Ntabwo igitabo kimwe cyanditswe gishingiye ku nkuru zubuzima bwabantu, aho, ukurikije ibisubizo, umuntu ahora ari umwe - baricuza amakosa yabo kandi bahamagare ibizaza. Ariko ni ukuri ko ushobora kunyura muri gahunda yimyaka itanu mumyaka itatu, ni gute inzoga muri USSR? Soma aya Mategeko hanyuma uhitemo niba bishoboka gutsinda 30, kandi nibyiza kuba inzozi za Millenialov.
1. Ubuzima ni uburinganire bworoshye hagati "yiteguye, intego, umuriro" no "kwitegura, umuriro, intego, intego." Birashoboka cyane, mubisanzwe ukunda kuri bumwe muri ubwo buryo: haba witonda cyangwa ushize amanga. Ikigaragara ni uko ibintu bimwe bisaba kwitonda neza no gutekereza, mugihe abandi basaba ko uhita uhindura ibibera mbere yuko ugira umwanya wo kudakora ibi. Niba ufashe inguzanyo nini kugirango utangire ubucuruzi, ugomba kwitonda. Niba utekereza gukora umuyoboro kuri YouTube, ugomba gutangira gusa. Ibyo ari byo byose, urumva neza itandukaniro.
2. Ugomba kwikora ibintu byinshi bishoboka. Steve Jobs yateguye imiterere yumukara wirabura, imyenda yubururu hamwe na sneneake yera. Mark Zuckerburg ahanini aribeho T-Shirts. Barack Obama yahisemo buri munsi hagati yicyatsi kibisi nicyijimye. Igihe kirekire n'imbaraga umara kubidafite akamaro, ntabwo ari ugushaka gukora ibyo bibazo. Teza imbere igenamiterere risanzwe mubice byose byubuzima bwawe: imyenda, ibiryo, ibihe bya mugitondo, nibindi urashaka umwanya ushoboka mubuzima bwawe kuri autopilot abantu benshi ntibigera bingana Ntugafate.
3. Inzira ni ngombwa kuruta gutangira. Tumara umwanya munini twizihiza intangiriro y'ibikorwa, ariko ntibihagije byo gushishikariza abantu iyo bibaye bibi.
4. Uzishima cyane niba ukunda urugendo kuruta aho ujya. Urugendo ntabwo ari ngombwa kuruta umurongo utangira, ariko narwo rurangira. Niba ibintu byose biguhangayikishije cyane kumusozi, kuzamuka bizagorana. Ikindi kintu kiranga umurongo nintego igenda. Mugihe ukimara wegera umurongo umwe, uzabona ikindi, kizarushaho kuba cyiza.
5. Umubano wawe wose uzahinduka cyane. Muri kaminuza nagize umuryango utangaje w'inshuti, harimo uruziga rw'imbere, kandi natekereje ko tugiye kugumana hamwe igihe kirekire. Ariko ubuzima bubyara abantu kubwimpamvu zitandukanye. Ntahantu ho kurakara hano - ugomba gufata iki cyimuka karemano kandi byoroshye reka abantu. Mugihe urwanira kubungabunga umubano mwinshi, wimbitse bihagije kugirango ugushyigikire muri iki gihe, urashobora guhagarara neza mu mirizo no kuririmba abantu baza bava mu buzima bwawe.
6. Ibyahise bikoreshwa neza nkisoko yo gushimira. Ku bijyanye na kahise, hari amakosa abiri akomeye: Gutura kubintu bibi cyangwa gukundana neza. Iharanira kubaho muriki gihe, ariko ntuzibagirwe ibibagejejeho kuba kuriyi ngingo. Urebye inyuma, wibande kubyo ushobora gushimira nonaha. Hamwe na buri wese muri twe harimo ibihumbi icumi bitangaje tutari bikwiye.
