Itariki, cyane cyane iyambere, irashobora kuba ikizamini kitoroshye, ndetse no ku bantu bakuru b'inararibonye, icyo bavuga ku nyenyeri batangiye inzira yabo yokubera. Kenshi cyane, abana bahura nibibazo mubikoko byababyeyi bari mumuzi wibikoresho bitari byo, bityo bigatera inzitizi za psychologiya kumwana wabo. Ababyeyi baragerageza kurinda umwangavu ushishikaye kuva ku makosa, ariko bizihirwa uko bitandukana n'uruhande rw'igice cya kabiri, amakimbirane, kubera iyo ngo havutse, kuberako abantu barasenyuka. Kandi nyamara ababyeyi bagomba kumvikana ko bidashoboka kwirinda urukundo ibyo akunda umwangavu, bivuze ko hazabaho inshuti, ikintu cyingenzi nukubangamiye neza, ni ngombwa cyane kuvugana numukobwa, kuko the Igorofa intege nke ntishobora kwibasirwa no kunanirwa, cyane cyane kumuntu ku giti cye. Niki gukora umubyeyi uhangayitse, ingimbi ye igiye kwicara muri cafe hamwe numunyeshuri mwigana? Reka tubimenye.
Itariki irakomeye
By'umwihariko, inama nkizo ku rubyiruko, abantu bakuru bafite umuswa, batoragura imyambarire cyangwa imyenda, birasa nkaho bisekeje. Ariko ibi ntibisobanura na gato ko ugomba gushinyagurira no kwerekana kumugaragaro imyifatire yawe niba ari bibi. Kumwana, ubunararibonye burashobora gufata icyemezo kubisubizo byakurikiyeho. Ntabwo aringaniza, ahubwo ni igice cyuzuye cyubuzima bwumwangavu ugomba kubaha mama na papa.
Amatariki - intambwe y'ingenzi yo gukura
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Bwira umukobwa wawe kunanirwa
Nkuko tumaze kuvugurura inshuro zirenze imwe, kubangavu, ni ngombwa kwemerwa n'ibidukikije, bityo akaba umufatanyabikorwa w'umufatanyabikorwa ku munsi ushobora gushimangira umwanya wahohotewe, iyo umukobwa amenyereye ukuri ko ubushake bwa mugenzi wawe aricyo kintu cyingenzi. Imyitwarire nkiyi irashobora kuganisha kubibazo bikomeye cyane mugihe kizaza, niko umubyeyi ugomba kuba umubyeyi uzasobanura umuntu uzasobanura ko kwanga umubano nibisanzwe, ntukeneye kujya mubihe bya kabiri, niba Umufatanyabikorwa ntabwo abikwiriye.
Ku kamaro k'imibonano mpuzabitsina
Oya, birumvikana ko udakeneye kubyara igitekerezo cy'umwangavu ku buryo nkeneye kwemeranya na buri mufatanyabikorwa mushya ku munsi wa mbere, niba ashimangiye. Ariko, gutinza ikiganiro kijyanye niki kandi byanze bikunze bibaho, ntibikwiye. Tubwire akamaro ko guhuza imibonano mpuzabitsina neza nuburyo ubwoko bwindanga bubaho, hiyongereye, buzingira ingimbi kuko ashobora guhora yiringira inkunga utazigera uyitwara mugihe cyibibazo. Uzagabanya rero guhangayika kandi urashobora kwirinda rwose ibibazo byinshi, niba bihari, ingimbi izavuka.