Anton Khabarov yakundaga umunyeshuri mwigana kuri Elena mu ishuri rya Schepkinsky maze agera kuri aho aherereye, nk'uko yiyemereye, n'ukuri kwukuri. Twese hamwe bararengana, amazi n'umuyoboro w'umuringa. Bahoraga bafite umubano wihuse. Ariko nyuma yimyaka makumyabiri nzabaho no kuvuka kw'abana babiri, baracyashaka kumarana igihe kinini.
- Anton, Lena, ni iki cyahindutse mu mibanire yawe mu myaka yashize?
Anton: Nizera ko ubu ari nziza cyane kuruta mbere, kuko twishimira ibyiza bya buriwese, ariko byubahiriza ibibi, kandi nibi ni ngombwa. Mbere, Lena yarababajwe n'ikintu runaka, none yumva ko nta mpamvu yo kwerekana ikintu kimwe ku nshuro ijana. Ubusembwa ntibushobora gukosorwa, kandi ntibikiri kubabaza. Twumva. Kurugero, Lena atuje avuga ko ndarushye cyane, ndashobora gushaka kuruhuka umwe. Nagiye rero icyumweru cyo muri Arumeniya. Kandi bibaho kuba umwe. Ibi ntibisobanura ko dufite ibyiyumvo bikonje. Turakundana kandi tugakurura gukurura cyane. Gusa dufite urwego runini rwubwisanzure imbere yundi.
Elena: Sinshobora no kumenya icyo Anton ari uko Anton ari, kuko afite gahunda ya firime yasaze, hamwe n'ingendo n'indege. Ubu gusa uratekereza cyane kubyerekeye inshuti kuruta ibyawe, kandi nturamubabaza. Ndashobora kubaza mute, kubona igisubizo: "Ibintu byose ni byiza, ndaryamye." Kandi iyo twatangiye umubano gusa, bari bahujwe, kandi ihuriro ryarahoraho.
Anton: Ndibuka uko nabaga mu mudugudu no mu cyi, na Lena - i Kalinged, kandi twarakumbuye rwose. Nta terefone zariho, kandi twanditse amabaruwa. Nategereje umuposita! Niba ibaruwa yari leaf kuri babiri, ntabwo ari ine, noneho naracitse intege cyane. Bahise bisubiza, tuzinjira mu ibaruwa buri cyumweru, bagenda igihe kirekire. Aya mabaruwa aracyabitswe.
Elena: Iyo umaze imyaka myinshi, rimwe na rimwe ingendo - impamvu nziza yo kuburana.
- Urashobora kwigurira urumuri kuruhande?
Anton: Nibyo. Ndashobora kwishimira ubwiza bwabandi bagore, nka Lena - abagabo. Turashobora no kubiganiraho. Namenyereye ndegenzura rwose umugore we, ariko mubyukuri ni kwibeshya. Guhinduka, iminota ihagije niminota icumi.
"Amasezerano menshi, nshobora kugenda kuruhuka. Kandi Lena akeneye kuba wenyine. Ibi ntibisobanura ko dufite ibyiyumvo bikonje. Turakunda gukurura cyane"
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- Lena, ntimugiriye ishyari Anton?
Elena: Ishyari ntirishobora kuba, iki nikintu gisanzwe rwose. Ni ngombwa ko ibyo bidahinduka mania kandi ntibyangiza ubuzima cyangwa umuntu.
- Mu makimbirane akunze gutera intambwe yambere yo kwiyunga?
Anton: Muriki gihe muriki gihe nukugiramuka mu mutwe, akaba ufite igikomere gito kandi akababara. Ariko muri rusange, nzasigatongana igihe kinini cyane. Nubwo biterwa ninsanganyamatsiko. Turimo kubikora, turahira buri munota no guseka ako kanya. Uyu munsi sinashoboraga gukuramo Plinthore, sinshobora gufasha, nitwa Lena: "Reka twite muri Brigade," Reka tuvuge tuti: "Reka tuvuge iki kibazo," Na we wasaze ?! Hano hari amatafari atatu yo gukuramo. " Cyangwa ashaka itara rimwe, nanjye ndi undi. Ariko ndumva ko igikoni cyacyo, ariko mubiro byanjye nshobora gukora uko nkunda, kandi nkunda umucyo.
- Kandi mbere yibitekerezo no gutaka kubyerekeye gutandukana cyangwa gutembera mugihe runaka ntibyigeze bigeraho?
Anton: Turashobora gutera ubwoba muburyo bukomeye umuntu azagenda, ariko ntanubwo umunsi watagenze. Ibi byose bivugwa mumitima.
- Gutangira kubaho munsi yinzu, wunvise ko abantu batandukanye cyangwa basa?
Elena: Kuri njye mbona twemeye kweza "chimie", izindi ngingo zose zabonetse nyuma. (Kumwenyura.)
