Kenshi na kenshi, inzozi ntizibe impamo, mugihe bakorera imirimo itandukanye rwose: fasha ubwenge bwacu bwihishe kugirango duhangane n'imihangayiko ryegeranye kumanywa, ndetse nibibazo byuzuye ibibazo, amezi, rimwe na rimwe.
Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, inzandiko zimwe zabasomyi bacu bahatiwe kureba inzozi zubuhanuzi ukundi.
Ndetse inararibonye mu kugenzura ko bahari.
Nigute, kurugero, iyi nzozi:
"Mbere yo guhura n'umugabo uzaza, narose inzozi, nahise mbisobanura. Yumvaga ko vuba aha azahura numuntu we.
Nicaye mu byatsi. Ndi muto cyane, kandi ibyatsi ni binini nkibiti. Kandi umutobe wambaye ubusa-salade. Tugomba kuvugwa ko amabara yose muri izi nzozi yari meza, abakire, nko mumagare yamabara meza.
Ndabona ukuntu inyoni nini iguruka mwijuru. Aransambira. Bigaragara ko nicaye mucyari. Iyi ni igikona gifite amabuye manini ya orange hamwe namababa yera. Ariko icyari nticyari ku giti, atari ku rutare. Yimanitse mu kirere, ku ibuye, ifu y'ibyatsi bibaje. Kandi hirya no mu kirere hari byinshi biranga ibyatsi n'icyari. Isazi ziraguruka zica mu cyari, kandi numva utuje, amahoro kandi nishimye rwose! BYOSE CYANE. Mbyuka ntekereza ko nzahura n'umukunzi wanjye, wabaye mu byumweru bibiri. "
Gusinzira gushimishije, guhuze kandi neza kandi rwose. Birahita bikuraho impamvu atateye ingorane mugusobanura inzozi.
Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, birakwiye kuvuga amagambo make asinzira nanone ijwi ryimpamvu zacu, nkuko bimeze kuri Arhine yacu. Umugore neza kandi unanutse arashobora kubyumva, inzozi zirambuye, zirumvikana kandi zumvikane.
Birashoboka gusa kwishimira ko inzozi zacu zifite ubushishozi bukomeye.
Kandi abo muri mwe bakwiga gusa kumva ubushishozi bwabo - inama nyinshi:
1. Ubushishozi nubushobozi buranga rwose buri muntu. Irashobora gutezwa imbere nkubundi buhanga nubushobozi. Ariko, ntabwo yihanganira igituba. Ku manywa, tanga umwanya wo gutega amatwi uko bigenda. Kora umuvuduko mubyinshi no guhangayika.
2. Ntutekereze ko byose byumwimerere, bidasanzwe nibitekerezo byubusa. Bernard Shaw yavuze ati: "Ntukajye gushyira mu gaciro, ntukabe udasanzwe. Hafi y'abantu badahwema isi irazunguruka. "
3. Baza kenshi: urashaka rwose gukora ibyo urota mubyukuri. Benshi bazatangazwa nitandukaniro riri hagati yibyo bakora, kuko bibaye ngombwa, kandi ko ubugingo bubaza.
Ahari ukeretse ubwo buryo bworoshye, inzozi zawe nazo zizahinduka mu mucyo, gikungahaye ku buzima bw'ubuzima. ITITEKEREZO kuri wewe!
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Maria Zebeskova, umuganga wa psychologue, Umuvuzi wumuryango, Amahugurwa Yambere Yimiryango Yiterambere Yumuntu Marka Khazina