Hariho ibintu n'intego mugihe uko akazi gakora bishoboka. Ariko, uko mbibona, birakwiye rero kuvuga ntabwo ari ugukora ishusho, nkikigo, cyoherezwa mumwanya nigihe, sisitemu, ariko kubyerekeye gushushanya ishusho - ishusho ako kanya. Iyo bisabwe? Kubisasu byamafoto no mubirori byihariye (kwerekana ubucuruzi, kwizihiza, ibirori byisi, nibindi). Ariko no muri ibi bihe ntibishoboka gukora soko ya "hanze" yamakuru nibisabwa, ni mama, umugabo cyangwa inshuti. Inzira imwe cyangwa indi, tekereza, uko bishoboka kose, kwiga umwirondoro wabakiriya bose bataziguye, kubyo bisaba byibuze kugisha inama-kubaza hamwe nigihe kiva kumasaha kuri gatatu.
Niba tuvuze neza kubyerekeye ishusho, kubyerekeye kubaka uburyo bwumuntu, hanyuma gutabara ibitekerezo byabandi (ni bangahe ukunda!) Bizarushaho kubabaza kuruta bizadufasha. Ibitekerezo biva mubantu birashobora gutuma ingorane "hafi", kwanga guhinduka no kwiteza imbere imbaraga zuzuye cyangwa gukora amasezerano yo kwicisha bugufi, yicisha bugufi, amasezerano adahoraho nibintu byose binyuranyije nihungabana rusange. "Gutangaza" Irashobora Kurwanya abateje amahwema, bikaba bikabije kandi ntibiteguye kuvugana n'umukiriya, nkuko ubyumva, ntibishoboka. Akazi kava mu nama mu rwego rw'ishusho muri psychotherapeutic kandi, na nini, birakenewe, birakenewe, birakenewe, birakenewe, birakenewe gukurura inzobere zimaze gukoreshwa hamwe numwirondoro utandukanye rwose.
Nkuko twabivuze, ishusho ivuka mu masangano hagati y'abitwaye n'ayabagenewe. Kandi, nkuko bidashoboka kutazirikana ibitekerezo byanyuma, ntibishoboka kandi kurenga imiterere nibiranga ikibazo cyabambere. Niba umuntu akwemeza ko ashobora guhindura ishusho mumishinga ibiri, vuga, umugabo wawe, urwanya uyu mushinga, ntubyizere! Birumvikana ko ibintu byinshi byumujyanama wishusho, karubanda nubuhanga bwe murwego rwa psychologiya bisobanura byinshi, ariko ntabwo ashimishije. Amaherezo, hari abantu bagoye kwiyegurira hypnose, icyo bavuga kubijyanye nuburyo burenzeho "hejuru" yo guhakana! Niba umuntu afite icyifuzo cyo guhindura no gukura muburyo bwo kugaragara, ariko akaba atarabona ko imirimo yo kwita nimwe muriyi nzira, noneho irashobora gutongana nawe kugirango iganire kandi igabanye ibitekerezo bijyanye no kuzamura ishusho. Niba atari byo - ntugerageze gukora "ihohoterwa rikorerwa kamere."
Muyandi magambo, niba ufite icyifuzo cyo kohereza "kuri stsuliste" rimwe na rimwe, uzahagarara ubitekerezeho. Impano muburyo bw'icyemezo cyo gusura inzobere nk'uwo irashobora kubabaza no gutamba abaharishure, kandi niyo yaba ari (cyangwa niba bishoboka, ntibishoboka ko ikintu feell kizava mu ruzinduko ku gahato. Udafite akazi ko kwitegura hamwe nu muterabwoba umutwaro. Icyo gihe ni bwo bushobora gufatwa n'umutima utuje ku ntambwe nk'intwari kandi ashinzwe!
Ariko uko twabikora, niba ushaka kwereka gusa umuntu, ni ikihe cyiza kandi kirashobora kuba? Nta na rimwe? Hariho! Urashobora gutunganya amafoto kuri we: Umuhanga atora amashusho ashingiye kubiganiro byibanze, akurura shobuja ku maraso yatekerejweho, akodesha studio kandi itumira umufotozi. Ku masaha abiri yo gukorana nitsinda ryabanyamwuga, birumvikana ko ishusho itazahinduka. Ariko, amafoto meza nuburambe bushya bushobora gutera izindi nshakisha, tanga umuvuduko wo guteza imbere no gushimangira kwizera wenyine. Byongeye kandi, umufotozi mwiza arashobora gufasha no gukuraho "igitutu" imbere ya kamera.
Nkuko mubibona, ubufasha, ndetse no hafi, birakwiye neza kandi nubwenge!
Nkwifurije guhora ukomeza kumva ubwitonzi mukugerageza kunoza isi!
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Katerina Khokhlova, Umujyanama Wumujyanama numutoza wubuzima