Akamaro k'amahame mbonezamubano ni kamwe mu ngingo zikomeye muri sociologiya, cyane cyane mu nyigisho z'umuryango n'imibanire. Amahame mbonezamubano akenshi afatwa nkuburyo bwo kuyobora imibereho. Bamwe mu mahame amwe basobanura nk'ibipimo bitanga umusaruro mu bikorwa bibagirira akamaro kuri bo sosiyete. Andi mategeko afatwa nko kugira ingaruka mbi, nkabahame nubwiza bwumugore nuburemere. Muri ibi bikoresho, reka tuganire kumpamvu kugerageza kuvuga muri make umwana munsi yibisanzwe byerekana ababyeyi bitameze neza.
Byihuse, hejuru, bikomeye
Ntibitangaje mu rubyiruko agenda mu gisekeje kijyanye n '"umuhungu w'umukunzi wa nyina" - interuro ishimishije yerekana ikibazo gikabije cy'imibereho yose ihura nazo. Ushaka kubona chado mugihe kizaza cyatsinze, ababyeyi bagerageza kubitera muburyo butandukanye. Niba umuryango wuje urukundo usanzwe utangwa guhitamo kwishimisha, kwishyura amasomo hamwe numurezi cyangwa koherezwa mu kigo cyururimi, hanyuma mubindi bihe, ababyeyi bagarukira gusa kugasuzuguro. Byongeye kandi, agasuzuguro ntabwo buri gihe kigaragazwa muburyo bwuguruye nkibitutsi. Akenshi uzwiho kuri formula "Turagushaka kurushaho": kugereranya no kurushaho urungano rwa bene wabo kandi ku buryo bikaba bikaba bikaba bikangura umwana bahaguruka muri sofa no gutangira gukina.
Ntukore imyigire, ugereranije nabandi
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Ntabwo ndaroheye
Mugihe abana bamwe biruka bishimye bazenguruka ikibuga kandi, kubyerekeye amahano, bemera guseka muri cafe ndanguruye kandi bakina amenyo kumeza, abandi baricara vuba bakavuga bongorerana. Igishimishije, mumuco wu Burayi, cyane cyane mu Butaliyani na Espagne, abana barumirwa no kwangiza abana - nta bakuze ntibazashobora gupfunyika umwana kurira cyangwa guseka cyane. Abana bacu kuva mu bwana bwigishijwe batembera ibyatsi kugirango batagaragara - muminsi mikuru ni uwera kumeza yimyidagaduro mucyumba cy'imyidagaduro no kubuza kwivanga mu kiganiro cyabantu bakuru. Gusa ntutangazwe nuko umwana wungirije nawe ntashaka kuvugana nawe, kuko yakoreshwaga mugihe cyahorewe kandi yigushimishije.
Ubushakashatsi ntibushobora guhagarikwa
Nubwo umukobwa wawe atandukanya imyambarire mishya, yihuta kuva kunyerera, kandi umuhungu azagwa mu igare riza mu mashaza yashizwemo - ntabwo aritera ubwoba. Mbere yo kongera ijwi no gutukana, tekereza byibuze umunota - niki uzirikana umwana? Icyitonderwa no kwifuza kwangiza ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, watewe n'ababyeyi n'abukuru, bizamuka muri we icyifuzo cyo guhinda uburebure bw'inzozi zabo. Inzira yo gutsinda buri gihe ibinyoma binyuze murukurikirane rwimukanuke kandi igwa, kandi ntabwo ari ugucogora, akeneye imiterere yicyuma nubunararibonye bwubuzima. Nta na rimwe mu ipantaro yatanyaguwe ntabwo ihagaze ku mwana n'ibyishimo bivuye ku mutima mu maso.
Reka umwana akemure isi hirya no hino
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Ibuka isabukuru yumwana igihe cyose ushaka gusakuza cyangwa gukubita. Kuri uyu munsi niho waguye rwose - ntugasaze umubano wubatswe imyaka myinshi kugirango ubone intege nke yiminota.