Abana bakoporoga ababyeyi babo - kandi rimwe na rimwe birateye ubwoba. Kuva mu bwana, ibimera bigenwa mubyiciro byacu, nyuma bigaragarira muburyo bwimibarire yabantu hamwe nabafatanyabikorwa babo, imyifatire yabo numubiri wabo, imikoranire nabakunzi hamwe nabandi bantu. Ntibishoboka kwikingira amakosa yose, ariko ni ngombwa kugabanya umubare wabo mubintu byihariye. Soma ibijyanye n'amakosa yo kwigisha ushobora kubyemera mu bikoresho.
Shahlah! "
Ahari ikintu cya mbere umubyeyi agira ingaruka kumiterere yumukobwa we kumubiri. Niba utaremereye umwana kuva akiri muto kwiruka yambaye ubusa no murugo, yahoraga yakomeretse imyenda ye kandi akatigera avuga umubiri kandi ntiyigeze avuga kubyerekeye igitsina, ibintu ni bibi. Umukobwa aracya yiga ubuzima bwimbitse, ariko ntashobora kumwishimira kugeza aje mumitekerereze. Urwego rukomeye kurwego rwibitekerezo rwibanze rwibanze yerekana igitekerezo kiriya cyamba, igitsina nibindi bintu bimenyereye ari bibi.
"Yego, ntawe uzashyingirwa"
Umukobwa wawe yavutse atari nkinyongera umuntu, ariko nkumuntu wigenga. Mumwireke icyuma, guteka kandi wuzuze izindi nshingano zo murugo kugirango ashobore kwiyitaho kugeza yinjije kugirango ahitemo umufasha wa amateur no kurya muri resitora. Turagushiramo igitekerezo cyuko ubuzima ari inshingano rusange, kugirango mugihe kizaza ntazinubira umugabo uhagaze neza, ariko uve kumufatanyabikorwa udashobora kuzuza byibuze urugo.
Haguruka umukobwa mu rukundo no kwitaho
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"Urubyiruko ntabwo ruhoraho"
Ntabwo! Urubyiruko ruramba neza nkuko wowe ubwawe umva ukiri muto. Reba amafoto ya nyogokuru: Umaze kuba saa 30 bashakisha imyaka ibiri irenga icumi, ntabwo aribyo nkabakobwa ba none. Ntukanda umukobwa amagambo agomba kurongora, tubyara abana kandi tukabyara byose bikeneye kugeza 30. Azihinga kandi ashaka ko ari bo moderi ishimishije, niba ashaka abana cyangwa ashaka abana cyangwa guhitamo kutakomeza. Ikintu nyamukuru nuko yiyemeza ubwayo kandi yishimye.
"Nibyo, witonde, ndavuga!"
Ntibikenewe kwita ku mwana - kwita ku mutekano wacyo kandi wige amategeko yo kwitonda, ariko ntukarinde amakosa. Ntushaka ko umukobwa abana nawe ubusa asaba kugendana nabakobwa bakobwa? Twumva ukuntu biteye ubwoba kwemera ko umukobwa wawe yakuze, ariko asanzwe mu bwangavu arakenewe kugirango umudendezo uhagije wo gutanga ibibyimba bye kandi wigishe ubunararibonye ejo hazaza.
"So ni umuswa!"
Gukora ishusho mbi ya Data, urakura mubyimba. Ikirushijeho kuba kibi, niba ushyira muri rusange abahagarariye abagabo baturutse ku giti cyabo. Gerageza kuvugisha ukuri ibibi byabafatanyabikorwa hanyuma ubiganireho numwana ukuze, ariko ntuzibagirwe ibyiza. Erekana umukobwa wawe ko imiterere yumuntu ari benshi kandi nta bantu beza. Uzabikiza ushakisha igikomangoma, ariko kandi uhemva ko utagomba guhura nuwa mbere wafashe.
"Nagutakaje kuvugana na data!"
Iyo bahukanye, abantu bake barashobora gukomeza umubano mwiza. Niba umufatanyabikorwa, nkuko ubitekereza, ari bibi kumwana, yambuye uburenganzira bwayo bwababyeyi abinyujije mu rukiko. Ariko mubindi bihe, ntugabanye itumanaho hagati yumukobwa hamwe na papa, ubundi mugihe kizaza azajugunya kumusore wambere utegereje byibuze ibitotsi no gushyuha. Abakobwa bakuze badafite papa bakunze gukoreshwa mubucuti, guterana kandi bakajya kubintu byose, kugirango babone ibitekerezo kandi bakumve ko ari ngombwa. Nyizera, birabagora cyane - ntibikwiranye numukobwa wawe muto.
Nubwo utari umukobwa wanjye na papa, agomba kuvugana nawe
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"Noneho uranshira"
Ntabwo urwenya, ntabwo rwose ubwoba buteye urugomo. Ugomba gusobanurira abakobwa ko urugomo urwo arirwo rwose rutameze neza. Ibitutsi, Gukoresha ibyiyumvo, gukoresha - ntakintu muribi ntigishobora kwihanganira, kandi uwakoze icyaha ugomba guhita uhita. Igihe yari mu Burusiya nta tegeko ryerekeye ihohoterwa rikorerwa mu ngo, umukobwa agomba kwikingira kandi aburira ibibazo biteye akaga mu karere kayoboka.
"Irashobora kugerageza neza"
Biragaragara ko umwana atazahora abona ubukorikori kandi buzana batanu mwishuri. Ariko wowe, mugihe umubyeyi agomba kubanza kumushimira imbaraga, hanyuma hamwe muganira kubyo ukeneye kugirango ukosore ubutabatabaho ibisubizo byari byiza kurushaho. Nibyiza gufata umwana kuruta kutamubwira amagambo yemewe n'inkunga.
"Tegereza, sinkureba"
Nubwo byagize ukuntu duhuze gute, birakenewe kumva ko umurimo utazajya ahantu hose, ariko umwana azakura vuba kandi azahagarika icyari. Ntucike umwanya kandi ukoreshe byibuze iminota 10-15 kumunsi kugirango uganire kuri buri kintu kwisi. Mugihe cyo gutumanaho, umwana yiga gutekereza, gusabana numubavuga, gusesengura igitekerezo cyabandi, bihinduka kwihanganira no kwitondera. Niba ufite abana benshi, hamwe na buri wese muri bo ugomba kumarana umwanya wenyine, mugihe badakeneye guhatanira umuvandimwe / mushiki wawe kubwanyu, kandi urashobora kuba wenyine.
"Reba abandi, ubeho kuri bose biteguye"
Iyo uhaye umukobwa ufite urugero rwindi miryango yinjiza make, abana cyangwa ababyeyi barwaye, ntabwo nibyiza rwose. Uramwiga ko aterwa isoni nibyo, hanyuma ugerageze kugereranya nabandi. Nibyo, ni ngombwa kumva ko ufite amahirwe yo kuvukira mumuryango ufite umutekano, ariko ntugomba kwanga kubigeraho nibindi byinshi.