"Nibyo, kuki yantaye?" - Witotombera umukunzi wawe, utumva ubikuye ku mutima ko atari mu bumwe bwawe. Impamvu yo gutandukana cyane nuko udashobora kubona ururimi rusanzwe numuntu ugatangira kuba kumuraba umwe. Nibyo, ibibazo bikunze kubuza abasore nabakobwa kuvuga impamvu nyayo yikibuga, nuko bahitamo kwinjira izuba rirenze, basiga abahoze mu ruzingo. Ariko umugore azaba arya neza kuri wewe, azakingura amaso yukuri - Hano hari impamvu 6 zituma utandukana nawe.
Gutinya igisubizo kidashimishije
Ibuka ubwenge bwa rubanda buvuga: Ntubaze ibibazo kugirango ubone ibisubizo utiteguye. Iyi nteruro yumvikana mu itumanaho rya buri munsi, ariko ntabwo ryunamye numuntu wa hafi. Ku ntangiriro yintangiriro yumubano, uzigana, bivuze ko bigerageza kumva niba umufatanyabikorwa akwiriye kurushaho kubaho nubukwe. Nigute ushobora kumenya niba udasaba kumugaragaro? Niba ubonye ibisubizo utanyuzwe, uzacika intege. Ntugakore ibyago kandi ntukambure ibihimbano bizakomeza kubaho mugihe hari umuntu udakwiye.
Kwirengagiza ibimenyetso bya kano
Ntabwo ari ibimenyetso bitukura, kandi amabendera atukura amanika imbere yabakobwa bamwe, kandi ntibashaka ko bababona. Kurikiza imyitwarire yumusore: Uburyo avugana ninshuti, ababyeyi na bagenzi bawe, nko kuba mu nyamaswa, ivuga kuri ex kandi irashobora kuvuga kumugaragaro imico yabo nkomeye. Ntibikenewe ko uhinduranya kandi ushishoza, kurugero, ubugome. Igihe kizagera, kandi impande zose zayo zose zizaguhindukirira mu makimbirane.
Gutamba ibyifuzo bye, nkigisubizo, abafatanyabikorwa bombi bahabwa ibisubizo hagati yibyo basabwa - ibisubizo ntamuntu numwe ukenewe
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Kwiyunga ntabwo ari inzira
Abaterankunga ba psychologue bakunze kuvuga ko ubumwe bwuhuza bugerwaho binyuze muburyo bwumvikane, kandi ntidutekereza. Mugutamba ibyifuzo byabo, kubwibyo, abafatanyabikorwa bombi bahabwa ibisubizo hagati hagati y'ibisabwa byambere - ibisubizo bitakenewe kugirango ube umwe muribo. Mubibazo bitavugwaho rumwe dukugira inama yo guhora twese hamwe nigitekerezo cyacu cyangwa tugerageza kwakira uruhande rwabafatanyabikorwa - kurugero, tujya muri gahunda yo gusuka, mugihe mubisanzwe mubiruhuko ukunda kuryama ku mucanga. Niba ugerageje kandi urabikunda - ukomeye, bivuze ko uzarushaho gucirwa bugufi. Ariko niba ibisubizo bitagiye, ku ngufu wenyine, no kureka uyu mushinga kandi ukore ikintu cyose gikundwa.
Kugaragara cyane
Turashaka umufatanyabikorwa, kuva mubwiza n'imikino yimitsi y'abakobwa bose bari gucika intege. Ariko ntiwibagirwe kuri wewe mugukurikirana mwiza? Hitamo umuntu ufite umutima n'ubwenge, kandi ntabwo ari icyerekezo ku byitegererezo bya sosiyete. Niba wowe, kurugero, hejuru yacyo, ariko uri mwiza cyane, ni irihe tandukaniro kuburyo ritujuje ibitekerezo bisanzwe? Tekereza kuri wewe, hanyuma inshuti yerekeye undi - nibyo ugomba gutekereza.
Ntushake amafaranga
Turi mubufatanye bwiza, aho byombi bizaba abahagarariye urwego rumwe rwimibereho. Ariko imyitozo yerekana ko abafite ingano iyo ari yo yose mu gikapu cyabo mubisanzwe birukana amafaranga. Gerageza kwiyemeza kandi wigenga, hanyuma urebe abagabo mumodoka zihenze. Inkuru ya Cinderella, muri Yoo, mubuzima busanzwe ntabwo ikora kubwimpamvu zabakore. Niba udafite amafaranga, uburezi, isura n'imyitwarire uzagira kurwego rwo hasi kuruta abajya mu ndimi z'amahanga kuva mu bwami, bakunze kugenda kandi batibagiwe kujya mu ruzitiro no mu bantu beza. Nibyo, kandi umusore akeneye umurongo - umwe ahita ajyana na we kurubuga rwincumbo no ku babyeyi.
Gerageza kwiyemeza kandi wigenga, hanyuma urebe abagabo mumodoka zihenze
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Ntukibagirwe kubyerekeye guhuza
Oya, ntituri ku bimenyetso bya Zodiac, ahubwo tuba ku bwoko bw'imibanire. Ibuka inyabutatu ya Karpmann, aho abantu bafite inshingano zumukurikirana, Umukiza nuwahohotewe. Niba usa numwe muribi ukurikije ibiranga imitekerereze, bivuze kudategereza ubufatanye bwiza. Wishingikirije ku mugabo cyangwa wowe ubwawe uzahinduka mama. Gusa kuba yarasobanukiwe ninkoko zabo, urashobora kwitega ubumwe bukomeye.