"Iyo abantu babanaga hamwe n'igibi cy'umuntu, ni bibi n'icya kabiri. Abagore biteguye kujya mumitekerereze no gukemura ibibazo, ariko nta bagabo"
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- Kandi ni iki?
Elena: Umuryango, abana, guhanga. Turashobora kuvugana numuntu runaka, kutabiganiraho, ariko hafi buri gihe gutsimbataza ibitekerezo kuri we. Mubibazo byumwuga, inyungu, uburyohe ko hashobora kubaho itandukaniro, ariko dufite imyifatire imwe mubuzima. Ariko ntabwo byahise, twaje kuriyi.
Anton: Dukunda abakinnyi batandukanye, firime zitandukanye, ibitaramo, ibitabo. Nubwo, byanze bikunze, hariho ihuriro, birashoboka ko mirongo itanu na mirongo itanu. Ariko muri rusange, kugira ibyo ukunda kandi uburyohe ntabwo ari ngombwa. Ubu mfite ibitero byo kwibira, Lena yakoze igihe cyanyuma nundi mufatanyabikorwa. Ikintu nyamukuru nuko imyanya yimyitwarire, ibimenyetso bifatika mubuzima, imyumvire yibibi kandi nziza ntiducika intege gusa, kandi rimwe na rimwe mbona ko turi umuntu umwe.
- Ese ingeso zo murugo zaratandukanye cyane?
Elena: Yego! Urashobora kurota ikintu icyo aricyo cyose, ariko mubuzima busanzwe - gutungurwa ningeso z'umuntu ukunda. . Mugihe uza ku kintu cyawe, igihe kizashira.
- Kandi Anton yagutangaje iki?
Elena: Anton afite umuryango usabana cyane, inzu yamye yuzuyemo abashyitsi, ibiganiro, indirimbo ziyobowe na Gitari ... kandi iyo dushimishijwe na gahunda, ndibwira ko tuzagira ikibuga cy'igice . Ariko amaherezo byagaragaye ibinyuranye. Gusa nkunda abashyitsi, kandi Anton yafunzwe rwose muriki kibazo. Kuri we kugirango akusanye isosiyete ni feat. Ariko ndumva ko iyo ukora kuva mugitondo kugeza nimugoroba, ibirori byurusasure murugo ntabwo ari amahitamo yawe.
- Ntabwo rero bitangaje kuri buriwese?
Anton: Nta bitunguranye kwisi, ariko reaction kubintu runaka birashobora rimwe na rimwe. Turacyashimishije. Iyo mbonye Lena akora Yoga, igihe cyose yishimira ishusho ye, imiterere ye. Buri gihe asa nkugusambanyi. Kubisa nkaho, ugomba kwiruka, ntabwo ari ukubeshya gusa ku gitambaro. Kandi ndashaka kubikunda kurushaho. Iyo ntari murugo igihe kirekire, buri gihe nzana kumusatsi gufata umwanya kugirango ugaragare imbere yacyo muburyo bwiza bushoboka. Ni ukuvuga, noneho tuzagaragaza kandi tukishuka. (Aseka.)
- Wabayeho bihagije udafite abana. Nzi ko Anton yana urwenya, ibitegereje, iyo bakuriye bakagutererana ...
Anton: Ndacyafite lena nto. Benshi bemeza, nanjye, ko afite abana batatu: Vladik, Alina na Anton (aseka), kuko nanjye nkeneye amaso n'amaso. Nishimiye niba dufite amahirwe yo kujya hamwe. Ariko abana bacu bombi barifuzwa. Nashakaga umwana, mwana wanjye mbere, nari nzi kumwita. Ndi umuntu uharanira inyungu, Lena aratandukanye rwose. Kurugero, njya muri hoteri imwe imyaka itanu, kandi avuga ko bidashoboka. Kandi ntangiye kuruhuka, nkimara kugira amatike nuwabitswe muri iyi hoteri.
"Nkunda gukingura abashushanya ibyaha ahantu hose ko ibintu" bizima. "Kandi ndashobora kugendera mu nkana imyaka itatu, niba utabonye abandi"
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- Buri gihe uruhuka udafite abana. Kandi ntibigeze basaba kujya ahantu hamwe nawe, ntiwarakaye?
Elena: Imyaka itatu irashize, twese twese hamwe muri Jeworujiya, hanyuma nyuma yo kuruhukira na Anton. Twaranye neza noneho. Noneho Alina yiteguye kujya ahantu runaka, na Vlad, afite imyaka cumi n'ine, ntakiriho. Ni uko azabijyana kuri malidiya, ntazanga, baravuga bati 'Nzababazwa nawe, ababyeyi. (Aseka.) Ariko ntamuntu ufite amahirwe. Tugomba kuba mugihe runaka gusa. Mfite kandi inshuti, nabo bafitanye umubano mwiza numugabo we, ariko byizera ko abana babyaye nyina, kugirango ahora kuruhukira bose hamwe. Tugomba gusa kumva uko umeze neza.
Anton: Abana bajya muri Turukiya hamwe na nyirakuru na Lena. Noneho namaze ukwezi kose i Sevastopol, nkoresheje ishusho "amaraso kumurongo". Lena yaje aho ndi n'umukobwa we. Muri icyo gihe Vladik ntiyifuzaga, ikomeza na nyirakuru, icyo gihe yari afite umukobwa. (Aseka.) Ntabwo nabihatiye.
- Niba uzi kubyerekeye umukobwa, noneho ufite umubano wizerana nawe?
Anton: Nabyize kuri Lena. VLAD ni nyinshi kumusangira na we, kuko akenshi ari murugo no kwegera abana. Ariko umuhungu ntabaza abagome. Ubu yari muri kiriya gihe papa atari umutware kuri we. Kandi ibi nibisanzwe. Ibi ntibisobanura ko ntacyo binshyize mubintu, birumvikana gusa, kandi ndabyishimiye cyane.
Elena: Tuvuga abana benshi, ndagerageza kubasaba kubaza byose. Nizera ko iyo isanzwe igongunda igomba kumenyeshwa nabo mu rurimi rusanzwe. Noneho noneho bazajyana nawe kugirango uganire kuri Frank. Iyo umenye ko habaye hashize imyaka icumi kugirango tuvugane n'Umwana w'urukundo, ku isano y'abagabo n'abagore, noneho ndasubiza muri cumi na kane ntacyo azabwira.
"Kuki mvuga ko ukeneye kwita ku buzima bwawe no kubyara nyuma? Kuberako iyo ugeze mubibazo byimbere, ntuzabamanika ku mwana. "
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- Kandi hamwe nundi ushobora kuganira kuri byose?
Anton: Hariho ibintu ntavuga Lena, ku nkombe za we, kuko nzi, bizaba byiza, nk'ibihuha bimwe na bimwe, udusimba. Kandi kubyerekeye uburambe bwawe bukomeye bujya muri neurose, ndabibwira psychologue, ntabwo ndabirukana. (Aseka.) Kandi Lena arahari, kandi rimwe na rimwe jya kuri bombi. Kandi rero turimo tuvuga ibintu byose, nshuti hafi kuturusha, ntitubikora.
Elena: Iyo abantu babana kandi umuntu wenyine, noneho bibi na kabiri. Nk'itegeko, abagore biteguye kujya mu mutego wo mu mutwe no gukemura ibibazo, n'abagabo - oya, ariko igihe navuze nti: "Anton, ni ngombwa, kuko bimaze kumugora," ni ko byari bigoye kuri wewe, ". Inzobere ifasha gukemura ibibazo bikomeye, kandi umuntu utangiye kubaho ukundi no kureba ibintu bimwe.
- Reka dusubire ku bana. Ihame, muburyo bwo kureremba, uragiye?
Elena: Birumvikana ko tureba icyerekezo kimwe. Kuki mvuga ko ukeneye kwita kubuzima bwawe no kubyara nyuma? Kuberako iyo ugeze mubibazo byimbere, ntuzabamanike kumwana. Anton ashyushye cyane. Ibi ntibisobanura ko yiruka ku bana, ariko biri he? Nubwo arimo kubikora. Nanjye ndimurika. Ariko ikintu kimwe iyo umugore avuza induru, undi - mugihe hafi yumuntu wa metero ebyiri ufite ibitugu byagutse na bass. Gusa mama ahora akenewe, ati: "Kuyikuraho, kora," kandi birashobora kuba ku mabara meza cyane, ahubwo afite amabara asanzwe urusaku. (Aseka.) Umuhungu atanga igitekerezo: "Mama, muraho, kuki unyeganyeza? Reka tuvuge utuje. " Kandi ndatekereza nti: "Kandi mubyukuri, ndumiwe ni iki?". (Aseka.)
Anton: Vladika afite imyaka yinzibacyuho, agenzura imbibi yubushobozi bwayo kandi akenshi irabahagarara. Inshuro nyinshi zituma amakosa amwe, arahagarikwa mubihe, tugomba kumufasha gucukura. Ndagerageza kubana na we mubiganiro, ariko mfite ibibujijwe byombi nibibuza. Birumvikana ko rimwe na rimwe mmera inkoni, kandi Lena arantiga, avuga ko ari bust. Rimwe na rimwe, nta no mu burere bwanjye, ndetse na mbere, iyo abonye ko nzaturika ubu. (Aseka.)
- Nigute abana bifitanye isano nibintu, icyubahiro, uri balushet yabo?
