Nkimpandi, intambwe yambere iganisha kuri Froxmiime kuri bombi ituma umugabo, ariko ntabwo uhagarariye igorofa rikomeye yiteguye ibikorwa bikomeye. Niba wumva ko gusomana no guhobera bikurura cyane, kandi ushaka kujya kurwego rushya rwumubano, fata iyambere kumaboko yawe. Tuzakubwira uko twabikora neza.
Mbwira neza
Ntabwo ari ibanga kubona abagabo benshi bigoye kumva ibitekerezo byabagore. Niba umukunzi wawe ari umwe muri aba bagabo, tangira ikiganiro kure, gahoro gahoro kuva mu ngingo rusange mu buzima bwawe bwimbitse. Baza icyo ukunda mu buriri kugiti cyawe, aho yifuza kugerageza gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina bwa mbere. Ariko, witegure kuberako umugabo azabaza ibibazo bimwe nawe.
Kora
Urashobora gutangira "gutora umubiri" mubyiciro byambere byubusabane: nkaho bakora kubwimpanuka yumubiri we, kurugero, amaboko, kumaboko cyangwa ijosi, gukora ku mugongo, mugongo uko bishoboka kose. Mugihe cyo gusomana urashobora kugerageza gutanga amaboko y amaboko azaza, nk'amategeko, abagabo ntibarwanya icyo gikorwa.
Ntabwo abagabo bose basuzumye
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Reba mu maso ye
Kubona abagore nimwe mu ntwaro zikomeye mu rugamba rw'umutima w'umuntu. Ibimenyetso byacu rimwe na rimwe vuga amagambo menshi. Kina na we: Ibuka uko wakundanye mu ntangiriro yumubano, gerageza gushyira ibyifuzo byawe kubitekerezo byawe, gerageza ushireho ibyifuzo byawe byose mubitekerezo byawe, reba mumaso, hanyuma urebe. Subiramo inshuro nyinshi, mubisanzwe ingaruka ziza vuba.
Tanga ubushake bwa Gubam
Inzira nziza kandi "kuvuga" kugirango ikemuke mu mibonano mpuzabitsina irasomana. Umuntu udasanzwe udashaka gukomeza nyuma yo gusomana neza hamwe no gukoraho ahantu hose h'umubiri. Ntukibuza umugabo agukoraho muburyo bwo gusomana. Urashobora kubyemeza neza: Nyuma yibi, birashoboka ko bizashaka gukomeza.
reka akore
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Icyo utakora
Ni ngombwa guhisha neza kandi neza ku mibonano mpuzabitsina. Igikorwa kimwe kitari cyo kuruhande rwawe gishobora gusenya umubano nakazi, kuburyo rero wemere amakosa nkaya:
Ni ayahe makosa ushobora gukora:
Kwambara nabi
Iyo ishusho yumuriro ihindutse nabi, imibonano mpuzabitsina yose irashonga icyarimwe. Hitamo imyambarire yumvikana hamwe no gucamo bike no kwibandaho kumaso cyangwa byiza kumunwa, ariko ntibikenewe rwose kwambara imbyago zitwara imbonerara hamwe na miniskirt muri seti imwe.
Ntukavuge ubuzima bwawe bwimbitse ukoresheje umurongo
Ntakintu kibi nko gutangira kuganira kubibazo byawe byimbitse ninshuti zawe imbere yumugabo. Kuri mugenzi wawe, iki nikimenyetso cyukuri ko nyuma uzavuga kandi kubijyanye nigikorwa cye cyimibonano mpuzabitsina cyangwa ibindi bisobanuro yahitamo kwihisha.
URASHOBOKA CYANE
Gusobanura ibanga. Niba udashaka kwerekana ishyaka ahantu rusange, umugabo ntashobora kwishimira ubutwari bwawe akabikuramo neza kuko adahuye neza, ntabwo yibona kuruhande rwumukunzi wawe.