Birashoboka, buri gihe ku bihe by'ishuri byahuye n'umutonda, kandi ntibyari ngombwa ko uwahohotewe, ariko buri segonda yari abareba. Uyu munsi, mubyukuri ntakintu cyahindutse, usibye uburyo bwingutu bwarushijeho kuba bunini, mu mwuka w'igihe. Umwana uwo ari we wese arashobora kurenganura abo bigana, kandi ababyeyi ntibahora babizi, nubwo bidatinze cyangwa nyuma amakimbirane yumwana azajya hamwe nishuri. Niki cyo gukora ababyeyi mubihe bigoye? Twagerageje kubimenya.
Ikiganiro gikomeye
Oya, ntukeneye kwigisha umwana gukemura ibibazo bigoye hamwe nurungano - iyi ni amahitamo mbere yo gutsindwa. Nk'itegeko, abana bakorewe gutoteza barababara kubera ibimenyetso bike, bizera ko uwakoze icyaha ye aruta. Mu bubasha bwawe, sobanurira umwana ko abana bose biga mu ishuri bafite uburenganzira, kandi igitutu nticyemewe muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose. Icyingenzi: Ntabwo ari ngombwa gusobanurira umwana uburenganzira bwe gusa, ahubwo nibanda ku kuba abana bose bangana, bityo umwana wawe nta burenganzira afite bwo gutera ubwoba kandi nta burenganzira afite.
Ntukemere gukoresha imbaraga
Kubwamahirwe, umubare munini wabana wizeye ko bishoboka kwerekana uburenganzira nubufasha bwamapfumu no kubabaza umusatsi wumusatsi. Nkuko twabivuze, ubu buryo ntibuzakemura ikibazo, ariko buzakomera cyane. Kubwamahirwe, ababyeyi benshi bashyigikira icyifuzo cyumwana gukoresha imbaraga zo kurwanya abakoze ibyaha, ariko ukeneye ibibazo nubuyobozi bwishuri n'ababyeyi b'abana? Turabitekereza, rwose ntabwo. Niba amayeri yawe yo gukemura ikibazo kitoroshye adakora, jya ushira amanga mukiganiro numwarimu wishuri kandi, byaba byiza, ababyeyi "dragon" abo mwigana. Amakimbirane ayo ari yo yose yakemutse akoresheje imishyikirano.
Umwana ntagomba gutinya gusangira nawe ibibazo
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Umwana ntagomba gutinya
Indi mpamvu ikunze kwiga ku bibazo by'abana bitinze - ubwoba bwabo butanga raporo ku babyeyi. Akenshi ushobora kumva uburyo ababyeyi babazwa nabana bato cyane: "Ukora iki? Hagarara! " Cyangwa ibiganiro nk'ibi bibaho: "Usanzwe ukuze, ukemure ibibazo byawe", "ni ko witotomba ku busaza?" Ntabwo bigoye gukeka ingaruka hari ingaruka zisa nkikiruhuko kumwana: ifunga nibintu byose aguma ni ukwemera uko ibintu bimeze, kuko adashobora gukemura ikibazo cyigenga. Ibintu bitandukanye rwose biri mumiryango, aho gamenyerewe kuganira kubibazo byose no gufashanya mubihe bigoye. Ntukemere ko umwana wawe agira ubwoba bwo kwatura ikintu.
Turashaka isosiyete nshya
Nkuko tumaze igihe cyo kumenya, abana bafite icyubahiro gito bahinduka igitambo cyo gutotezwa muri 99%, mubisanzwe bafite inshuti n ibyo bakunda. Ku muntu uwo ari we wese, cyane cyane cyane, ni ngombwa kumva ko inyuma y'umugongo ari itsinda ryose ry'ababyeyi n'inshuti bazatanga inama zingirakamaro kandi bazahora bashyigikira. Abana bafite igitutu bambuwe iyi myumvire. Gerageza kumenya icyo umwana wawe ashimishijwe, kandi muganire nawe uko yashakaga gukora. Icyiciro cya siporo, Ikipe ku nyungu izagufasha kubona abantu b'isi, birashoboka ko ari hano ko umwana azasangamo cyane, kandi inyuma yizewe ku gusobanukirwa abantu bazafasha kwigirira icyizere no gutanga neza itandukaniro ku bahohotera mu ishuri.