Birumvikana ko igitsina gikora muburyo bwo gukemura ibibazo byinshi muri coupri, byongeye, biragoye gutanga umubano mwiza na mugenzi wawe niba imibonano mpuzabitsina ibabaye. Niba kandi mugihe cyibanziriza umubano cyangwa igitsina hanze yubucuti kiracyashobora gutangaza no kwishimira, noneho akenshi ukunze kugirana hamwe igice cya kabiri, aho umaze igihe kinini hamwe, ntibizongera kuzana umunezero nka mbere. Akenshi igitsina kititaye ku bihurira bikura kurambirana, hanyuma urashobora gutangira kwanga iyi nzira. Niki gishobora gutera imyifatire nk'iyi yakubwiye, bisa n'akanya gasanzwe muri couple? Twahisemo kumenya.
Iminyago
Nk'itegeko, kuba mu mubano muremure, tureka kugira ngo tumenye ko dukeneye gutangaza ubwabo kandi tukamenya icyo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, kandi ibyo bimurenze. Byongeye kandi, ubuzima bushyiraho ikimenyetso cyayo kumikorere yumvikana: Ihererekanyabubasha rya politiki cyangwa urujijo rwabana wakusanyije umuryango wose, birashobora kuba bito, ariko mugihe kinini cyane mugihe cyo kwishima no kuruhuka. Igenamiterere mbere yuko igitsina kigira uruhare runini, cyane cyane ku mugore, bivuze ko kugirango ubone ingaruka zimibonano mpuzabitsina utegereje, witondere igenamiterere - uzahita ubona itandukaniro.
Muganire na gato
Ntakintu gitangaje mubyukuri ko uhangayikishijwe no gukanda ibibazo byo murugo. Ariko, gutekereza ku cyemezo cyabo ntibigomba kwinjira mu cyumba cyo kuraramo. Nkuko twabivuze, umugore agomba "gusohoka" kandi yibanda kumugabo we - gusa muriki kibazo uzahabwa kunyurwa byuzuye. Gutekereza ibara rishya rya Plint mu gikoni, kugura uburyo bwo kwiga cyangwa kuzunguruka ikiganiro na leta rusange ntabwo aribyo bigomba kuguhangayikisha mugihe nkiki. Nibyo, imyifatire yacu kumihindagurikire yumufatanyabikorwa nimikorere yimbitse irahindurwa kandi iragaragara, ariko imvururu zidakwiye kuba imbata nubuzima nibibazo - va ibihe byose bidashimishije hanze yicyumba.
Muganire ku bihe byose
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Ntushobora kwatura umukunzi wawe
Bibaho kandi iyo miterere cyangwa ibyo ukunda mumibonano mpuzabitsina rwose ntabwo bihurirana, burigihe bizana imwe mubibazo nyabyo. Birasa natwe ko kumenyekana ari uko tekinike isanzwe yimibonano mpuzabitsina idashobora kuzana umunezero, ababaye cyane kandi izagira ingaruka mbi "ubuzima bwiza." Ariko, gucecekesha ibibazo kandi bihinduka akanya gahinduka igitsina mumadeni cyangwa iyicarubozo nyaryo. Ni ngombwa kwibuka ko imibonano mpuzabitsina idakwiye kuzana uretse kunyurwa no kurangiza ugomba kubona niba atari umunezero, imiterere iri hafi yibi. Amarangamutima mabi - impamvu yo gutekereza, kandi waba warashoboye kuganira na mugenzi wawe, birashoboka ko ugomba kwitondera ibihe bitabyo?