Ivuka ryumwana nimwe mubisubizo bishinzwe mubuzima bwacu. Kubwamahirwe, ababyeyi badasanzwe bafitanye isano niki kibazo nuburemere bwose, bahitamo gukemura ibibazo uko bahageze. Kuva hano akenshi utangira ibibazo nyamukuru muri couple. Twahisemo kumenya ibibazo ari ngombwa gusubiza ababyeyi bafite inshingano mbere yo gutegura gutwita.
Ufite amahirwe yubukungu kugirango umwana akomeze
Abagore benshi bumvise abakunzi b'abakobwa n'abavandimwe b'igisekuru ukuze: "Nibyo, imbere yikintu nabyaye, kandi ntakindi!" Mu bihe nk'ibi, umugore uhangayikishijwe n'uruhande rw'amafaranga yikibazo, atangira kubona ibyiyumvo nyabyo bifite isoni - mubyukuri, buriwese yabyaye, kandi atekereza kumafaranga. Kubuza ibitekerezo nkibi. Isi nubukungu byahindutse byinshi kuburyo biteganijwe gutegura hafi ya buri ntambwe, cyane cyane kubijyanye no kuza kwabana. Ganira na mugenzi wawe niba ushobora guha umwana nta bahohotewe.
Umwana afata imbaraga nyinshi
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Nigute uzita kumwana
Byasa nkaho igisubizo cyabanza - Birumvikana ko Mama! Ariko ntukihutire. Gereranya umuryango wawe utya nindi miryango yinjiza byinshi muri couple yawe, ninde uhame urashobora kumarana umwanya numwana. Kenshi na kenshi, ba se babaye abadatisi beza, ariko ntamuntu wahagaritse uruhare rwa Mama. Bibaho iyo umubyeyi umwe adahanganye, kandi hano birakwiye gutekereza kubutumire bwa Nanny. Ni ngombwa gusuzuma ubushobozi bwawe - haba mu mafaranga na psychologiya - mbere.
Ibizaba ku mwuga wawe
Birashoboka ikibazo kidashimishije cyane, cyane cyane kumugore wagiye kumwanya winzozi imyaka myinshi. Birumvikana, uyumunsi tubona ingero nyinshi mugihe abacuruzi batsinze bahuza mudasobwa igendanwa hamwe na cib, ariko ntabwo buri mugore ashoboye ubuzima bubiri - akazi keza no kwita kumwana gufata imbaraga zidasanzwe. Akenshi ugomba guhitamo ikintu. Witeguye kwigomwa?
Nigute uri mumahame yerekeye abana
Ikibazo kidasanzwe, ariko nyamara cyane cyane. Birasa natwe ko niyo abana bakubabaje, rwose bazatandukana. Oya, abana bose ni bamwe, ntuzashobora guhindura umwana wawe, ahubwo, ugomba guhindura ubuzima bwawe n'imiterere yumuryango mushya. Birakwiye kandi gutekereza cyane kumwanya nkuko mugenzi wawe yiteguye impinduka zikarishye muri LifeGuard.