Imyifatire yawe mubuzima ishyikirizwa umwana
Akenshi birashoboka kumva ko ababyeyi bato basaba ko ubwoba budashoboka, cyane cyane niba umwana wabo yonsa. Byari ku myaka yumwaka umwana yimuriwe mumarangamutima binyuze mumarangamutima: Icyerekezo, Gukora, kumva, Impumuro. Nkigisubizo, kwishyira hamwe nijambo "nyina" mumwana birashobora kuba tutinyura umugore uhumura amata no guhumurizwa, ariko burigihe bikarakara no mumarira mumaso. Niba urota kubona umwana wawe ufite ibyiringiro byiza byonyine, hanyuma ubanzare reba kuruhande rwawe nubusabane mumuryango uri hagati yumuryango ukururwa hagati yumuryango mukuru. Ineza yawe nziza, ineza nurukundo ku isi kwisi yose, kubahana no gusobanukirwa icyumba bizaba urugero rwiza kumwana, bakareba, azubaka icyitegererezo cyubuzima nimyumvire. Erekana umwana uruhande rwiza rwumubano w'ababyeyi: soma, vuga ko ukunda, guhobera. Gushakisha ibibazo byose, genda numugabo wanjye mugihe gito uri wenyine.
Olga Romaman
Impuhwe ni umufasha wizerwa
Umwe mubafasha beza b'ababyeyi ni urwenya. Nubwo umwana aramutse yibasiwe, aramubabaza, nta mpamvu yo kwicuza cyane, kumwereka akababaro ke. Reba umwana, huhumo kugirango ushakishe "umwobo" mumuryango Jamb cyangwa ku birenge by'ameza, umwana yakubise. Kumwenyura bivuye ku mutima no kwita ku muco bizafasha umwana kwiga kuti kwicuza kubera amakosa, guseka mubuzima.
Ntukambure umwana kuvugana na bagenzi bawe
Umwana agomba kugira inshuti. Gukomeza wenyine mumwanya ufunze, umwana yumva atataye kandi adakenewe, kandi inkweto zirenze urugero, kandi ikabije y'ababyeyi ituma yoroshye kandi ikabikwa ubwigenge. Mu bihe nk'ibi, umwana wenyine ni we ushobora gukura, uhora utishimye, kandi ikintu cyiza ashobora gukora ni ugukoresha ababyeyi babo mu nyungu zabo bwite.
Ntukambure umwana kuvugana na bagenzi bawe
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Gushyikirana na bagenzi bacu bazigisha ibitekerezo byigenga, umuvuduko wimyitwarire nubushobozi bwo kuba mumakipe. Mubisanzwe, Itumanaho rya gicuti rizabanza kwishimisha.
Amakosa - ntabwo arimpamvu yo guhungabana
Vugana n'umwana byoroshye, ntukamuhagarike. Inshingano zose zirashobora kumvikana no gukora kumakosa. Ibintu byose birashobora guhindurwa urwenya kugirango umwana asobanukirwe ko utarakaye. Kurugero, niba wabonye "gutandukana", urashobora kuvuga uti: "Bibaho! Birababaje gato, kandi uzabikosora byoroshye! " Kumva inkunga yawe, umwana azamwenyura, kandi ntutinye reaction yawe. Azaba inyangamugayo, kandi cyane cyane, yize gutsinda ingorane, numva inkunga yawe. Bizamugirira neza ubuzima.