Ingingo ya orgasm ihora ifite akamaro. Ituze-psychotherapiste, umutoza w'ishyirwa mu bikorwa ry'intego ya Ilya Bearetsev na Rpt-Therapiste, Umutoza w'iterambere ry'abagore, Irina Shekunov, yahisemo kwirukana imigani mike ijyanye nayo.
Ilya: Akenshi numva nabandi ko abagabo bafite orgasm kugirango bakomeze ubwoko, kandi abagore basa nkaho batamerewe neza. Kuri njye, ibi ni ubuswa bwuzuye. Nkuko mbizi, orgasm ifitanye isano rya bugufi no guhana ingufu hagati yabantu. Kandi abantu bose ntibarangirira kuri orgasm. Ubu nagabanije inzira ya physiologique no guturika kw'ingufu, kuko Daoist yatandukanijwe. Byongeye kandi, muburyo busanzwe, abagabo ba Taoigts bari bazi kwakira orgasm mugihe Aurora atarashe. Biragaragara niba dushobora guhindura ibi, bivuze ko dushobora kubigenzura. Muri icyo gihe, 80% by'abagore ntibagera ku isonga rya Everest. Birashimishije kumva umugore kureba iki kibazo.
Irina: Nibyo, ingingo ifite akamaro. Mubunararibonye bwanjye nuburambe kubakiriya banjye, inzira yoroshye yo kuri orgasm ibinyoma binyuze mumutwe. Impamvu nyamukuru yatumye adahari aratizerana. Uri uburenganzira bwo kuba orgasm atari inzira ya physiologique gusa, ahubwo inabigeraho. Ihinduka ubwoba butagaragara - gutakaza ubwabo, gushonga mubafatanyabikorwa. Kuri ubu haraho gutakaza burundu, bityo umutwe ntabwo bitanga byishimo. Hanyuma, niba nta mufatanyabikorwa wizeye, umubiri utangira kwirwanaho, ukabuza orgasm, kugirango utagirire nabi ubwenge. Icyangombwa kiri muruhuka rwose no kwizerana. Kandi nta mwanya bafite.
Ilya: Ndabyemera. Nizera kandi ko ntakintu kibaye. Niba ushaka kuruhuka, kandi mu buryo butunguranye muri gahunda hari kunanirwa kutamenya ubwenge, kuko rwose ari inzogera. Kunanirwa kuri gahunda mubagabo bitwa imbote, mubagore - kubura orgasm. Kuri bo, nk'ubutegetsi, ikintu gifite agaciro: Umubano hamwe n'umufatanyabikorwa, ibikomere by'abana, kwiyagirana, kwiyagirana, nibindi niba utabivuze ibibazo byavuwe na fiziki. Kanguka ujye kuri psychotherapiste. Ariko birashoboka ko hari abakemeranya kuriwe uza kubona abasomyi kugirango bababorohere kuzamuka hejuru yibicu?
Irina: Mugihe tuvuga imibanire myiza ukundana ukundana kandi dushaka kubana na we, - kandi nizere ko abasomyi bacu bafunzwe nubusabane - kugirango babone umubano Kandi usangire ibyo uri kumwe nawe bibaho. Kugirango uhangane nibyiyumvo byacyo, massage yoroheje irakora neza, izagufasha kwiga ingingo zishimishije za mugenzi wawe. Kubona neza ijisho kuri mugenzi wawe bizagufasha gushimangira kumva ko ari hafi yawe no kuzimya ibitekerezo. Urashobora kugerageza kwiga muburyo, utanga ibitekerezo byinyamanswa, bizafasha no guhindura umutwe mubyifuzo.
Niba ibi byose bitazana ibisubizo, noneho birashoboka ko ikibazo kirimbitse: Irashobora gushonga mumarangamutima mabi yakusanyije kubafatanyabikorwa cyangwa ibikomere byamarangamutima. Muri iki kibazo, nasaba kuvugana nikibazo kuri psychotherapiste.
Kandi abakiriho gushakisha igice cyabo cya kabiri, kubuzima ni orgasms nziza, turashaka gutumira umufasha wacu mumahugurwa yacu.