Ababyeyi benshi bagerageza kumenya impano yabana kuva bakiri bato. Ariko uburyo bwo kubikora neza no gutangira gutera imbere muburyo bwiza?
Icy'ingenzi ni ukureba umwana. Ahanini, abana bagaragaza inyungu zabo ubwabo, akenshi atari muri utwo turere ko byoroshye.
Bumwe mu buryo bwizewe bwo kumenya impengamiro y'umwana ari ikizamini cyoroshye, kizaba gifite akamaro kumwana kuva kumezi 6 kugeza ku mwaka.
Noneho, intera imwe numwana, ingingo 4 zigomba gushyirwa: igitabo, ibiceri bike, intwaro zikinisha hamwe ninyundo. Biterwa nuburyo umwana azakuramo, urashobora guhitamo kumenya impengamiro yumwana.
Guhitamo igitabo kivuga ubwoko nk'ubwo nk'umunyabwenge. Muri aba bana bakura abahanga beza, abaganga, abahanga mu bya psychologue n'abarimu. Umwana nk'uwo akeneye kubona amakuru mashya; Kandi kubana nkabo ni ngombwa ko bumvise ibitekerezo byabo kandi bavukana no gusobanukirwa.
Igitabo kizahitamo abanyabwenge
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Niba umwana wawe ashishikaye akina "iduka", ahora inguranahana umuntu kubintu bitandukanye kandi byongeye kugera ku biceri - birashobora gutekereza ko ari uw'ubwoko bw'ubucuruzi. Kubucuruzi bwiza no kwihangira imirimo. Abana nkabo bakeneye kwiga neza kugirango bakemure imari, ababyeyi bagomba kuba kumwana ufite abafasha b'imari.
Niba umwana yahisemo intwaro, noneho birashobora gufatwa ko imyuga nk'akagari, umutwe cyangwa umunyapolitiki bikwiranye rwose. Ubu bwoko bwitwa umuyobozi, kandi ubwoko bwumwana buratunganye kumikino iyo ari yo yose ishobora guhana.
Guhitamo Hammerman avuga kubyerekeye ubwoko bwubukorikori
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Guhitamo inyundo ivuga kubyerekeye ubwoko bwubukorikori. Abana nkabo bakunze kwishora mubushishozi, kandi iyi ishobora kuba yinjiza. Abahanzi, Abanyabwenge, abashushanya n'abubatsi babireba. Abana rero bakeneye byose kugirango bahangane. Muri icyo gihe, ni ngombwa kudahatira umwana gusobanukirwa na siyanse.
Yo kwizerwa, iyi igeragezwa rigomba gusubirwamo mucyumweru. Gukora nkigisubizo, ugomba kugerageza kuyobora umwana mu buryo bukwiye, mugihe udahanze umutwe. Ariko, iki kizamini ntabwo giha ababyeyi umwuga wihariye umwana azatsinda, ariko ashyiraho icyerekezo cya Vector.