Yuri Stoyanov - Ikinamico ya Umukinnyi na Sinema, abivuga kuri TV, umucuranzi. Ababo hamwe na Ilya Oleinikov ni gahunda izwi cyane cyane "Umujyi" inshuro enye zatsinze igihembo cya Thafi. Noneho guhagarara birakenewe cyane murukurikirane na sinema. Kuri 2021 afite imishinga irindwi, kandi muri bose - uruhare nyamukuru. Mu mutwe wacu, umuhanzi yabwiye ibitekerezo bye ku mudendezo, guhanga, umubano wa gicuti n'umuryango.
1. Kubijyanye n'umuryango n'ibyishimo
Igitekerezo cyibyishimo gishobora guhinduka mugihe, izindi ndangagaciro zigaragara, byoroshye cyane, kurugero, ubuzima bwabantu, ubuzima.
Iyo ugarutse murugo, uhura numwana ukunda, umugore nimbwa - ntabwo ari imbaraga zihoraho zibyishimo?
Usibye guhangayikishwa n'ubuzima n'imibereho myiza y'abakunzi, umuryango wanjye uterwa n'umuryango wanjye. Ariko nabonye inzira yoroshye cyane muriyi mpuruza kugirango ikureho: Nakoze urukingo rwa Coronavirus.
Ntacyo nsobanuye kubana nanjye simbizana. Kandi, uko bigaragara, ntabwo nabayeho nabi cyane muri iyi myaka niba abakobwa beza bakuze.
2. Ku bwisanzure
Nari mfite igare mu bwana, kandi narose imodoka ubuzima bwanjye bwose. Kandi mugihe ibishoboka byagaragaye muri mirongo ineTeti, nahinduye imodoka kenshi. Byarafashwe no kwigaragaza umudendezo wawe.
Ntabwo nakoraga umunsi uwo ari wo wose. Ariko niba umuhanzi adashobora kubaho adafite ikinamico kandi ni uguhitamo kwe kunyereza, ndamuhanitse. Ndi undi.
Byinshi mubyo nifuza kuvuga, sinshobora, Mfite ubwoba. Kandi ntabwo ari wowe wenyine, ahubwo kubari hafi. Kugenzura imbere biratera imbere cyane muri njye. Kandi iki nikintu gitangaje cyabadafite ubuntu.
Hariho ibintu ntashobora guseka, kuko narezwe cyane. Iyo nshaka kuvuga, kubihagarika muri njye, ntabwo ari ukubera ko ari ubwiyandarike, ariko kubera ko bidasobanutse, ntibishoboka kubivugaho. Ibi birahari murindi mico yose isanzwe, nkinshingano, indero hamwe nubupfura bwumwuga. Muri ibi ndi umuntu wumusovu rwose.
3. Kubijyanye n'ubucuti
Ntabwo nabuze inshuti zanjye mubuzima. Mfite, nk'urugero, inshuti yo mu bwana - muri Odessa abaho, - tumaze imyaka mirongo itanu n'umunani. Birashimishije cyane, umubano wacu muburyo n'ibirimo ntabwo utandukanye cyane nibyo icyo gihe.
Hariho umwanya wo kwikunda: Mugihe ababyeyi ari bazima, uri umwana, mugihe imiryango ari muzima, uracyari umwe.
Mfite inshuti zihagije. Ahanini, aba ni baby'ubwongereza. Duhereye ku iduka ryanjye ryo guhaha kabiri-itatu. Abahanzi ntibahagije kuri njye kumbwira: Mfite uburambe busa nabo, imico isa, ibyifuzo.
Noneho ubucuti na njye ntabwo bworoshye. Ntabwo ndi umuntu usuka, ariko ... Ubucuti bushyikiriza inshingano runaka kandi bisaba igihe. Kandi simfite.
4. kubyerekeye amafaranga
Umubare munini wabantu ntabwo bagera kumushahara, benshi baguye mubucuruzi. Nagize amahirwe ko nasigaye nsaba muri iki gihe kitoroshye.
Iyo nza gukora, ntuzane Uwiteka, nahindura ibikorwa byanjye kumuryango wanjye nkeneye.
Igihe nakuraga, ababyeyi banjye bagerageje kunyitaho, ariko umurimo wahoraga ubanza: Data uhora akora ibikorwa, Mama - kuri pedovets. Nakunze gusinzira.
Benshi mubuzima, kugeza imyaka mirongo ine, nabaga mu buryo bworoheje. Sinankuye muri firime. Kandi igihe amafaranga yatangiraga kugaragara, nakemuye ibibazo byo kugenda - kandi ntabwo byakoze kugirango nkize. Ariko sinigeze nkoresha amafaranga kubangamira umuryango.