Gutegura ikiganiro cyangwa gukora gusa incamake, igice kinini cyabasabye kubura guhagarika "kwishimisha" (cyangwa "inyungu"), kandi nubusa. Uyu munsi twahisemo kuvuga ku kamaro k'ibyo ukunda gukura, n'ibyo bagomba guceceka.
Impamvu ubajije ibyakundaga
Buri mwanya wa HR ufite urutonde rwose rwibipimo bisobanura umukandida ukwiye. Abantu benshi batekereza ko igitangaza cya Echar cyoroshye nkinshuti, ariko sibyo rwose. Umukoresha ushobora gushaka cyane cyane ibiranga muri wowe uzaba ubufasha bwingirakamaro mugutezimbere isosiyete.
Kuki ukeneye kwandika kubyerekeye ibyo ukunda
Niba hashize imyaka mirongo itatu, ikibazo cyibyo ukunda gusa, uyumunsi umaze kumwanya wo guhitamo umukoresha ashishikajwe nuburyo ukunda gukoresha umwanya wawe wubusa. Uburyo bwo guhanga amaherezo bwamenye imbaraga zo gutwara no mubice bya kure byumubiri, bityo, uko ubimenya, amahirwe menshi yo kugira intege nke zintege nke zidangerera.
Ukuntu ibyo ukunda bizafasha gutsinda ikiganiro cyingenzi
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Mbega ibyo ukunda kubanza kubibwira
Nubwo Echar ashishikajwe no kwishimisha, ntabwo ashishikajwe no gushaka ubusa - aragerageza kumva ubuhanga ufite nuburyo bwo gufasha isosiyete izafasha. Kubwibyo, inkuru yawe igomba kubakwa gusa hafi yimfubyi. Tekereza muburyo burambuye.
Siporo. Urimo ukora kandi ushoboye gusubiza vuba kandi utajugunya igice.
Ni. Imitekerereze isesengura, rimwe na rimwe, Echar irashobora gukeka kwinjira muri wewe, kizaba ukuyemo iyo usaba umwanya uteganya kuvugana nabantu.
Imikino. Uri umukinnyi wikipe ushoboye guteza imbere ingamba.
Witonze wige ibisabwa kandi, niba hari igihe, kora urutonde rwibyo ukunda. Kwishingikiriza ku makuru azwiho, Gutanga kuri buri muntu ukunda ubuhanga bukomeye bukwiriye akazi keza ku nyandiko usaba.
Kandi niba nta kwishimisha
Ikitari cyo muri ibi bihe ni uguhimbira ibyo ukunda bitabaho. Ongera utekereze, nyuma ya byose, ntabwo ari ngombwa "gutwika" muburyo bumwe, birashoboka ko utabona ko ibikorwa runaka bizana kunyurwa, gerageza kwireba wenyine.