7. Kuruhuka nibisanzwe niba ikora. Birasa nkaho buriwese yanga gutebya, ariko ntabwo buri gihe ari bibi. Abantu benshi basubiye mubibazo nyuma barashobora kubasohoza vuba mbere yigihe ntarengwa. Nibyo, irashobora gutera imihangayiko, ariko mubuzima bwawe hari ahantu henshi ukeneye gukora. Niba gutebya bifasha gukora akazi, birashoboka ko atari ikintu cya mbere ugomba gukosora.
Amafaranga aguha umudendezo - aba ni Agaciro kabo
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8. Intumwa - Umwicanyi utuje winzozi zawe za hafi. Ntamwanya, niba wowe ubwawe utabaremye. Abantu benshi ntibigera bahagarara kandi ntibasobanura ibitego byabo byimbitse kandi byingenzi - ibi bibemerera guhugukira igihe kitazwi. Niba udasize kandi ntuvuge ko ushaka kwandika igitabo, ibi ntibizabaho.
9. Urashobora kwihitiramo, nubwo waba ufite gahunda. Ku bijyanye no gushinga gahunda yimyaka 10, imwe mu nzitizi zikomeye zabantu nuko bashima ubwayo kandi ntibashaka ko bahuzwa. Birakwiye, ariko ni ngombwa kwibuka ko gahunda zawe, intego zawe na kalendari igukorera, kandi ntabwo bitandukanye. Niba ushaka guhindura ikintu, hindura. Niba ushaka kwihitiramo, witange. Gahunda zikuyobora mu cyerekezo cyiza kugirango utamanuka mumasomo. Ariko niba ukeneye guhindura amasomo kubera impinduka mumico yawe nibyihutirwa, kora ibi utatekereje.
10. Ku mafaranga ushobora kugura byinshi, ariko cyane, ibyo bashobora kugura ni umudendezo. Vuga iyi bwigenge bwamafaranga, izina ni pansiyo, vuga uko ubishaka. Gurundanya amafaranga ahagije biguha umudendezo wo kubaho kubwanyu. Urashobora gukora ibyo ushaka mugihe ubishaka, kandi muri ubwo buryo ushaka. Iragerwaho kubantu benshi, ariko ugomba gukora nkana.
11. Ntukajye mu bwoba bw'abandi. Mugihe uhisemo gusimbuka hanze yurwego rwo hagati hejuru, uzahura no kurwanya abantu bakeneye gukunda no kugutera inkunga. Ntibatekereza ko barimbura inzozi zawe, batekereza ko bagukiza gutenguha. Muri icyo gihe, ntibatekereje ko bazongera kugukurura kuri mediocre. Shimira kubyo bakwitayeho, ariko ufite ubwenge bwo guhitamo mugihe badakeneye kumva.
12. Ntabwo ari bibi. Ntutinye imyaka. Nibyo, umubiri wawe uzahinduka hamwe na we kandi hazafatwa, ariko ubuzima buzahinduka. Buri myaka afite ibyiza byayo, kandi uzamenya kubashima icyarimwe.
13. Ibyishimo bigomba kwibandwaho mubukwe. Niba uhisemo kurushinga, ubikore nibitekerezo ufite amahirwe yo gukunda undi muntu. Ubukwe ubwabwo ntibuzagushimisha, ariko urashobora kwishima cyane no kumenya ko uri umufasha ugerageza kuzamura imibereho yawe.
14. Shakisha ubwawe - Nibyiza, ntukubone - ndetse neza. Igitangaje, inzira nziza yo kwishima ni uguharanira umunezero wabandi, kandi ntukizere. Muri iki gihe, hitabwaho kwitondera kwiyitaho, no "kwishakisha" byahoze ari ikintu gisore rudakwiye gukora. Ariko dore inama: Ukimara kurota ibyo ukeneye kumenya uburyo wihuta muriwe. Umuntu wuzuye yiteguye gusangira imbaraga nziza nisi - kora!
