Ubwumvikane bwumuryango ni ngombwa, niba atari ikintu nyamukuru cyumuryango ukomeye. Ikintu cyamafi: mugihe hari ubwumvikane mumuryango, ntamuntu uzakubwira rwose, kugirango ibaho. Ariko mugihe nta bwumvikane, guhamagara byoroshye kubwimpamvu ebyiri zibangamira kugeraho. Ahanini, izi mpamvu zizahuzwa nuburyo umufatanyabikorwa yitwara - umugabo cyangwa umugore bitwara. Umubare munini w'abatabona umunezero mu ishyingiranwa rwose bizera rwose ko hamwe nundi hamwe nundi, bukwiriye, kandi nabo ubwabo bazaba batandukanye, kandi ubuzima bwumuryango ubwabo buzaba butandukanye, umunezero wo mu muryango Ariko ibanga nuko bidakenewe kuba umuntu mwiza cyangwa uwo bashakanye kugirango ugere kubwumvikane mumuryango.
Imiryango yose ifite amakimbirane, kutumvikana, gutongana no kutumvikana. Ariko imiryango yishimye kandi itishimye ni uguhura nubundi buryo muburyo butandukanye. Icyerekezo kimwe no gusobanukirwa indangagaciro, ubudahemuka kuri mugenzi wawe, amahirwe yo kwizerana, icyifuzo cyo gufashanya - ibi nibintu byingenzi bitandukanya urugo rwiza. Umva itandukaniro: Kuba indahemuka kuri mugenzi wawe, nubwo wemeranya nawe mubibazo runaka, cyangwa uyirwanya. Biroroshye kuba urwanywa, ubudahemuka muribi bihe bisaba imbaraga, kumenya mubucuti. Kandi hano ibeshya amategeko nyamukuru yimibanire itunganijwe: umubano numurimo uhoraho.
Hariho isano idasanzwe hagati yibyiyumvo nibikorwa.
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Nibyo, gukora mubucuti ni umurimo kubafatanyabikorwa bombi. Umuntu umwe, nubwo yari afite ibyiza gute, ntashobora gutwara ibicuruzwa byubusabane ku bitugu, kandi sinakwiye kubikora. Birumvikana ko atari mububasha bwacu "kurera" umugabo we cyangwa umugore we, ugerageza gukora abafatanyabikorwa byoroshye. " Ibyo dushoboye byose - ongera usuzume imyifatire yawe kubashakanye, gerageza kubona no gukosora amakosa yawe, kora kumyitwarire yawe kuri mugenzi wawe. Gusa kwihindagurira, dushobora gutera umufatanyabikorwa. Kandi akenshi iyi niyo nzira yonyine yo kugera kubwuzuzanya mumuryango.
Hariho isano idasanzwe hagati yibyiyumvo nibikorwa. Iyo dukundana, ibikorwa byacu bijyanye na mugenzi wawe byateganijwe kubwibyiyumvo byacu. Noneho, iyo ishyaka ritangiye kugenda, nibikorwa bishobora kuba isoko yubumaji bizagaburira umubano wawe, byuzura urukundo nurukundo. Iyi ni ukuri kugaragara: Kora ibi nkaho ukunda kandi wubaha mugenzi wawe (gusa ubikora ubikuyeho), hanyuma ukamukunda rwose. Wihutire ko udashaka gutura iruhande rwuyu muntu, ahubwo ubeho wishimye.
Witobe, ntushake gushushanya umufatanyabikorwa. Nubwo yaba yaranyerera cyangwa ikosa, mumfashe gukomeza mu maso, bari ku ruhande rwe. Tekereza kuri ayo magambo ushaka kuvuga, rimwe na rimwe nibyiza gukora neza kuruta kwerekana amakimbirane.
Ibisanzwe, niko urufatiro rwumubano
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Gira ubutwari mugihe ari ngombwa. Ntutinye kujya mu bwiyunge, ntutegereze ko usunika cyangwa usuzugura. Wibuke ko ufite ikintu kimwe kijyanye numuryango wawe, kandi ko iyi ari rusange ikwiye gutinyuka.
Haranira kugirango ugaragare cyane hagati yabagize umuryango bose. Ni muri urwo rwego, imigenzo yo mu muryango, amasomo, ibintu bishimishije, amategeko, ubumwe kuri bose, nibindi, birahuje neza.
Ntutegereze ko umukunzi wawe yiga gusoma ibitekerezo byawe cyangwa gukeka ibyifuzo byawe. Urashaka kujyana numugabo wanjye muri firime? Mbwira neza, ntutegereze kugeza igihe we, nkumugabo nyawe, azagutumira.
Ntugerageze kumererwa neza mubucuti, iminyago yose. Ntugomba kubaho mubucuti udahaze - ariko kugirango utabaho muburyo nk'ubwo, ugomba kwiga kuvugana na mugenzi wawe, muganire kubibazo byose byingenzi. Biragoye kuvuga uburyo imiryango ingana ishobora gukizwa gutandukana niba abantu bari bazi gusa kuganira.
Abagereki bagenwa n'ubwumvikane nk "uburenganzira bwo kutumvikana." Kugirango ugere kubwumvikane mumuryango, ntushake guhuza mugenzi wawe, kuba umwe muri rusange. Guma wenyine, gira ijwi ryawe, ariko uhumurize ijwi ryabafatanyabikorwa. Kandi ibi ntibishoboka nta kubahana, kwemerwa hagati yabo. Ni muribi ko bikwiye gushakisha inkomoko mumuryango.