"Ikibazo cyawe ni ikihe? Ariko mfite ... "- Utangira ikiganiro ninshuti yoroheje ku rutugu. Menya ko inkunga nkiyi numuntu mwiza kandi umwanzi ntazabishaka. Mubihe bitesha umutwe, ugomba gushobora kwitwara neza no gutanga neza igice nigipimo cyinkunga umuntu wawe wa hafi akeneye. Binyuze mu nama mbi, nk'abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bareba uko ibintu bimeze n'ibyifuzo bitanga.
"Amaherezo uraterana!"
Urambiwe cyane kumva umukobwa wumukobwa ugana ko agikunda "uwahoze", umaze igihe kinini agenda numukobwa mushya. Turagusobanukiwe, kuko ibintu nk'ibi bibaye n'incuti za buri wese muri twe - bonyine byarashe ku kazi, abandi bari bahawe imyenda, abandi ntibahangana n'uruhare rw'ababyeyi. Muri ibi bihe, ntuzafasha mu nkunga imwe, ni ngombwa guha umuntu urutonde rwinama zifatika kumuntu. Ariko ugomba gusa gushyikirizwa amasezerano mabi, ariko kubinyuranye nabyo: "Masha, ndagukunda kandi twifuriza ibyiza mubuzima. Umukunzi wanjye yibagirwa ibyahozeho byafashije siporo, reka tugerageze kujya muri siporo hamwe? "
Mbwira umukobwa wumukobwa uburyo bwo gukiza umutima umenetse
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"Hamwe n'ibinure byihuta ..."
Byasa nkaho umuntu afite byose: Korana numushahara mwiza, umutungo utimukanwa, amahirwe yo kuguruka mu biruhuko inshuro ebyiri kumwaka, inshuti zizerwa ziri hafi - ni iki kindi ushobora kwifuzwa? Abantu benshi biragoye kumva ko kwiheba bishobora kuvuka bisa nkibishusho. Bakuru bacu barabona ko ibibazo byose mubusa. Ariko, abamuhugu ba psychologue barahamagarira kudakora byihuse imyanzuro yumuntu. Akenshi ibibazo bigaragara ko kwigirira icyizere kandi inzobere gusa izafasha guhangana nabo. Mbwira itumanaho rya psychologue inshuti yihebye, kandi nibyiza kujyana nawe kurera hamwe.
"Nibyo, ni ikibazo?"
Wibuke: Ntushobora guhitamo ibyiyumvo byabandi bantu. Kuba bisa nkibike kubandi, bihinduka kubandi. Urukundo rwa mbere, umukunzi wahemu, amazip mugenzi we umugongo, kubura amafaranga - binyuze muri ibyo bibazo byose ushobora gutera inshuro zirenze imwe hanyuma ukavamo uwatsinze. Ikigaragara nuko inshuti yawe idafite imico ihoraho - kandi ntabwo ari amakosa ye. Erekana imbabazi kandi ubikuye ku mutima gerageza gutunga umuntu. Niba kandi imyifatire isa ninshuti ikugaragariza, nibyiza ko tubivuga mubyukuri kandi bimuka mugihe gito.
Mugire inama inshuti yumuhanga ubishoboye
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"Mama yacu yakoraga ku mirimo itatu, nawe ..."
Times Guhinduka - Urubyiruko rugezweho, rukurikije imitekerereze ya psychologue, rukunda kwigaragaza. Ibi birashobora gusobanurwa no kuboneka amakuru, icyerekezo kuri psychoanalysise hamwe nurwego rwo hejuru rwo guhangayika burimunsi. Bitewe nibitekerezo byavuzwe haruguru, kwiheba nibibazo byo mumutwe. Ntacyo bimaze kubarwanya wenyine - menya ko ayo makimbirane ari amwe nkabavumbure cyangwa angina. Ntuzigira ngo batagerageza cyangwa bagerageza kwifata? Muri uru rubanza rero, ugomba kuvugana ninzobere.