15. Kuba uwatsinzwe nibisanzwe. Ntutinye kunanirwa mubintu - ubu bwoba buganisha ku kudakora, kandi kudakora kubuza uburebure bwawe. Amakuru rero: Ntamuntu numwe wigeze ashakisha ibisubizo byiza nta makosa. Ntamuntu numwe. Utekereza ko wize kugenda iki? Rimwe mubana, dutangira kumva ibyo gutsindwa nikintu kirimo urujijo. Byihuse ujugunya iki gitekerezo cyubupfu kuva kumutwe, nibyiza.
16. Ikintu gikwiye gutinya ni impuhwe. Kubantu benshi cyane, ibi nibinyuranye. Batinya gutsindwa, ariko ntibigirire impuhwe. Mugihe ubonye byombi, uzumva ko bidashoboka kugereranya ibi bikorwa: kugirira impuhwe inshuro miriyoni mbi kuruta gutsindwa.
17. Mugihe ucunga imbaraga zawe, icy'ingenzi, mugihe ucunga igihe. Ku bijyanye n'umusaruro, hashimangirwa kenshi ku micungire y'igihe. Byumvikane neza, kubera ko gukoresha neza igihe byayo rwose ari igice cyatanga umusaruro, ariko iyi ntabwo ari ishusho yuzuye. Niba ushaka gusohoza ibintu byingenzi, ugomba no kuyobora imbaraga no kwitabwaho. Nubwo wishyura igihe kingana iki kubintu runaka, niba ubwonko bwawe bwahagaritse kandi ntushobora kwibanda kumurimo uriho. Niba utarize kuruhuka mumutwe no gutegura isomo rishya, umusaruro wawe uzababara.
18. Ubuzima bwawe nubutunzi bwawe. Birashoboka cyane, hamwe n'imyaka, uracyafata umwanya wubuzima budakomeye. Impamvu nyamukuru zitera urupfu ni indwara zidakira. Niba upfuye mbere, hari amahirwe make ko ari impanuka, kandi birashoboka ko bizahinduka julsenits. Kora ibishoboka byose kugirango ugaruke rwose gukoresha isukari hamwe nibicuruzwa byarangiye. Genda gutembera. Kurya amasahani y'ibigo. Fata umwanya hamwe nabantu ukunda. Imibereho isanzwe ni inzira yindwara zidakira. Niba ushaka ibindi bisubizo, ukeneye izindi ngeso.
19. Umuntu wese azi ibyo utazi. Nubwo waba uri kuruhande rwibiganiro, birashoboka ko uwo muhanganye azi ikintu kijyanye n'impaka, utazi. Gira kwicisha bugufi kugirango wumve abandi, kandi uzakomeza kwiyongera.
Kugerageza ninzira nziza yo kubona inama. Uzakira inama nyinshi, ibyinshi muribyo bizavuguruzanya. Amafaranga akomeye yumuhanda, kandi siyanse ihagaze kubibazo bigoye biratera imbere buhoro buhoro. Ibi ntabwo ari ugukubita siyanse, ni ugutekereza ko inzira yihuta yo gutera imbere kugirango ikora urukurikirane rw'ubushakashatsi. Ibi bireba ahantu hose. Gerageza ukwezi kugirango utange icyo gice gisanzwe cyubuzima bwawe. Niba udatsinzwe nka - byiza. Niba uyu aribwo kwezi bubi mubuzima bwawe, urashobora gushakisha ikindi kintu cyose kugirango uzigame amadorari make.
Aya mategeko yubuzima ntabwo ahagarika gukenera kugenda
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21. Wibande ku mpinduka ntoya yingenzi cyane. Ihame rya Pareto rizwi kandi ku itegeko 80/20 - rivuga ko 80% by'ibisubizo bizana imbaraga 20%. Muyandi magambo, urashobora hafi guhora ubona amahirwe aho impinduka nto zifite akamaro kanini. Kurugero, mugihe cyo kugabanya ibiro, kugabanuka muri soda n'umutobe ni impinduka imwe gusa, ariko irashobora guhindura ubuzima bwawe rwose.
