Mu baganga bose turenga byibuze rimwe mu mwaka, muganga w'amenyo n'umugore mu muganga batera umunezero udasanzwe. Uwa mbere yashoboye kututera ubwoba mu bwana, kandi ntabwo byoroshye gukuraho ibyo yibuka hakiri kare, ndetse niyo waba uzi neza ko ujya kubyakira, umunezero ntugusiga. Ariko hamwe numuhanga wumugore, ibintu byose ntabwo byoroshye hano. Hariho inzobere nyinshi nziza, kandi nyamara byibuze rimwe buri kugwa mu kwakirwa n'umuganga w'abagore, "bahindukiriye isi yawe." Kubijyanye nuburyo bibaho, kandi icyo gukora niba imyitwarire ya muganga irakubabaje, tuzavugana uyu munsi.
"Kuki utabyaye?"
Hamwe na "inzobere" hari abantu hafi ya bose. Ntabwo wandikiwe gusa "wowe", nawo ahatirwa gutsindishiriza ko utagomba kubikora. Kandi ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose uhura nacyo kizaba "gutsindishirizwa" kubwa "kwanga gukora umurimo karemano".
"Nibyo, wowe ubwawe watangiye"
Umuntu uwo ari we wese, ndetse n'ibibazo bisanzwe ku nzego z'imyororokere, bikemuwe n'amasomo y'ibiyobyabwenge, akorwa nk'ibyatsi byo ku rugero rusange. "Wa mbere?" Cyangwa "Nibyiza, ubu sinzi icyo gukora nawe" interuro izwi cyane yangiza umwuka muminsi myinshi.
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"Urareba he?"
Ibidashimishije cyane mugihe uri mumwanya nkuyu ufite kumva ibitekerezo bidashimishije ntabwo ari muruhande rwawe gusa, ahubwo no kubafatanyabikorwa babo cyangwa umugabo. Ati: "Niba warakurikiye neza umugabo wanjye, ntiwazanwa no gutwika" - hafi y'imvugo isanzwe ifite abagore benshi bahuje ubuhanga burenze umwuga.
Birashoboka kurengera uburenganzira bwawe?
Ndetse nkeneye. Cyane ko ufite uburenganzira bwo kutamererwa neza.
"Ndumva ntayorohewe"
Ntakintu cyiruka cyo guhita kivuga umunezero wanjye. Niba umuganga ari umunyamwuga nyayo, azasohoka rwose kandi azagufata kandi azagufatamo ibikoresho byose byoroheye. Bitabaye ibyo, uyu ntabwo ari umuganga wawe.
"Ndagusaba gufunga iyi ngingo"
Ntuzigere ugira ibyiyumvo bidashimishije muburyo bwumubiri, cyangwa umugambi wamarangamutima. Dukunze guhangayikishwa no kutoroherwa no guhamagara uburakari bwa muganga, ariko uburenganzira bwabo, niba atari wowe? Uzahita wumva ufite icyizere.
"Reka tunyure mu rutonde"
Kubintu byose byakiriwe, tujyana nurutonde runaka rwibibazo inzobere itegetswe gusa gusubiza, ariko ntabwo buri gihe ishaka gukora ibi, yerekeza ahantu hanini, cyangwa ikibi cyane - gutangira gusiganwa. Hagarara ujye mu nama y'abaminisitiri ba muganga mukuru kwandika ikirego.