukiri muto. Mu mezi make ashize, nahuye numusore, kandi nasaga nkukundana ako kanya. Nibura yankoreye neza kuri njye, abonye indabyo, yasobanuwe mu rukundo. Nasubije gusubira inyuma. Kandi ntiwumve, kuko akenshi bibaho muri make umukandida waguze, twatsinzwe neza nabagenzi neza hamwe nibibazo bya buri munsi. Ndetse natangiye gusura siporo nkeya, kubera inzira, ntabwo nambaye usibye amasomo na Grielza muri Gashyantare. Ariko, nkuko babivuga, ntakintu na kimwe munsi yukwezi - hakenewe ko hakenewe ko usubira ku kazi. Byongeye kandi, nabuze inshuti zanjye. Ndi umugore usanzwe, uhagije - ufite imyaka 34 nashizeho agatsiko k'ingeso, aho ntashobora kwanga.
Rero, biragaragara ko nta buzima afite. Biratangaje cyane ... Ashaka kumarana nanjye igihe cyose. Niba njyana nabakobwa bakobwa kandi ntabwo mfatana nanjye - birababaje. Birasa nkaho ankunda kuruta uko ndi. Ariko siko bimeze, yego? We ubwe nkuko nyirubwite ayoboye, kandi biranshimishije. Niki? Twese twaba twaratuje? OKGA.
Mwaramutse Olga!
Nzagerageza kugusubiza nkumukobwa ukiri muto, kandi nka psychologue :)
Yahise ashaka gusobanura amanota abiri. Ubwa mbere, uzi neza ko agukunda kuruta uko? Birakwiye rwose, uzi neza ko uhora asabwa kwitabwaho no gutamba inyungu zawe ni ukunda urukundo? Niba umuntu akeneye ibimenyetso bihoraho aramutse agushyizemo mbere yo guhitamo, bihamya ubwoba bwe bukomeye bwo kukubura. Kandi ibi ntabwo arigaragaza urukundo rwiza. Ahubwo, iyi ni ingaruka zo kwihesha agaciro kandi idahwitse, biganisha ku rukundo rwa neurotique. Umusore wawe ni ngombwa ko mugenzi wawe witangira, umwitegure, yiteguye kuri byose. Urukundo rwa Neurotic. Gukenera ibimenyetso byurukundo muri uru rubanza birakabije kandi ntibihagije. Umufatanyabikorwa agomba gutamba igihe, inyungu nindangagaciro. Kwanga muri uru rubanza bifatwa nko kwangwa. Kandi icy'ingenzi - ntuzigera ubasha gutanga urwego rukenewe, bizahora bihagije. Abantu nkabo bakeneye kwemezwa hanze kubijyanye, nkitegeko, byishyurwa nabandi. Kubwibyo, aragerageza gufata igihe cyawe cyose. Kandi ntibishaka kwihanganira abanywanyi nubwo bakobwa bakobwa, siporo n'amaduka.
Urukundo rwiza nigihe cyingenzi kwikunda kuruta gukundwa. Ni ngombwa kwishimira ibyiyumvo byawe, kurokoka iyi mico myiza kuruta kugerageza kubika undi. Noneho ntahantu ho kumva umutungo. Mubyongeyeho, kubyumva utaryarya, biragoye kutitabira recrocity;)
N'icya kabiri. Ni bangahe ushaka guhindura? N'ubundi kandi, buri wese muri twe ni imihanda ubwacu, ni iki, kandi niba twiteguye guhindura imyitwarire kugirango ugirire akamaro umuntu, hanyuma ugire aho wowe ubwawe ushaka gukora utabitse muri wowe. Bitabaye ibyo, byanze bikunze bizaganisha ku makimbirane mashya ...