Izi nzozi zaje kuri njye kubwamahirwe, ariko sinshobora kugufasha ariko kubizana hano nkurugero. Iki nigishushanyo kigaragara cyukuntu inzozi zigaragaza imyifatire yacu ubwabo, ibintu biriho cyangwa ibyabaye kera. Bagaragaza kandi guhindura imyizerere yacu.
Urugero rwuyu munsi ni inzozi hamwe numukobwa uri munsi yumunsi wamavuko. Mubyukuri, ibyo ni ikindi kiruhuko. Mubwana, kuri benshi - iyi niyo mpamvu yibyishimo, amagambo ashyushye, inshuti, impano. Mubukure, dukomeje kuyizihiza hamwe nimwe: Inshuti n'abavandimwe bavuga amagambo ashyushye, tanga ikintu, ibinyobwa kumeza abandi, hari uburyo bukomeye mu biruhuko: birashimishije, urusaku, kwishimisha. Ariko niba urebye kuri iyi josi, twishimira kuba buri mwaka tumeze cyane kandi hiryakayo imyaka myinshi, ubuzima bwacu bugabanuka, kwifuza, guhangayika, kurakara, kurakara bidahwitse. Ibi ntibikiri umunezero w'abana, isabukuru ni ibibazo bihari kuri wewe.
Inyuguti yinzozi zacu rero iratangira:
"Mu isabukuru yanjye, kubera ko kwigaragaza gukomeye kwandujwe muri njye."
Ntabwo nzatanga byose ibaruwa, ni ngombwa kumva umwuka wacyo urangije izindi nkuru. Kuri uyu munsi, yategereje umuhamagaro wo kuri mama, ariko ntiyarindi gutegereza. Nyirakuru yahamagaye, ni imyaka itari imaze imyaka myinshi mu nteko ishinga amategeko muri Mama n'umukobwa bavuga. Kandi ururimi rwinini rutangira gusobanura ko nyina wa heroine yacu yinzozi yemera ko amafaranga gusa akenewe kuri we. Ni ngombwa kuvuga ko uyu ari mama n'umukobwa bakuze babayeho kuva kera bakuyemo amafaranga wenyine. Inzozi zacu zirarakaye zivuga ko ibi byose bitagiye kumva kandi ntibizongera kwemerera mamiplation hamwe no kumva neza ko bitera kwicira urubanza ko bitera kwicira urubanza ku buryo bizokwitegura guhura no kuvugana na Mama nyuma y'inama rusange hamwe na Therapiste ibyo bazubaka ibiganiro bishya, bisukuye hamwe.
Noneho ibitotsi bye:
Ati: "Nyuma y'ibyo, habaye inzozi nyinshi, imwe yibukijwe: ndeba umukobwa ugenda ku bigo hejuru ya gari ya moshi, angana na gato, asama inda, ndabona imvururu, hamwe ubwoko bumwe bwimodoka, gutwikira muri paki yirabura. Ndumva ko umukobwa yasimbuye insinga munsi ya gari ya moshi. Numva nicira urubanza, Mfite ubwoba, gitunguranye umuntu azi ko ndi umwere. Igihe nabyutse, byari ibintu binyuranye - nk'aho nakoze ikintu cy'ingenzi kandi gifite agaciro, kandi igice cyarasigaye muri njye, cyateje ikinamico n'ububabare bwinshi. "
Ahari igitekerezo cyerekana neza yiyise wenyine. Umugore uringaniza ku nsinga ni mu buryo bushingiye ku mibanire na mama: Intambwe zose zihishe kandi utitonze ni igitonyanga cyangwa gukubita. Ariko mu nzozi we ubwe arahagarara akareba ibyago bitaha, ndetse ashinja kugwa mu kugwa mu nsinga. Muri icyo gihe, ibi ni bimwe mu bugingo bwe, bushingiye kuri manipulations agaragaza umwanda wa Hazard, barangije inzira y'inzozi yashubije kandi yubatse nyirakuru na mama.
Twifurije amahirwe meza no kwihangana muriki gikorwa.
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Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin