Nzatanga urugero rwo gusinzira, aherutse gusezereye nanjye n'umukiriya wanjye - umusore. Yemeye iki gitabo kugirango abasomyi bagize amahirwe yo gukora akazi nkawe.
Imiterere mito yubuzima bwe kugirango imiterere yo gusinzira yumvikane. Ari muto, gutsinda, aherutse gushaka. Kandi uhuze cyane niki ni ugushaka urwego rushya kandi rushya rwo kwiteza imbere. Umugore wuyu musore afite imico yoroshye nindi miterere - iratekereza, yoroshye kandi yitonda. Uyu musore ni nka meteor. Byihuse, ubwenge, hamwe nubwenge bwumurongo hamwe nibisubizo byihuse. Mugihe abari hafi batekereza, yamaze gukora byose. Ku mugore we, yatangiye kandi gukora ibisabwa kuri mugenzi we wibanze, kubyerekeye ubwitange budahagije bwo kwiteza imbere. Yumva ahoraho - gukenera gukora ikintu, kwimuka ubudahwema kandi hari ukuntu baharanira byinshi. Burigihe. Guhora. "Nibyiza rero! Uratekereza ko umusore wose ukosora. "Uratekereza. Ntabwo ari ibikorwa, ariko mumwanya uhangayitse urebye guhora ushakisha iterambere nta kunyurwa no kunyurwa rwose nuko ndi njye gusa.
Gukorana n'izi nsanganyamatsiko mu buzima, umukiriya wanjye yarose ibitotsi: "Umukobwa ukiri muto yarabyaye. Umuntu wese areba uruhinja rukivuka kandi bavuga ko hari ibitagenda neza kuri we kuburyo atabangamiye. Mu nzozi, umwana ni umunyamuryango, ugomba gusa gukeka ko munsi yimpapuro zitera intoki n'amaguru. Na we ubwe ni muto. Byose bikikije kwongorera ko hari ibitagenda neza kumwana. Kandi ndi jyenyine nzi ko ari byiza ko azabihindura. Mwana wanjye, mu nzozi, muburyo bwiza. "
Iyo twasenywe n'izo nzozi, nabajije umukiriya ko azi ivuka rye. Byaragaragaye ko yavukiye mu nshurogo iminsi irindwi, ibyo biganiro byose byerekeranye "kutirwana" "byavuzwe hejuru yintebe ye. Mama yari amuhangayikishije, aramuteza imbere, yagerageje kwishyura "imidano idateye ubwoba." Kandi kugeza ku myaka y'ubusore, ukwemera kwajugunywe mubuzima bwe ko atagikwiriye. Bizamuha ishuri hamwe nabana bafite gutinda iterambere, hanyuma muri siporo mumatsinda yabana, nubwo yahuye numubiri no mubitekerezo. Nibyo gusa kwizera ko bidatejwe imbere, byakoze kandi gitanga imbuto.
Tugomba kuvuga hano ko ibyavuzwe byasuzumwe mugihe umwana yavutse gusa. Ni ngombwa kumenya ko muri iki gihe cy'ubuzima bwawe, ubwonko bw'umwana bwandika ibibera na nyina, kimwe na we ubwe, nk'uko bimeze kuri we ubwe, nk'uko bimeze kuri we ubwe, nk'uko bimeze kuri boologiya hamwe na nyina utabishaka. Niba umubyeyi yarokotse ikinamico umuhungu we azabikora, ibitekerezo byisi yose byumwana bizabimenya nka gahunda yubuzima. Muburyo bwibinyabuzima bugezweho, ibi byitwa "icyiciro cya gahunda" - igihe umwana yatwite kandi yavutse gusa. Imitekerereze yababyeyi ihinduka psychologiya ye.
Iyo umukiriya yahambiriye inzozi ninkuru ye, hanyuma ubushakashatsi bwaravumbuye ko inzozi zamufashije gutandukanya ubwoba bwabandi mu myifatire ye wenyine. Abandi batinyaga ko hari ibitagenda neza kuri we, ababyeyi be bagize ubwoba. Kandi ameze neza! Kandi ntakeneye kwishyura, yiyorore kandi atere imbere.
Inzozi ze ko umwana ari we. N'umwana, ni ukuvuga muri rusange! Ibi abizi imbere, ntabwo ari hanze, mumajwi ya echo hafi.
Kubera ibitotsi no gutekereza ku bwana bwabo n'imbaraga, yazanye formula: "Meze neza! Ndayeze! ".
Birashimishije kubona uburyo ubuzima bwe buzavuka binyuze muburyo yihagije. Amatsiko ni ubuhe buryo yanze igitekerezo cy'uko ari inenge ikeneye kwishyura. Umwanya wambere ubuzima urahinduka. Ndakeka ko ikintu cya mbere azumva igabanuka rya voltage kuva imbere, bigomba guhinduka ngo "gufata". Kandi ibyo ubwabyo ibisubizo bifite agaciro - kwisanga no kwishimira ko ndi njye.
Twifurije amahirwe masa! Kandi ikibazo gikurikira nacyo kijyanye ninzozi zumusore - ntucikwe!
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Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin