Abagore bamwe bambara mu maboko, arinda kandi ubwoba bwo gutakaza, abandi bahatirwa guhangayikishwa burundu, niba umufatanyabikorwa afite umubano kuruhande. Gahunda Zambere "Imiyoboro iteje akaga" kuri TV "kuri che!" Denis Grebenya na Dmitry RYBIN ntabwo banyuzwe nimiryango yo mu Burusiya ku kizamini cy'ubudahemuka kandi, yishingikirije mu myaka myinshi y'uburambe, barashobora kuvuga bafite icyizere ko abagore bahinduka. Twaganiriye n'impuguke dusanga hari ingaruka zitemetse cyangwa nyuma nyuma yo gusangira umufatanyabikorwa na nyirabuja.
Denis Grebenya na Dmitry Rybin
"Nagukoreye byose, nawe!"
Abagore bahitamo mu buryo bubi "umurimo", baragomba kwifotorwa mu mpandegisho z'urukundo. Bashyizemo inyungu z'abakundwa kuruta iyabo bwite: kugenzura gahunda yayo y'akazi, bashishikaye gusangiraga basangiye muri kontineri, kandi mu rugo ntimubemerera no gusuka icyayi bonyine. Kubitekerezo byabo, urukundo rugaragarira. Mubyukuri, iki nikimenyetso cyerekana ibyiyumvo bivuye ku mutima, ariko ibigo byayo. Niba uwatoranijwe adatanze ikinyagi igice cye, atambura amahitamo ye, ntabishaka bimutera kwishingikiriza no kugerageza kuvuga ati: "Ntushobora kubyitwaramo ntari kumwe! Urankeneye! " Ibibanza nkibi nibimenyetso byubushishozi.
Icyemezo : Reka gukora umuhungu muto kubantu bakuze. Wibuke ko Hyperopka yararakaye, kandi umufatanyabikorwa azahunga ava muri "guhumeka" kwerekana urukundo akunda umuntu uzamuha ubworohewe.
Byatoranijwe - vest amarira
Ntabwo ibanga kuba abashakanye bifuza hamwe buhoro buhoro bakurura abantu kuri mugenzi wabo; Umubano wabo uratuje. Mu bakunzi bashishikaye, bahinduka abo bagaragaje, birasanzwe. Yabuze gushimisha, kuko we, mbere ya buri nama wagize impungenge, hanyuma, ntashobora gusinzira, ubu aragutegereje murugo.
Urashobora gusuka ubugingo bwanjye kubugingo bwanjye, vuga ku gutsindwa mu kazi no gutongana n'abakobwa. Umuntu wanyweye mu biro bishinzwe gusuzuma kuba hamwe "no ku musozi, kandi mu byishimo"?
Gushaka inama kumukunzi wawe, gusangira ibitekerezo byimbitse ni ikintu kimwe, kandi ikindi gihe - burigihe kwinubira ubuzima, kandi ni iki kibi - kurakara kumufatanyabikorwa. Kwibanda kubibazo byabo no kutitaho ibintu byatoranijwe bizamusunika kugirango abone uwo awumva.
Icyemezo : Iyo umuntu yumva umunaniro cyangwa ubugome, atakaza intego. Ahari igice cyawe cya kabiri nacyo gihe kigoye kandi inkunga ni ngombwa kuri we. Ntukihute kugirango umenye umubano no kuruhuka mubibi - nibyiza gutegura reboot ahuriweho: uzahitamo umujyi cyangwa ngo uhitemo ifunguro ryurukundo.
Ntukihutire kumenya umubano no kuruhuka mubibi - nibyiza gutegura reboot ihuriweho
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"Yego, aho bijya!"
Ibyago byo kubeshya ntibirinze gusa aho umugore ahora ashaka gushimisha, ariko no mu bumwe buri gihe umugabo amaze igihe kinini afatwa nkawe. Muri iki kibazo, birashobora kugereranywa ninkono ya buri gice mu nkono: imyaka myinshi ihagaze kuri widirishya, nta gukoresha, kandi mumbabarire neza.
Buri wese muri mwe yamaze igihe kinini, ikintu cyonyine kihuza abafatanyabikorwa ni firigo kandi gikurura bidasanzwe. Muri uru rubanza, umugore ashobora kumenyera kumenyera igihuru cye, iyo umugabo yagiye ahandi cyangwa abone ihumure ribangikanye kuruhande.
Icyemezo : Umva ahatinze utitaye kuri mugenzi wawe? Umva gukundana. Urukundo mubuzima bwawe kandi wibuke, kubyo wahisemo. Ikintu nyamukuru - akenshi wibutse kandi umuntu mugihe uha agaciro.
Denis Grebenyek, Kuyobora Ukuri "Guhuza akaga" kuri TV "kuri che!":
Imibare ya gahunda yacu iremeza gusa akamaro: abagabo bahinduka kenshi. Mubisanzwe bisigaye kujya kwiyahura cyangwa Trite kugirango uhaze ibikenewe.
Ntugomba gushaka impamvu muriwe, kuko bahinduka nabakobwa bizeye cyane.
Nshuti Banyarwandakazi, ntugafate kumufatanyabikorwa nkumugezi wo kuzigama. Ibyiyumvo byinshi byo kwihesha agaciro, kubaha no gukunda wenyine. Abagabo bazizihizwa kandi bazagufata neza.
Ubuzima na Monony Gukubita umubano. Niba ugerageje gutandukanya gahunda n'amarangamutima mashya, kandi umugabo aracyitayeho, ntutinye kureka. Ntuzigere utsimbarara ku bapfuye.