22. gutwara ikarita. Bishobora gufata igihe kugirango umenye icyo ngeso yo kuyobora ikarita, ariko birakwiye. Abantu benshi bari muburyo bwa jet umunsi wose. Imyitozo yo kuyobora ikarita irakwigisha kubitekerezo byo kuvugana nawe no kwimura ikintu kurupapuro.
23. Niba ushobora gushimira uko uteye imbere, ushimishijwe aho ujya, kandi ukunda uru rugendo, urazerera. Ubu ni umubano mwiza nigihe: ibyahise, impano n'ejo hazaza.
24. Shakisha ibisobanuro mu mbogamizi zawe. Abantu batishimye bakunda gutekereza kunanirwa nk'ibihute byangije ibyiza ("Ntabwo nigeze ndushaho imigisha isigaye (" mu gihe abantu bakuru batanga umusaruro bakabona imigisha yiyobera ("Gutandukana ni ikintu kibabaza cyane cyabaye Kuri njye, ariko ndishimye cyane n'umugore wanjye mushya "). Ababaho ubuzima bwababaye cyane - batanga umwenda mumiryango yabo, societe, amaherezo, ubwabo - mubisanzwe shakisha ibisobanuro mu mbogamizi zabo.
25. Niba udakunda inkuru uvuga, hindura inzira y'ibikorwa. Amateka nubuzima bwawe, kandi gusa uhitamo uko bizatera imbere. Urashobora kwicara ugategereza inkuba, kandi urashobora gutsinda byose wenyine. Wibwire ko uri uwatsinzwe ninkuru. Kugira ngo wibwire ko umaze kuba uwatsinzwe, ariko noneho ibintu byose byarahindutse - nanone amateka. Ibintu bimwe, ariko ibisubizo bitandukanye.
26. Intege nke zawe nimbaraga zawe. Urimo hysractive muri kamere? Ihindure muri siporo cyangwa mukuzuza imirimo yihuse yubucuruzi bisaba kwibanda cyane mugihe gito. Koresha indina yawe muburyo bwawe.
27. Gerageza gutandukanya uburyo umara umwanya, uko ubona amafaranga. Hariho inzira imwe yo gushaka amafaranga: Kugurisha. Abantu benshi bagurisha igihe cyabo kumafaranga. Nibyiza gukoresha umwanya wawe mugukora ikintu gishobora kugurishwa hiyongereyeho umwanya.
28. Imyifatire yonyine yumvikana irashimira. Uzakunze kubona ibishuko byo kwinubira ubuzima bwawe. Uhabwa byinshi kuburyo udakwiriye - ababyeyi beza, ubuzima bwiza cyangwa isura nziza. Niki, nk'urugero, wari ukwiye umutima utsindira? Ibyo ufite byose ni impano. Gushimira ntabwo aribyo gusa, bifite ingaruka zo gukiza.
29. Ikintu kikurakaza imyaka ni ukuze. Mugihe umaze mukuru, ubushobozi busanzwe butangira kugabanuka. Impinga yimbaraga zawe zumubiri nubwenge zigwa imyaka 20. Hamwe n'imyaka, biracyashoboka kuzamura umubiri wawe n'ubwenge bwawe, kuko bishoboka cyane, ntabwo wari hafi ubushobozi bwawe mumyaka 20. Uturere ushobora guhora utezimbere ni ubwenge nimiterere. Witondere umubiri wawe, ariko niba ushaka kugera ku mpinga nyuma yimyaka 21, ugomba kwibanda kumiterere nubwenge.
30. Amasomo ntagarurwa kurutonde. Igitangaje cyo kurangiza ingingo ni mubyukuri muribi. Abantu benshi cyane basoma urutonde rusa, wumve neza umunota, hanyuma ukomeze kwimuka bidahindutse. Inzira yonyine yo gukura ni ugusohoka ahantu heza, ugerageza no gushyira mubikorwa ibintu. Kora!