Umubano aho ari Henger, ntamuntu utangazwa. Mu bagore, ndetse no kwimyambarire kugira uwo bashakanye. Hoba hariho urukundo rufite itandukaniro rifite imyaka, ni bwo bukwe bushobora kwitwa gukomeye, aho umugore akuze kuruta umugabo, kandi niba umuhanga mu muryango olga Roma Roma Romaman azwi ko umuhanga mu mitekerereze.
Muri iki gihe, umubare munini w'abagore batsinze kandi bazwi cyane barashobora kwirata ishyingiranwa ryiza n'umugabo muto. Umukinnyi wa Filianna Moore afite imyaka hafi icumi kurenza umugabo we Barta Frundlich. Hugh Jackman akiri muto kurenza umugore we imyaka cumi n'itatu. Umuhanzi shakira Gerard Piqusen imyaka icumi. Yana Rudkovskaya yakuze cyane Evgeny Plushenko imyaka umunani. Itandukaniro riri hagati yimyaka hagati ya Nonaya Grishava nuwo mwashakanye Alexander nesterov ni imyaka cumi n'ibiri.
Kuki abasore bazana umubano nabagore bakuze?
Nk'uko byatangajwe na psychologiste, abaganga, abaganga, itandukaniro riringaniye mumyaka - imyaka itanu kugeza kuri irindwi, kandi umugabo agomba kuba mukuru muri bombi.
Muri ibyo byombi hariho urukundo, gusobanukirwa no kubaha bijyanye nuwo mwashakanye, kuko akuze kandi mugihe cyo gushyingirwa yamaze kugera kubintu mubuzima, bitera urufatiro rwumuryango we uzaza. Muri ibyo duhuriyeho, umugore, nk'ubutegetsi, ashobora kwihanganira kudakora, kwishora mu nzu ndetse n'abana. Ubu bwoko bwimibanire bushobora gusobanurwa nkumukurambere. Ariko, kuva mugihe gito umugore yatangiraga gukora no kwinjiza kuri parne hamwe nabagabo, uruhare mumuryango na societe bahindutse cyane. Abagore babonye ubwigenge batangira gutegeka imiterere yabo. Kandi ubukwe bwaturutse kuri sokuru bwahindutse umufasha. Muri ubwo bumwe, uyu munsi urashobora kubona akenshi abafatanyabikorwa bafite imyaka myinshi, kandi umugore azaba mukuru.
Umubano nk'uwo umeze ute?
Umubano nk'uwo urashobora kuba igihe kirekire. Abasore bakurura abategarugori bakuze byoroshye psychologiya: Kurekura Kurekura Kugaragara ko umuntu agomba kubikora - ni umufatanyabikorwa ungana. Mugihe kimwe, psychologiya yumugabo izi neza, mugihe gikwiye cyiteguye gusimbuza urutugu, inkunga ntabwo ari mumico gusa, ahubwo no mubintu. Arashobora gufunga amaso kumakosa amwe. Nibyo, ntibishoboka guhakana ko rimwe na rimwe habaho kubara mu nkunga nk'ubwo. Ariko akenshi umugabo ahitamo ntabwo ari amafaranga, itumanaho nubusa. Birashoboka, mu bwana, abo bagabo nk'abo bari bafite umubano mwiza na nyina, bityo rero, igihe cyo gihe cyo gutegura ubuzima bwe, bahisemo amahitamo meza kuri bo - umugore w'inararibonye.
Ishyingiranwa ridashingiye ku bucuruzi rishinzwe iki?
Gushyingirwa hamwe numugabo muto cyane, uhindure igitutu runaka kumugore. Hariho ibyiza byinshi. Gushyingirwa hamwe no guhitamo buto - imbaraga nyinshi ntigomba gutandukanywa no kudacogora. N'ubundi kandi, akenshi nimwe mu mpamvu zitera gutandukana mu gushyingiranwa n'ubwoko bw'abakurambere buhinduka ko umugore areka gukurikiza. Yibagiwe ko abantu bakunda amaso kenshi. Kubwibyo, barashaka kubona hamwe numugore wogosha kandi mwiza witaho ubwabo. Umugore umaze uruta umugabo we ntafite umwanya wo kuruhuka, azi neza amarushanwa ku marushanwa "y'umugeni", hagomba guhora hagomba kubaho intambwe ebyiri imbere.