Nshuti basomyi, dukomeje gushakisha inzozi zacu ziduha amashusho ya bizarre.
Binyuze mu mvugo ngereranyo, amashusho, ikimenyetso batwibutsa ko imirimo yimbitse yo mumitekerereze ijya muri twe nubwo tudasaba izo mbaraga zidasanzwe.
Saba Inzozi zacu, dushobora gufungura umwenda w'izo mabanga n'ibibazo ko psyche "ikora".
Mperutse kunsanga ibaruwa ishimishije kandi ikora ku basomyi bacu, nahise nsubiza.
Nzorozi rero.
"Nkunze kurota inzozi zimwe, cyangwa ahubwo, ishingiro ryo gusinzira ni kimwe, kandi ibibera bitandukanye. Ntabwo nshobora gutaha, nibagirwa inzira inyuma, abantu bangose cyangwa ntibanyumve, cyangwa ntibazi aderesi. Ntabwo nshobora guhamagara murugo kubaza inzira, cyangwa kwibagirwa nimero ya terefone, cyangwa bateri ya terefone irasohoka. Mfite imyaka 63, kandi izi nzozi zizarota imyaka 20. Ntabwo ari inzozi z'amahano, ariko ibyiyumvo ntibishimishije cyane. "
Mbere yo gutanga inzozi zerekana isesengura, nzahindura ikintu kimwe ntacyo nzi kumiterere yubuzima bwe ubu hashize imyaka 20.
Ariko, ndakeka ko iyi nzozi yatangiye kurota vuba nyuma yibyabaye mubuzima bwe mubuzima bwe, bwabaye mumyaka 40-43.
Kubera ko iyi nkuru itazwi, urashobora gukora imyanzuro rusange.
Imitekerereze yiterambere nigice cya psychologiya ikorwa muburyo rusange bwo gukura kwabantu mubuzima bwe - kuva kera yageneye ikintu nkikibazo.
Imwe muribo ni igihe cy'ingimbi. Binyuze mu muyaga w'amarangamutima, ibyiyumvo, umuyaga, umwana yamaze kureka kuba umwana ibihe byose, yambuwe uburenganzira no kubona inshingano n'ubusanzure.
Igihe cyamamare kizwi cyane ni hagati yubuzima, I.e. hafi imyaka 40. Hafi yiki gihe ni ugusubiramo kwisi yose, indangagaciro zubuzima nibimenyetso.
Abantu bakomeye kandi bahanganye bakunze kuba barushijeho kuba batandukanye kandi bitondera ababo. Ubuyobozi bwabo bugiranye intsinzi byose kandi bishya bisimburwa no gushimangira umubano nabakunzi.
Kenshi na kenshi, imiryango myinshi iratandukanye mugihe abafatanyabikorwa babonye iki gihe. Abagabo n'abagore basobanukiwe ko babaye ababyeyi, muri byinshi mu rwego rwo guhana imiryango abana. Kandi mugihe abana bakuze kandi badakeneye kwita ku isaha, ababyeyi babo bafite umudendezo runaka, inyungu ndetse nishyaka ryo gutangira kubaho ubwabo.
Nk'uburyo, iki gihe kijyanye no kuba ibintu byinshi, harimo no kwifuza n'inzozi n'intimba zitari zigenewe gusohora, mu busore bwe, nta gikorwa cyo hanze kidashobora kugaruka, nubwo ibikorwa bito byo hanze no gukora.
Abantu benshi muriki gihe barihebye cyane kuburyo batangira bifitanye isano nubuzima bwabo nkaho yimukiye izuba rirenze, kandi nta mpamvu yo kuyihindura.
Muri make, ikibazo cyubuzima cyangwa ikibazo kiri imyaka 40 icyo gihe cyubuzima, mugihe hari imbaraga nyinshi, gahunda, amahirwe, ubuzima, bimaze kurengana.
Igice cyibyagezweho nibyagezweho mu rubyiruko, kuva kumwanya ukuze kandi ukuze, ntukisa nkizi agaciro kandi ni ngombwa. Ihangane ko yakoreshejwe mubyambaye ubusa, ibibazo, abantu badashaka kuvuga mubuzima. Nyuma ya byose, nkuko ubizi, igihe kiguruka vuba, mukuru.
Nyuma yuko buri wese muri twe ari muburyo bumwe cyangwa ikindi kibazo, abona inzu muri douche: Amabwiriza akuze, indangagaciro n'amahame ashobora kwishingikiriza. Nko nk'urugero, umubano wumwuka kandi wuzuye, ubwinshi no gutera imbere munzu, kubahiriza nyabyo byubumenyi bwabo, ubushobozi bwabo nubuhanga, ubuhanga, bitwite byumubiri nubugingo.
By the way, ijambo "Ikibazo" akenshi ritanga igicucu kibi, kandi imiterere igerageza kutabibona no kwirinda. Kandi kubusa: Ikibazo ni kimwe mubyiciro bikenewe byiterambere ryacu, kandi Ijambo rifite ubusobanuro nkubu nkuko "ikiraro" cyangwa "inzitizi".
Noneho reka dusubire mu nzozi z'inzozi zacu. Ahagana ku 43, yatangiye "gutakaza inzu, yibagirwe umuhanda," kandi imyaka 20 mu nzozi, iyi mbaho irabagarukira.
Ahari kumubwira ko agifite ibyabaye mumyaka 20 ishize. Ntibyanyuzemo nta kimenyetso, kuko igihe we yatakaje inzu. Cyangwa ibyo yabonaga bikomeye kandi yizewe, nk'inzu.
Kandi kubera ko ibyo byose byabaye mugihe cyibibazo cyangwa inzibacyuho, ntabwo byanyuze cyangwa bidafite akamaro. Binyuze mu nzozi, umusomyi wacu aracyashaka uburyo bwo gusubira kubamo ko bwahoze murugo byari byizewe kandi bidahungabana. Noneho ntashobora kumugarukira, birashoboka kuko noneho inzu ye igomba kuba hariya ari imwe: izindi ndangagaciro, Ibindi bikorwa, ubundi mibanire yubusabane, imyifatire yabo. Nkabo hari ibitotsi bya filozofiya.
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Maria Zebeskova, umuganga wa psychologue, Umuvuzi wumuryango, Amahugurwa Yambere Yimiryango Yiterambere Yumuntu Marka Khazina