Kuva ku basomyi basomyi Umugore:
"Uraho! Amezi atatu ashize, natandukanye n'umusore wari ufite imyaka ine. Umubano wari uteye ubwoba. Yaransuzumye, twarahiye kubyerekeye abandi. Nyuma yo gutandukana, yagerageje gusubiza umubano, ariko sinabyemeye. Abakunzi bakobwa barambwira ko adakwiriye. Ndabyemera. Ariko iyo agerageje gusubira inyuma byose, ibitekerezo bizamuka mumutwe, kandi mu buryo butunguranye, kandi birashoboka. Nigute wabikuraho? Ndashaka gushyira ingingo mumibanire rimwe n'iteka ryose. "
Mwaramutse!
Shira ingingo nyuma yumubano muremure mubyukuri ntabwo byoroshye cyane. Kugira ngo byagenze byihuse kandi birengana cyane, gerageza gukora umurimo ukurikira wenyine.
Ubwa mbere, umaze kubona imbaraga kugirango uhagarike umubano wagusenya. Gerageza kumva aho wakuwe muri izo mbaruru kuruta uko byarushijeho kwigarurira. Birashoboka ko byashyigikira inshuti zabakobwa cyangwa imyifatire yawe myiza, kandi wenda ibyiringiro bimwe mugihe kizaza. Ubu Minisitiri. Bizagufasha kumva ufite icyizere.
Ibikurikira, tekereza kubiri muri uyu mubano mwiza, nibibi, ibyo wakunze, nibitemewe. Niki wifuza "gufata" nawe, nibikigenda kera. Ibyiza birashobora kwibukwa mugihe cyakoreshejwe, ubuhanga waguze mubikorwa byo gutumanaho nuyu muntu (ikintu cyoroshye - cyatangiye guteka), cyangwa cyiza watanze muri wowe (urugero, ubushobozi bwo guhitamo abagabo umubano;). Ibi byose birashobora kuza muburyo bwakazi. Reba kubyo ubwo busabane bwakwigishije, ndashaka kuvuga uko ubuzima bwerekana ko waguze.
Hanyuma, icyiciro cya nyuma kirashobora kuba inyuguti yo gusezera ku wahoze akuze. Ibaruwa itazigera igera kubyahawe, kuko itamugenewe. Andika muri byose utekereza - nibyiza, nibibi. Kandi icy'ingenzi - kurangiza no kwandika wizeye: "Muraho".
Nshuti Basomyi, Mary Birryakova Uracyashobora kohereza kuri aderesi: [email protected].