Amakimbirane muri couple ntashobora kubaho ashingiye gusa kugirango imibonano mpuzabitsina idahari, ariko kandi mugihe ibyifuzo nigikorwa birimo. Abafatanyabikorwa na Libido batandukanye babaho ikizamini cyubu, bagerageza kumenyerana. Ariko gukenera guhuza ibitsina biterwa niki kandi ni ibihe bintu inzobere zitanga? Muri ibi twagerageje kubimenya.
Ninde "Ibindi
Abahanga mu bya siyansi ntibajyanwa kugira ngo babone icyo bavuga ko icyifuzo cyiza gikubiye mu matsinda n'imico bimwe na bimwe "bishimangira" ku kuba abantu babikora kandi icyarimwe bagakoresha uburyo bwo kuringaniza imbogamizi bisobanura hafi igihe cyose. Amatora kandi yakorewe, ibisubizo byatangajwe n'inzobere: byagaragaye ko abagore bashaka ibitsina inshuro imwe n'igice zirenze urugero, nubwo bigorana gukora nta mibonano mpuzabitsina bigoye kuruta kimwe cya kabiri.
Usibye ibintu byo hanze, hariho kandi ibintu byihariye byakazi bishobora kugabanywa.
Wige gusobanukirwa uko buri wese
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Imiyoboro Yamamoto
Gukurura igitsina biterwa nuburyo bukwiye bwa neurotmitmitters, kurugero, urwego rwa dopamine rugira ingaruka kuburyo butaziguye icyifuzo cyumuntu kugirango ubone umukunzi wimibonano mpuzabitsina. Muri rusange, buri muntu ashaka kongera Dopamine muburyo bwinshi, akenshi abatera imbaraga ni ingeso mbi. Testosterone ikora nka testosterone, na oxytocine, byose hamwe bituma amaraso akira gusa, ariho gushimisha imibonano mpuzabitsina bigera ku mpinga.
Kuzenguruka umutekano
Niba inzira yo kwishima kubagabo ibaho, nkuko amategeko abiteganya, ko hamwe nabagore bari muri iyi gahunda biragoye - ikibazo cyimihango ntigishobora gusa kugabanya libido, ahubwo "nica" icyifuzo. Hamwe n'imikorere isanzwe yinzego zisebanya, icyifuzo ntarengwa cyumugore kigaragara iminsi mike mbere yuko ovulation, ariko niba hari ibibazo byugarije umugore, bityo umubiri ntiwihutira gusunika umugore guhura, bityo akaba Ikirere nkiki umugore arashobora kwerekana ubukonje kumukunzi we usanzwe, tutibagiwe no guhuza ibintu bitateganijwe.
Imibereho itari myiza
Igare ridapfa kubyerekeye igipimo cya vodka hamwe nubwiza bwumugore biragenda bihinduka umugani. Nibyo, "munsi yicyiciro" Twumva kwidagadura, ariko imyitwarire yubumwe ntabwo yemeza uburambe bwuzuye. Ikintu nuko inzoga zigabanya urwego rwa Testosterone, muriki gihe bigira ingaruka cyane numugabo, kubera ko umunezero wacyo uhujwe cyane kurwego rwiyi nzuka. Niba hari inzoga muri couple yawe - ibintu bisanzwe, ariko ubuzima bwawe busanzwe bubabara, bumarane ibinyobwa bishyushye byibuze amezi menshi - uzabona imbaraga (muburyo bwiza) bizaba bifatika .