Hari igitsina kuri wewe nkuko ari ngombwa kuri twe? Ariko, tegereza. Igisubizo cyose cyiki kibazo, ikintu cyingenzi nuko bifitanye isano nigisubizo cyumukunzi wawe. Yoo na Ah, ariko akenshi ibyo twiteze mubibazo byo kuba byiza kutemeranya nukuri. Niyo mpamvu umubare munini wibibazo, bizana ibyishimo rimwe mumakimbirane asanzwe ndetse acitse. Ubuzima bwo Kwigamana Ese koko bugira ingaruka ku mibanire y'urukundo cyane? Nukuri ko bidashoboka kubaho udafite igitsina?
Ntabwo byoroshye kuvuga kubyerekeye igitsina. Nibyo, tuba mu kinyejana cya makumyabiri na mbere - kandi ntakibazo cyo kubona amakuru ayo ari yo yose. Birasa nkaho isoni no kwitiranya ibikubiyemo ababyeyi bacu mugihe baganira ku ngingo "kuri iyi", ntibigitubangamira, bigezweho kandi babohowe. Nibyo, ijambo ryibanze hano "bisa." Calibration isohoka ko ari ibibazo byimibonano mpuzabitsina bihinduka imwe mubyingenzi, isenya amashyirahamwe akomeye kandi yuje urukundo.
Kubera iki? Turimo kuvugana mugihe cyo guterana, akazi, abana. Twese tumenyana impuhwe, duhishure ibikomere byabana nibibazo byo mumitekerereze. Ariko kubijyanye nibyo bakundana, duhindukira kuruhande, tukaranze kandi tutazi neza ingimbi zigoye kwiyemerera mugenzi wabo mubyifuzo byabo. Reka dukemure impamvu ari ngombwa cyane kwiga kuvuga kubyerekeye igitsina n'igitsina cyawe.
Imbuto zabujijwe
Amajana, ndetse imyaka ibihumbi, urwego rwimbitse rwari kirazira. Birumvikana ko ibitandukanye buri gihe mu mategeko, ariko muri Sociums ibihe bitandukanye n'ibihe, kugeza mu kinyejana cya makumyabiri, imibonano mpuzabitsina byafatwaga nk'ibiteye isoni, bibujijwe. Ishimire kubyegereye umubiri? Niki! Ikintu cyingenzi - kubyara, kandi niba umwana akitabona nta "uru rubanza", icyo gukora ... abagabo n'abagore kenshi) bihanganira imibonano mpuzabitsina, bihanganira nta mibonano mpuzabitsina (cyangwa imibonano mpuzabitsina ubwayo). Iyi "imizigo" kuva abakurambere yanyuze muburyo bwibisekuru. Birasa nibintu byose bishoboka, ariko ntitushobora kwihanganira kuba wenyine.
Bije kuri Byendagusetsa (nubwo bisekeje hano, birumvikana, bike): Dufite isoni zo guhamagara imyanya ndabye, nta muvandimwe wintwaro. Hano, by, hamwe n'imyitwarire ku ruhare rwa hafi. Ababyeyi bacu ntibashoboraga kudusobanurira ko mu ijambo "imboro" nta kintu na kimwe giteye ubwoba, kandi hano twe abantu bakuru, nka "Petri "na" pizza ". Kuki ibi bibaho? Kuberako turacyafite imvururu zitandukanye imbere yumubiri wawe, ntituzi amabanga yaryo, umutinya.