Elena: Abera, Vlad itwikiriye umuraba, avuga ko akeneye ibintu byiza, kandi rimwe na rimwe bimaze gutuma imyenda yo muri mwishywa wambaye ubusa. Ndamubwira nti: "Ufite umubare runaka. Urashobora kwigunga niba hari amafaranga ahagije. " Noneho nakoze ikibanza cyo kuvuga amasomo, kandi rimwe na rimwe inshuti imwe yamusabye kumufasha, kubona amafaranga. Kandi by the way, ntabwo nkunda ibirango, nkunda gukingura abashushanya aho bari muzima. Kandi ndashobora kugenda mu nkweto zimwe na rimwe mugihe ntabonye abandi. Na VLAD mgura inkweto buri mezi abiri, kandi ijya muri sneake nshya gukina umupira. Terefone nazo ni ingingo irwaye. Yatangaje ko mu ishuri rya iPhone yose, yari afite kandi, ariko yambushije igihe yihanganiye. Nyuma yibyo, naravuze nti: "Nta iphone. Yakusanyije amafaranga, ariko ni ukubera iki akeneye terefone nk'iyi? Twinjiza, ariko ntabwo turi kubintu. Tuzahora twifuza ibi, noneho - ibyo, no kutagira iherezo.
- Lena, ntabwo wigeze urwara nuko umugabo atsinze ubuhanga?
Elena: Birumvikana ko nababajwe nanjye kuko nize cyane kandi natsinze neza uruhare runini mu ishuri. Nakubiswe nicyizere gikomeye. Ariko umwuga uterwa nibihe byinshi, kandi umugore afite kandi icyifuzo cyo kwishora mumuryango, abana. Mfite impungenge, ariko namaze kuryohira ibitekerezo byanjye, navuganye nawe, vuga inzira runaka. Noneho abakinnyi bose bagiye kuryo tegeko, ndakugira inama yo gusubira aho hantu ahubwo, nubwo bisa nkaho umwana akiri muto. Azahora ari mato, nkumugabo azahora ashaka kukubona mumuryango. Ariko niba umuntu akunda, azamenyera ibi kandi byose bizabyumva. Niba kandi atari byo, birashoboka ko utagomba kubana.
- Wavuze kushyanya Anton?
Elena: Nabyise gato, ariko niba ucukuye ikuzimu, birashoboka rwose kuvuga ni ishyari ryumwuga. Nasabye Anton gufasha kugera ku ngero, ariko ntibyashobokaga kuba impanuka. Umugabo yubaka umwuga we rwose. Niba ushoboye gukora ikintu hamwe muri theatre cyangwa muri ba rwiyemezamirimo, ntituzigera twanga. Twumvikanye cyane gukina hamwe. Nakinnye na we muri "umuvandimwe", ariko hashize igihe kinini. Kandi igihe natwiga, nafashwe nta cyitegererezo mu mishinga myinshi, ariko sinihanganiye muri iki gihe, nryamye mu bitaro. Noneho nahuje cyane ninzu no mu mitekerereze yabuze umwanya. Ariko ndareba uburyo Anton akora ubu, abandi bakinnyi, uyu ni umurimo wera. Birashoboka ko ntakunda uyu mwuga kugirango upfe kurubuga. Ubu ndimo gucuranga ikinamico muri iki gihe, ba rwiyemezamirimo bagaragaye.
"Twinjiza, ariko ntabwo ari ku bintu"
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- Anton, tekereza uko ibintu bimeze kuri Lena byagiye bikabije hejuru kandi arabigeraho ...
Anton: Ube inyenyeri kundusha, nta ngorane ziri muri ibi. (Aseka.) Iyi ntabwo ari coquetry. Na Megazvera? Ariko kubera iki? Nzishima gusa.
- Lena, no mu nzu ufite ibihagije?
Elena: Nkunda ibintu kugirango menye ahantu hacu nta mukungugu ahantu hose. Ariko nakijije ubwo butunganye (aseka), kandi mugihe runaka twari dufite umufasha murugo. Ariko igihe abana bambwiye bati: "Hano harashobora kuvana mucyumba cyacu," Ndasubiza ko bazirukana. Abana bagomba kugira byibura imirimo imwe n'imwe. Kandi navuguruwe no kwihorera, gukaramu kwa PLUD, shit, irangi, ngura ibyanjye. NDA guhisha amashusho kandi mfite amagare.
- Urabikora kuko ukunda cyangwa kubera ko Anton atabikora?
Elena: Anton yamaze umwanya munini mu mudugudu wo mu mudugudu, azi byinshi, kandi nibiba ngombwa, azakora byose, ariko arabikora, ariko arabishaka, ni byiza gutumira inzobere. Kandi nkunda gucukura umwobo, hanyuma tekereza icyo gukora. (Aseka.)