Ubushize nakoze ku kibazo cyikibazo mubucuti. Uyu munsi ndashaka kubikomeza, ariko muburyo butunguranye.
Nkuko mubizi, hariho uburyo butatu bwo guteza imbere umubano nyuma yikibazo.
Iya mbere ni inzibacyuho murwego rushya rwiterambere ryumubano. Inzira nziza kandi nziza. Nakoze kuri iyi ngingo gato muri post yanjye.
Ubundi buryo burashimishije cyane. Ibi byita kubibazo. Birasa nkaho umuryango wabitswe muri rusange. Ariko ibintu bimeze ubu ntibyihanganirwa, kandi ntibishoboka gufata ibyemezo bijyanye nibibazo. Kubera iyo mpamvu, imihangayiko yakusanyije yasutswe mu bugambanyi, indwara zikomeye, ubusinzi, ibindi bitunganya, nibindi.
Nibyiza, ibisohoka bya gatatu ni ugutandukana. Nkuko nabivuze, tsinda ikibazo birashoboka gusa mugihe abafatanyabikorwa bombi barabishaka. Niba umwe muribo adashaka gushora byinshi mubucuti, ntuzabahatira. Hanyuma ugomba kurangiza umubano ...
Gutandukana no gutandukana biragoye cyane. Ntibitangaje kubona bavuga ko gutandukana ari urupfu ruto. Kandi niba byanze bikunze? Ubuzima bwabaye kuburyo, kandi ntakintu gishobora gukorwa hano. Ntubabaye ubuziraherezo! Tugomba gushakisha amashyaka ameze neza. Nibyo nashakaga gukoresha inyandiko yanjye nyayo.
Rero, plus yubutane. Yego, yego, ntiwigeze wumva, plus.
Mbere ya byose, gutandukana ntabwo aribwo buryo bubi bwo gusohoka, kuko wirinze verisiyo ya 2 yiterambere ryimibereho - guhindura, ubusinzi, kwita ku ndwara, nibindi ni ibisubizo byiza kandi byiza kubanyeshuri bose bafite umutekano. Ni ukuvuga, ntuzongera gutwara ivari nta ntoki!
Indi hiyongereyeho ko umuntu warokotse ubutane ahinduka gahunda yubunini bukuze. Byiza gusetewe mu mibanire. Mu magambo nibikorwa byindi ntibona ibinyoma hejuru. Kwihangana byimazeyo ibyiyumvo nyabyo byifuzo.
Nibyiza ni uburambe bwubuzima bwumuryango ubwabwo. Nyuma yo gutandukana, abantu baragaragara neza kugirango basobanukirwe nibyo bashaka mubusabane, aho bidafite ishingiro rya mugenzi wabo bafite ubushake bwo kwishyiriraho, kandi nikihe - oya. Ibiteganijwe nibisabwa kuri satelite yubuzima biragenda bihagije kandi bifatika.
Inararibonye yo kumvikanisha murugo rugaragara. Hariho gusobanukirwa uburyo bwo gukwirakwiza umwanya, ushobora guhangana nawe, kandi icyo ukeneye ubufasha.
Ifite agaciro ni uburambe bwo gutegura ingengo yumuryango. Nyuma ya byose, gake mugihe bibaye ko bihagije kubishaka byose byabagize umuryango bose. Amafaranga yitwaye neza muri gahunda yo gutegura neza ubuzima bwiza.
Icy'ingenzi ni uburambe bwo gukorana na bene wabo. Bimaze igihe kinini watsinze ingingo nyirabukwe na nyirabukwe batatoranijwe. Kandi byibuze itumanaho rito hamwe nabo byanze bikunze. Birakenewe ko hari ukuntu utekereza kubikora ku ruhande rumwe bitarwanya ubwibone bwawe, ariko ku rundi - kutababaza icyerekezo gitandukanye. Ubu ni ubuhanga bwingirakamaro bushobora gukoreshwa mubindi bihe.
Hariho umwanya wubusa, ushobora gutabwa, nkumutima wawe.
Ibi bivuze ko hari amahirwe menshi yo kubaka umwuga, ibihe byinyongera bigaragara kugirango witeze iterambere, urashobora kwagura urutonde rwibyo ukunda nibindi nibindi.
Hanyuma, biraza gutabarwa ko amahane yarangiye, Rugan kandi atagira iherezo yimibanire. Ntukabeho undi muntu wo gusangira ubwonko no kwihanganira ifunguro. Urashobora guhumeka no kwishimisha kuvuga: "Adyn, Savsham Adyn!"
Ahari umuntu azagira ikibazo, ariko bite kubana ubu? Nibyo! Umuryango ucuruza amakimbirane n'impagarara nyinshi, aho ababyeyi baba abanyamahanga kuri mugenzi wabo, ntibazagirira akamaro umwana. Ntazamwishima. Ku bana, guhura mumarangamutima nababyeyi, urukundo rwabo no gusobanukirwa, ntabwo ari amacumbi kumwanya umwe. Byongeye kandi, biteye ubwoba gutekereza icyo "ubuzima bwumuryango" ari umwana nkigisubizo. Kandi niba ashobora kurema umuryango we wateye imbere kuriyi moderi.
Gutandukana birashobora kuba biteye ubwoba, bitangaje kandi bidashoboka, ariko ntabwo ari imperuka yisi. Ibintu byose ni bibi kandi bidashimishije bimaze kurangira. Inyuma yumurongo wirabura uzemeza umweru. Noneho urashobora kureba ubutane nkitike mubuzima bushya - ubuntu, bwiza kandi bwishimye. Aho ushobora kubaka ibintu byose ukundi, nkuko ubishaka. Ntabwo ari ubusa ko havugwa ko nta hum hatabayeho neza. Ntabwo hazabaho umunezero, ariko ibyago byaramfashije;)