Ukurikije imibare, mbere yuko abagore mirongo cyenda ku ijana badafite umunezero kubahuza imibonano mpuzabitsina, ntabwo bahagaze mubuvuzi
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Umukobwa wanjye wa hafi, muremure kandi yishimye, hari ukuntu mu ishyaka rya bachelorette ryasangiye ubumwe: ntabwo yishimye cyane n'umugabo we. Kuvuga ko twatunguwe, ntabwo ari ukuvuga. N'ubundi kandi, ishyingiranwa ryabo rimaze imyaka icumi, bafite abana babiri - kandi ibintu byose biragaragara ko abashakanye bakundana. "Urabona, gusa sinibona mu ruhare rwa nyirabuja!" - yidoga aya. Umugore watuye ati: "Aba ni abatangabuhamya bamwe, barabisabwe, kandi ndatandukanye." Kuri uwo mugoroba twagiriye inama Ana kwiyambaza imibonano mpuzabitsina. Nyuma yigihe, umukunzi we yavuze ko nyuma yo gusurwa bike, ubuzima bwe bwarahindutse. Muganga yamufashaga kumva neza aho inkomoko yikibazo cye yari. Biragaragara ko, mu bwana, nyina nyuma yo gutandukana na Se mubyo urumuri rugomba gutuka ishyaka rye rishya. "Yambwiye umukobwa muto cyane ko umugore yashutse na papa, amushimira ko yitwaye nk'umukobwa usebanya." Anyana yariyibagiwe, asunikwa kubera kwibuka, ariko amagambo ya nyina yari asanzwe ari umugore ukuze. Ntabwo yashoboye kwihanganira kuba "umudendezo" cyane kandi "nkana" kandi akomanga igitsina cye muri iyi myaka yose. Yagize amahirwe: Umugabo we ntiyabitekereza ku bukonje bw'umugore we, cyangwa ngo afate icyo kibazo, atagerageza gushyira igitutu ku bashakanye. Ibyishimo mumuryango ntibyarinze ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, ariko, byanze bikunze, mu rwihishwa Anna yose yiyumvise afite umushukanyi, umugambanyi, ubukonje kandi bukonje kandi budahagarikwa. Niba kandi atari uko ishyaka rya bachelorettte, ryakomeza ... igihe kingana iki? By the way, anyana iracyajya mu kantu - ubu ntabwo igana ku buryarya, kandi yamaze kugera mu mutwe wa psychotherapiste, igerageza kumenyana no kugarura imibonano mpuzabitsina kandi ikangura igitsina.
Ukurikije imibare, mbere yuko abagore mirongo cyenda ku ijana badafite umunezero bakomoka ku mibonano mpuzabitsina, ntabwo baringaniye mu buvuzi, ni ukuvuga, bafite amahirwe yumubiri yo kubona orgasm. Ariko ibi bishoboka kubwimpamvu runaka birahagaritswe. Impamvu zikunze kuza gukomeretsa hamwe nabana "bikonje" iterambere ryimibonano mpuzabitsina. Niki? Wigire umunwa wawe n'umubiri wawe, imyifatire ye n'ibikenewe. Ubwa mbere, ushobora kuba utamerewe neza kandi uteye isoni, ariko ni ngombwa kubyumva: Ntamuntu usibye ko ushobora kumva icyo ukunda mugihe, hamwe nukuntu ubikunda. Kwiga imibonano mpuzabitsina byayo nicyiciro kimwe cyo gukura, kimwe nibikubaho byose. Gukura, utangira kumva uburyohe bwawe aricyo kiyobyabwenge kiri mubiryo, niyihe firime numuziki ukunda. Ibyifuzo ni ngombwa gufata no kubahana, bitabaye ibyo mugahura "ikiruhuko".
Nigute ushobora gusubiza inyungu mu mibonano mpuzabitsina?
imwe. Ntukandane na mugenzi wawe cyangwa wenyine . Niba uhora wibanda ku kuba ikintu "kidakwiye" hamwe na couple yawe, niko bizaba. Fata uko ibintu bimeze ubu: bizafasha kugendana mubyukuri no kumenya impamvu impinduka zabaye muri libido yawe (cyangwa libido).
2. Fantasize! Ibitekerezo ni zone itarangwamo ibibujijwe na kirazira. Ntamuntu numwe ushobora kureba inzozi zawe, ntamuntu uzagukosora kandi akakwigisha. Umunebwe nyamukuru ushobora kugusiga mubitekerezo byawe ni wowe wenyine.
3. Kina. Uyu munsi hari umubare munini wimikino ukuze - amagufwa yimibonano mpuzabitsina, mato mato, "ashyushye" ashyushye ...
