Bikunze kugaragara mugihe "gusohoka" hejuru yumuryango, akenshi inshuti nabakunzi ntibazi ibibera inyuma yumuryango ufunze. Hagati aho, umwe mu bagizi ba nabi mubiri ari bibi cyane igice cya kabiri cya kabiri. Akenshi uwahohotewe na Abuza atazi guhagarika umubano, cyangwa ntabwo afite imbaraga kuri yo. Rwose ibitero ntibizaganisha ku kintu cyiza, ndetse birenze ibyo ntibishimangira umuryango, bityo icyuho cyanze bikunze, kandi nyamara tuzakubwira uburyo bwo kugabanya umutwe uhohotera umutwe.
Ubwigenge bwinshi
Igikorwa nyamukuru cyibyabaye ni ukubuza uwahohotewe nibishaka byose nibitekerezo bye. Niba umukunzi wawe akurikizwa kuri iki cyiciro, birashoboka ko ubona uburyo ahakana mu buryo bwitondewe kandi ntuzigere ufata igitekerezo cyawe. Mubihe nkibi, ugomba kubungabunga umwirondoro wawe n'imbaraga zose. Birumvikana ko umufatanyabikorwa ukaze azarwanya, ariko nibyiza gusenya umubano nk'uwo kuruta kwihangana gucika intege.
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Kubaka imipaka
Kubishaka, nibisanzwe kurimbura imipaka iyo ari yo yose. Kandi twongeye kuza ko ari ngombwa gukomeza imbaraga zo kwifuza no kugirira icyizere kugirango tugesobanurira imipaka yacu. Icy'ingenzi ntabwo ari ukutinjira mubisobanuro bidafite ishingiro hamwe numunyagitugu murugo, kubera ko uwagabyajije yagusabye neza kandi yiga guhitamo ingingo zikorana nawe. Aho ibiganiro bitari ngombwa, reka twumve umuntu udakubereye, kandi ntukabe umunebwe kubikora igihe cyose wumva utamerewe neza. Ntukamurika ibihe bitameze neza.
Nta bwoba
Kamere ibaho cyane cyane yita uwahohotewe ubwoba. Niba ufite ubwoba, nturwanya. Kandi ibi nibyo rwose umukunzi wawe yagenywe. Birumvikana ko gutsinda ubwoba cyane, cyane cyane mubihe udashobora kubwimpamvu iyo ari yo yose yo kuva muri uwo mukunzi. Ariko, kugira icyo kwigirira icyizere muri we, uzumva ko ubwoba buhoro buhoro, ikintu cyingenzi ntabwo ari ugutsindwa no kugambana no kurinda imipaka yawe.
Kwirengagiza byuzuye
Nk'ubutegetsi, umuntu waje kwishingikiriza ku rundi afite ubwoko bw'imitekerereze abantu bose bashaka gukunda. Abakoresha vuba babare umuntu nkuwo bagatangira "gutunganya". Nubwo byavamo umuntu winsted mu byerekeye imibanire, Uwucafuje ahansi ye, no kwirengagiza ni amenya na imyumvire ya mugenzi more gushigikira, ni bibi cyane, ariko muri ico gihe nyene ifite akamaro. Ukimara kumva ko ugerageza gushyira ubushake bwawe, kandi usobanukiwe ko udafite impaka nziza zo gusubiza, wirengagize uwo muntu. Ariko icyarimwe, ntukemere ko ibintu bishyuha, nkuko bikurura imyitwarire nkiyi birashobora kubona. Niba wumva ko "gusiga ikaranze", nibyiza kwitandukanya gusa no kutazana ibintu kumakimbirane afunguye.
Umubano na Manigulator kandi akanyabitero ntizigera ushobora kunezezwa byombi, kubera ko uwahisemo umuntu mbere udashobora kwanga, bityo, niba inama zavuzwe haruguru zifite ingaruka zigihe gito, ntukurura a Kumena, ntabwo bizwi kugirango usobanukirwe imbaraga zitagira imipaka zumukunzi utukana.