Kera hamenyekanye ko abagabo n'abagore ari ibiremwa kuva mumibumbe itandukanye. Batekereza ukundi kandi bakabona ibintu bimwe. Abagore bafite amarangamutima kandi yorohewe. Ni amayeri. Abagabo Ingamba. Kandi ni iki kindi abantu batandukaniye mu bagore?
1. Hashingiwe ku bushakashatsi butangaje, abahanga mu by'inararibonye baje ku mwanzuro, mu buryo butandukanye n'abahagarariye imibonano mpuzabitsina myiza, umugabo atagaragaza ko adashidikanya gusa ku bandi bantu, ariko nanone bihinduka nabi kuruta kubyumva ubwabo. Ntibafite kandi gucukura ubwabo, gusesengura ibyiyumvo byabo nibitekerezo byabo. Ntibashishikajwe n'ibitekerezo by'abandi bagabo, ntubabazeho ibyo bumva, icyarimwe bakunda kuganira mu mibereho y'abagabo mu bantu: urugero, kuvuga ku matora yo mu isi yose, kugira ngo bagaragaze Ibitekerezo Kuki Inyeganyega zazengurutse impanda nizindi ngingo zikomeye. Kubwibyo, niba ushaka kubona ururimi rusanzwe hamwe numugabo wawe, ntugomba gutegereza kugerageza kwiyemeza, nibyiza gutanga ishingiro ryumwanya wawe nkijwi rituje rifite ijwi rituje rigomba kumvikana. Wibuke ko uhagarariye kimwe cya kabiri cyibintu byiteguye kumva ijwi ryibitekerezo n'impaka zifatika.
2. Abagabo benshi abagore basa nkaho batateganijwe, bityo bake rwihishwa batinya abahagarariye igorofa ryiza - amarangamutima yabo nimitima yabo hamwe nabo ubwabo bafite amarangamutima. Muri icyo gihe, abagabo ni ngombwa cyane ko amarangamutima yabo ari yoroshye kandi atuje - ni ukundi. Kubera ko badakunda kwisesengura no kwigirira icyizere, kandi uhangayitse mubuzima akenshi bibaho, basanga inzira yo kunywa inzoga cyangwa imikino ya mudasobwa. Byombi bibafasha gusubira mubintu biteye amarangamutima-amarangamutima. Kubwibyo, niba ushaka kugira amahoro n'amahoro murugo rwawe, gerageza guhuza nimbaraga nyinshi, kuko kubungabunga miriyoni nziza mumurimo wumuryango, ariwo mugore gusa ku rutugu.
3. Abagabo birinda inshingano kubandi. Ni inshingano zihagije kuri bo. Ibi akenshi biterwa no kudashaka kwabo gukora imibanire ikomeye, abana, gutanga amaboko n'umutima ku matora yabo, nibindi ariko niba umuntu akunda ingorane, kandi yiteguye kugendana amahame ye Kubwumugore we ukunda - ntuzigere wibagirwa.
4. Mubikorwa byose byabagabo, motifs zimwe na zimwe zikurikiranwa. Ntibigera baza gutya, "kumarangamutima" cyangwa izindi mpamvu zidasanzwe. Kugirango ubigereho, kandi bitabaye ibyo umugabo akeneye intego. Niba umugore asobanukiwe n'impamvu zitwara umugabo we, bivuze ko bimwihariho cyane gushiraho itumanaho no gusobanukirwa. Kubwibyo, mbere yo kwamagana, kurakara no kutemeranya nigice cyawe, umva, birashoboka ko uzashobora kubona ingano zumvikana.
5. Byemezwa ko abagabo badahuye neza kurusha abagore, nubwo, mubyukuri, biterwa nububiko bwimiterere nubwoko bwa kamere. Hano hari abagabo-intore, kandi hariho intera. Ariko, birashobora kuvugwa twizeye ko amatsinda yamayeri mu bahagarariye igice cya kabiri cy'ubumuntu ari nko mu bagore. Kubwibyo, mugihe cyakazi, amabanga yacu ntagomba gusaranganywa nabandi cyangwa abandi, niba muri wowe, birumvikana ko nta cyifuzo cyo kuba ishusho nkuru yimyandikire.