Bane. Soma! Ubuvanganzo bwa erotic burashobora gukomera cyane kuruta kureba amashusho asanzwe. Kubera iki? Ibintu byose biroroshye: Gusoma, dukora ibikorwa byacu byo gutekereza.
bitanu. ITERAMO: Tegereza iyo isaha ibintu byose bigomba kubaho, mugitondo. Injira ubutumwa, Amafoto meza, Inyandiko.
Bibaho kenshi: Ntabwo tubona imiterere nyayo ya mugenzi wawe
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Dore irari!
Mubisanzwe dusuzuma ikibazo "ubukonje" gusa no kutitaho imibonano mpuzabitsina. Niba kandi ureba uko ibintu bimeze kurundi ruhande? Nigute ushobora kuba niba ukeneye ibirenze umufasha ushobora gutanga?
Intangiriro yigitabo cya bagenzi banjye, Kati na Oleg, byagaragaye mumaso yacu. Abashakanye bashishikaye basomaga mubyukuri, ahantu hato kubatangabuhamya batabishaka. Twishimiye abakunzi, ariko ubumwe bwabo bwamaranye umwaka nigice. Nuburyo mu Ishyaka rya Katya Coorpo, mubisanzwe uceceke, wiziritse. Byaragaragaye ko umubano we na Oleg washyize ... itandukaniro mumiterere. Kuba umusore biratuje kuruta uko byasaga naho, Katya yatangiye kubona amezi atandatu gusa nyuma yo gutangira igitabo cyabo. "Urabona, ubanza ibintu byose byari nkumugani. Ibintu byose biragoye cyane, ibintu byose birahagije!. .. Sinashoboraga kwiyumvisha ko umuriro uzasohoka mu mezi make, "Jaterina yasangiye atengushye mu mezi make." "
Ingingo 3 z'ingenzi
Wige. Kugira ngo wumve ibibera mubuzima bwawe bwo guhuza imibonano mpuzabitsina, ni ngombwa kumenya byose kuri wewe. Witondere nigihe cyumubiri wawe, amabanga yayo, ibiranga. Gusobanukirwa uko imitungo yawe ari. Wige kuvuga ku mubiri wawe no mumiterere yawe numufatanyabikorwa.
Itaziguye. By the way, kubyerekeye ibiganiro mbere, mugihe na nyuma yimibonano mpuzabitsina bikwiye kubivuga. Abantu bake barashobora gutangaza neza icyo bakeneye. Gari ya moshi! Biragoye kuvuga ikintu, kureba mumaso yumufatanyabikorwa? Andikire ubutumwa "bwanduye"!
Kwizerana. Kenshi cyane cyane bitwikiriye amadozi yoroshye yo mumitekerereze. Ariko, ntabwo byoroshye: ishingiro nuko bikugoye guhagarika kugenzura no kwizerana numufatanyabikorwa wa hafi. Gerageza gukora kubintu byicyizere nuwatoranijwe.
Bibaho kenshi: inyuma yintera itangira ntitubona imiterere nyayo ya buriwese. Ntamwanya wo kuganira, nuburyo bwo kubikora? Kugirango uhitemo ikiganiro nkiki, ukeneye urwego runaka rwubwigenge, kandi ukwiranye na lexicon. Kandi uribuka ko kuva mu bwana twatangajwe n'ikimwaro mbere yo guhamagara imibiri n'amarangamutima? Biragoye kujya impaka kuri zone yihariye nibyishimo, mugihe nta magambo akwiye kuriyi. Katya na Oleg ntibashobora kumva ikintu gikomeye kuri mugenzi we, hanyuma byaje kugaragara ko umukobwa wimibonano mpuzabitsina akeneye cyane kurusha mugenzi we. Amezi menshi, yarwanye nanjye n'ibishuko byo guhindura impengamico nke, hanyuma ahitamo kuvuga - kandi ubumwe bwabo bwarasenyutse. Ukuri kubabaje mubuzima, kandi rurenze kubabazwa mubukwe, kuba hafi yumufatanyabikorwa udakwiye cyangwa uhisha intego yayo.
