Abagore benshi bakunda bidasanzwe mugihe umugabo adafashe amarangamutima muri ibisanzwe, cyangwa mubuzima bwimbitse. Ariko, akenshi ibi ntabwo ari ibimenyetso byerekana kamere ishimishije, ahubwo ni impengamiro yo kwibasirwa, udashobora kwitegura. Tuzasesengura imico myinshi izaguha kugirango usobanukirwe niba bikwiye kubyuka no kwinjije neza kumuntu.
Ntabwo yifata ahantu rusange
Nibyo, kurahira no kurakara cyane mubantu rimwe na rimwe bivuga gusa ku burezi bubi, ariko nanone imyitwarire nk'abo - "inzogera" kuri wewe: ntishobora no kwirinda no kwerekana ikintu utazatera ubwoba. Ubu bwoko bwabagabo butwara cyane, Brazesely kandi ntibitekereza kubantu hirya no hino, aribyombo byiza kubakobwa bato badafite uburambe. Tekereza witonze - Ukeneye uburiri bwa "ibintu"?
Ibimenyetso byumuntu ubaza
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Arashikamye cyane
Umugabo agomba gutangizwa, abantu bose barabizi. Ariko nibisanzwe kuba ibyiciro no kudafata icyemezo cyo gukora buri gihe? Tekereza gusa ko wari mu buriri bumwe, ushobora kuba waganiriye kubyo ukunda, kandi ni ubuhe buryo, umugabo nkawe kandi wunvikana, ahubwo azakira ibyo ashaka, nubwo imyigaragambyo yawe. Ntabwo ukunda igitsina? Nta kintu na kimwe giteye ubwoba, ariko nka we. Kandi ugomba kubifata. Cyangwa wange umukunzi nkuyu.
Ntabwo yitaye ku byiyumvo byawe no kumva
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Ibiyobyabwenge bidasanzwe
Abagabo bamwe bakunda gusangira numukobwa arambuye mumibanire yabo ya kera. Ku ruhande rumwe, ntabwo ari byiza cyane kubyumva, ariko kurundi - urashobora kwiga ibintu byinshi bishimishije kumufatanyabikorwa mushya. Niba wunvise ikintu nka: "Twe n'uwahoze nakoze kandi ko, na we atabikunze, ariko nkunda, azamenya kimwe. Ubushakashatsi bwose bwo guhuza imibonano mpuzabitsina ntibushobora kwitwa umwere.
Biragoye kuri uyihagarika
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Uburiganya
Umukunzi wawe ntabwo akunda kuvugana muri sosiyete cyangwa kwirengagiza ibyifuzo byinshuti? Birashoboka ko yirengagije amagambo yawe cyangwa imyigaragambyo yawe yo guhagarara, kuko ubu bwoko bwabantu batitaye rwose kumarangamutima yabandi, reka bigaragare muburyo bubi.
Ntabwo ashishikajwe no kwanga kwawe
Benshi muritwe twahuye nkabo ntabwo nabafatanya nabafatanyabikorwa bacu, ahubwo gusa nabagabo badashaka cyangwa batazi kwanga. Ariko umubano wawe bwite ibintu byose birakomeye. Aragusoma, uragerageza gukuraho, ariko umufatanyabikorwa ntahangayitse? Menya neza ko bizahangayikishwa no kubabaza cyangwa udashaka ikintu mu mibonano mpuzabitsina, bizahaza ibyo akeneye, nubwo imyigaragambyo yawe.