Mu mwaka ushize, byari bigoye kubantu bose bahuye no kubona ubumenyi kumurongo, ariko imitwaro myinshi yaguye ku bitugu by'ababyeyi b'abanyeshuri b'abakobwa bato, disipuline yabo iracyafite byinshi byo kwifuzwa. Gusubiramo ibikoresho byanyuze byari ngombwa cyane, cyane mu manza aho umwana adahari kimwe cya kabiri cy'isomo, kandi umubyeyi yananiwe kugenzura. Ku bijyanye no gukora umukoro, abantu bose barashaka kurangiza vuba bishoboka, ariko icyarimwe bakabikora kugirango mwarimu adafite ikibazo. Nigute rero kugirango utazahindura iki gikorwa muri ikuzimu nyayo, akenshi bibaho gute? Tuzabibwira.
Kuraho ibintu byose
Ni ngombwa kwibuka ko umwana agora cyane kwibanda ku kindi kintu runaka, cyane cyane niba tuvuga amasomo atatu yambere. Umwana ntagomba kurangazwa no guhorana terefone cyangwa ku gikinisho ukunda. Mubisanzwe mugihe umwana asabwa kwitabwaho inshuro nyinshi kuruta ibisanzwe, ni ngombwa kwemeza ko ibintu bizafasha gukusanya ibitekerezo kugirango uzuza umukoro utaba ngombwa koroshya umunyeshuri. Ahantu kubuntu kuri mudasobwa igendanwa, ibitabo bikenewe nikaye - ibindi bikoresho byose, hamwe nibintu birangaza ibintu mugihe cyo kurangiza umukoro, cyangwa bibaye ngombwa, wihishe.
SI "Jean" ku mwana
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Menya ikintu kigoye cyane
Birashoboka ko wabonye ko ibintu bike (cyangwa kimwe) bitera gutinda cyane mugihe, kandi umurimo ntushobora kuba ingorabahizi mubitekerezo byawe, kandi nyamara nyamara, nyamara umwana afite hejuru yacyo. Shakisha "ingingo zintege nke" zumwana wawe nigihe kikimara gukora imirimo ikenewe iraza cyane, tangira gukora cyane cyane - mugihe umwana atagomba kunanirwa, azabihagarika umurimo utoroshye, ntutinde nyuma.
Ntujugunye ibyiyumvo byumwana
Ntutekereze ko ijanisha mugihe kitoroshye cyurugendo umukoro uramba gusa - umwana nawe ubabazwa nuko aho kuba afite ibibazo akunda agomba kumena umutwe ukurikiranye ko adafite. Ikintu kibi cyane ushobora gukora nugutangira gusakuza cyangwa kunegura, umwana azahita "azarambura", azarambura isohozwa ryurukoro mumasaha make. Ntabwo dushaka ibi? Kubwibyo, ugomba guhuza muri iyi kipe kandi hamwe numwana kugirango ufate igisubizo cyikibazo aho gusura umunyeshuri wawe.
Shakisha abafasha niba wowe ubwawe udahanganye
Bibaho kandi ko nubufasha bwawe butatanga imikorere myiza. Niki, usige byose nkuko bimeze? Birumvikana ko atari byo. Mugihe umukoro wakomejwe kugeza bwije, kandi ntushobora gufasha umwana wawe cyangwa umuntu mumuryango, ugomba kwitabaza ubufasha bwikibazo cyawe, ukuraho icyuho mubumenyi kandi gahunda isanzweho. Ntutekereze ko umurezi akeneye gusa impamyabumenyi gusa - vuba wita ku mwana wawe, ikibazo azaba gito mu gihe kizaza.