Bibaho ko utangira gutatanya mubikenewe nyuma yigihe gito hamwe. Birumvikana, muriki gihe, birakwiye ko habaho imbaraga zose kugirango dusubize ibyahise. Imibonano mpuzabitsina yica ubuzima, no kuvuka kw'abana, kandi yahujwe n'umunaniro. Nigute? Menya ko ikibazo kibaho. Mugihe uri wowe mu buryo butunguranye atari ukurya jellies gitunguranye, akenshi ntubona ikibazo (bitandukanye na mugenzi wawe). Nyuma yo kumenya, tangira ... ikiganiro. Uzatangazwa, ariko ibisanzwe (ukuri, frank) bitera ibitangaza. Sangira ubwoba bwawe no gushidikanya, bwira uwo mwashakanye impamvu utagishaka kugirana ubucuti na we. Vuga mu buryo butaziguye kandi byoroshye: Ntabwo hagomba kubaho bigaragara kandi bidasobanutse. Kenshi na kenshi, abagabo ntibabona ko abagore babo bajanjagurwa na Homemade. Kandi umugore wapfuye aratangwa aho kuba umunsi mukuru ukwiye wo gukora muburiri. Rimwe ni uw'uwo mwashakanye ushishikaye, utumizo ni muburyo bwo kubungabunga ingufu, bidashaka kuyakoresha atari ibintu byingenzi. Ibiryo no gusinzira - ibyo aribyo byose ukeneye. Biragaragara ko ingufu zirenze zikimara kugaragara - Sensuality irabyuka, ibyifuzo bishaje birasubizwa. Niba utangaza umugabo wawe ko udafite imbaraga nubusambanyi kubitsina, urashobora kubona ubufasha nubucuti.
Mugihe uri wowe uwo turinzwe mu itumanaho ryimbitse, ni ngombwa cyane kwitonda no kuzamura neza ingingo biragushimishije utabanje gukomera. Ikigaragara ni uko kubura icyifuzo muri rusange bifatwa na mugenzi wawe nko kubura icyifuzo. Noneho, igihe kirekire ukurura, kwiyongera uburakari nuburakari kurikundwa birashinze imizi. Nuko si ngombwa kugira ngo twihangane kandi guceceka: Nubwo impungenge b'umuntu ni ishingiro na mpuzabitsina inyungu mugenzi Ugas ni wowe, uzagira guhitamo - Kugerageza gusubira cyangwa kwemera no konji.
Muri rusange, ubushobozi bwo kureka ibitari byiza kuri wewe nikindi kimenyetso cyumuntu mukuru. Ibinyejana byinshi mbere yuko ibyo, abagore bahatiwe imibonano mpuzabitsina - kandi nta mahirwe banze cyangwa ngo babaze byinshi. Ahari igihe kirageze cyo kwifashisha uburenganzira bwo guhitamo no kureka kuba hafi mugihe udakeneye.
By the way, abahanga mu by'igitsina bafite icyizere: Niba wize kuvuga "oya" ndetse na mugenzi wawe ukundwa cyane kandi ukaba ufatana, mugihe utiteguye gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, igihe kidashobora kuba cyiza cyane. Ikigaragara ni uko, kubyemera binyuze mu mbaraga, ugenda ucika buhoro buhoro libido, wishyireho, ukureho ibyifuzo byawe inyuma. Niba ibi bibaye buri gihe, inyito yawe iragoye, kuko nyuma yigihe wirengagije ibimenyetso byayo kugirango ushyigikire mugenzi wawe, bivuze ko vuba uzahagarika kwihishurira wenyine. "Sinshaka? Urarushye gusa. Ihangane! " Hoba hariho ishyaka?
Ntugomba kugerageza gukomeza gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina uwo ari we udahuye: kwivuza cyangwa umukunzi - ntabwo aribwo buryo bwo kwishimira. Ibipimo biratungura gusa: uri ubanza. Ibisabwa n'ibyifuzo byawe hariho udukoni duhuze byose. Umaze kumenyana n'ibyifuzo bye, ibyiyumvo bye, ntushidikanya, ntugashidikanya: Bashaka kuvuga. Kwiyunga ni byiza, ariko ikintu cyingenzi ntabwo ari uguhagarika kumva umubiri wawe, kugerageza gushimisha umukunzi. Iminsi ishyushye nijoro!