Abagome bo mu rugo - Ntabwo ari ibintu bidasanzwe muri iki gihe cyacu, abagore benshi imyaka myinshi ndetse n'imyaka mirongo babaho bafite igituba cyo mu rugo bakabona ibishoboka bivuye. Birakwiye gukora reservation: Amakimbirane atongana, amakimbirane ndetse akanarwana nabashakanye hamwe no murugo Tyranny - Ibintu Bitandukanye: Amakimbirane atandukanye: Amakimbirane yo murugo, kandi hari umunyagitugu akaya ni igitambo cye.
Ikibazo ntabwo ari uko abahohotewe bo murugo bafite ubwoba, ariko nanone ko imico yabo isanzwe isenyuka nkabanyanyabindi baturya, bavuga ko batewe n'uwahohotewe. Ariko nigute wamenya umunyagitugu wawe mumugabo mugihe umubano uherutse kandi ntabwo utinze kubikosora?
Hariho ibimenyetso byinshi byerekana ko umugabo wawe yerekeza ku cyiciro cyabantu bafite uburozi byoroshye guhindukira mu rugo, byibuze kumva ko uzatanwa no kwicisha bugufi k'uwahohotewe no kwicisha bugufi k'uwahohotewe.
Ekaterina zdan.
Mbere ya byose, ibi, birumvikana ko ibi bigaragarira kuri manipulation no kwibiza bitaryamye gusa, ahubwo bikaba bigizwe no gutukana, iterabwoba, agasuzuguro.
Icya kabiri, ntabwo bigaragara cyane, bitandukanye n'ihohoterwa, iyi ni ikoreshwa rya Tone isanzwe mu itumanaho. Ibisabwa byose ni imiterere yamabwiriza cyangwa amabwiriza, kandi umufasha nkuyu yiteze gushyira mubikorwa no kuganduka byuzuye.
Icya gatatu, kunegura guhora dukomeza gushinyagurirwa no guta agaciro kandi ni ibimenyetso bidashidikanywaho byerekana ko duhura numuntu ufite uburozi, bishoboka ko urwaye indwara ya criscissistique ishobora guhinduka muri Tyrana.
Icya kane, ishyari rya patologiya akenshi riranga abanyagitugu murugo, ntabwo ukunda uwo mwashakanye, kandi ubwoba bwo gutakaza igitambo gishobora kujya kumuntu ukwiye. Mu nyere y'ubugingo, umuturo wakozwe mu rugo yumva ko ari hasi kandi adashobora kurema umuryango muzima, kandi birarakaye cyane.
Icya gatanu, urugo rukunda gushyiraho igenzura ryuzuye ku bahohotewe. Bazagerageza kwiyambura uwo bashakanye hamwe na bene wabo, kubuza gushyikirana n'abakobwa b'abakobwa bakuze, bitwara undi mujyi, biziga neza imbuga nkoranyambaga n'ibirimo, gusa kutabura kuyobora uwahohotewe.
Birakwiye gusobanukirwa ko ntakintu nakira umunyagitugu murugo. Bivuga ubwoko bwabantu basebya intege nke kandi ntibafite imbabazi nke. Wibuke ko mumuryango usanzwe ntahantu ho kurwanya ihohoterwa rikorerwa mu ngo, kandi igihe "umuhamagaro wa mbere" utatsindishiriza ko kugira ngo bihangane, cyangwa ngo utore kwihangana kwawe, cyangwa gushonga mu mizi, cyangwa gushonga Gushyingirwa no gusiga uwo mwashakanye.
Niba usanzwe uyobowe n'ihohoterwa rikorerwa mu ngo kandi ntukore ibikorwa bikomeye kubera gutinya kutabyifatamo, ntugomba gutinya "akababaro kiva mu kazu" no gukemura ibibazo by'ibibazo byo gufasha abagore.