Hafi y'urubanza urwo arirwo rwose azamenya isi binyuze mu rubanza n'amakosa, umurimo w'ababyeyi ni ugushyigikira umwana mubihe byose. Umwana mukuru arahinduka, arushaho gutandukanya inyungu zayo - siporo cyangwa gukusanya birashobora kurangaza uhereye ku bushakashatsi bwinyamanswa. Ni ukubera iki ari ngombwa cyane kumwana yishimisha? Tuzabibwira.
Igihe nikigera cyo gutangira ikintu cyose gishimishije
Mubyukuri, biragoye kuvuga imyaka runaka, kubera ko buri mwana afite igihe cyimyitwarire atangirira mugihe kimwe ko bidashoboka guhanura. Ikosa rikomeye ryababyeyi benshi nukwandika umwana mu ruziga rwose, ku buryo yahitanye hakiri kare bishoboka mu turere dutandukanye kandi tukabona ibyo amutwara cyane. Biroroshye gutondekanya no gucengeza umwana adakunda umwana. Ntukande kandi ntugatsimbarare - gutegereza umwana ubwe azatangiza.
Niba ababyeyi bagomba kwivanga mugihe umwana yahisemo
Umubyeyi wese, wakubise igitekerezo: "Kuki utabiha ishusho? Sinasohotse, umuhungu wanjye / umukobwa wanjye agomba rwose gukora! ", Ngomba kumva ko inshingano z'ingaruka zibangamira icyifuzo cyabo ku manza zabo zizaryama gusa. Tuzi inkuru nyinshi zitsinzi zifite iherezo ribabaje - ndetse no kubura gusobanukirwa hagati yimirima. Gusa ikintu ababyeyi babo bashobora gufata mubihe nkibi nukuyobora neza umwana kandi, niba isura ivuye ku mutima mubikorwa bimwe na bimwe, kugirango ishigikire umwana we, reka ishyaka rye kandi ridahuye nabyo wowe.
Ibyo akunda umwana birashobora kutumvikana kuri wewe
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Kuki ari ngombwa ko umwana agira icyo akunda
Nkuko twabivuze, niba umwana yishora mu cyifuzo cye, nta muvuduko w'ababyeyi, buhoro buhoro akura imico myinshi y'ingirakamaro izamugirira akamaro cyane ukuze. Kugeza ubu, ibyo ukunda kumurongo, urugero, gutanga abaturage mu mbuga nkoranyambaga: umwana yagiye amenya cyane ku kuvugana n'abantu benshi, kugira ubumenyi bwa porogaramu z'ibanze kandi abizi, birashoboka ko aribyo " Kurangiza "bizabiyobora mubikorwa bizaba ikibazo mubuzima bwe bwose.
Icyo gukora niba umwana adashishikaje
Bibaho kandi ko umwana adashobora kumva icyo akunda cyane - "umuyaga" we, ntashobora gufata umwanzuro kandi amaherezo rero. Ntibikenewe ko wandike no gushyira ubushake bwawe, ugasahura umubano numwana. Ahubwo, fata umwanya munini, bityo uzumva akarere umwana agaragaza ibikorwa byinshi, birashoboka ko ushobora kumubwira icyerekezo cyo kwimuka.