Nibyo, inzira zose za hafi zigomba kubaho bisabwe na buri wese mu bitabiriye amahugurwa, ariko bibaho bimaze kugaragara, ibihe bidashimishije birasobanuwe, ariko nanone bishobora gutanga ingaruka mbi kuri umwe mubafatanyabikorwa. Kenshi na kenshi, abagore bahura nibibazo bibi, kuva nubwo ibintu bitunguranye bitoroshye guhangana numugabo. Noneho ibihe bibi bigomba guhagarara mugihe utangiye kumva utamerewe neza? Twagerageje kubimenya.
Ntabwo uri umwami
Abagabo benshi biyemeje kubutegetsi, ntabwo ari mubice byumwuga gusa, ahubwo no muburiri. Mu mipaka ishyize mu gaciro ho guhangayikishwa n'ibi, ariko, icyifuzo kitagenzuwe cyo gutunga no guhagarika gishobora kuba kibi cyane ihumuriza ihumure ryumubiri no mu mwuka. Nk'ubutegetsi, kumenya byiganje mbere yo gufata icyemezo cyo gusezera - uyu mugabo ari uwambere, ntabwo yihanganira inzitizi zose kandi yitwara bikabije kunegura, ndetse no kumvikana. Bidashoboka, reka tusobanukirwe ko udakubise agahato cyane cyane urugomo kuruhande rwe.
Ntugire icyo ukora ku bushake bwawe
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Udafite uburenganzira bwo kuntuka
Ukuri kizwi - abantu beza ntibabaho, ndetse no mubyamamare. Kandi nyamara hariho abagabo bibwira ko ari ahantu hadasanzwe nubwiza. Umukunzi nkuyu Kurenza ibiganiro byimazeyo, ibishya bimwe byo hanze kandi bizashima kumugaragaro abandi bagore, kubishyira kurugero. Uratekereza ko hari ikintu kizahinduka muburiri? Yego ntanarimwe. Ukeneye umwanya usobanutse - ntuzihanganira ibitekerezo kubyerekeye isura yawe cyangwa imiterere, mubyukuri, umuntu mwiza arashobora gushakisha umugore umwe mwiza, kuki ukeneye gutakaza umwanya.
Ntabwo tuzishora mu mibonano mpuzabitsina idakingiye
Ibintu byaje birashoboka buri mugore wa kabiri. Birumvikana ko umuntu uwo ari we wese azerekana ko ashishikajwe cyane no kuba hafi "nta mbogamizi", ariko mubyukuri, bizakomeza gukoresha uburyo bwo gukingira niba ari ngombwa mubuzima nkumufatanyabikorwa nu mukundana nuwo mukundana. Ariko rimwe na rimwe gutanga ibitekerezo byimazeyo umukunzi wishimye ntibishoboka, kandi muriki gihe ntugomba kwerekana intege nke - usibye ko ntamuntu numwe uzita ku buzima bwawe, cyane cyane niba ari ukumenyera . Shira imiterere ikaze, umuntu uhagije azahora yumva kandi afata umwanya wawe.