imwe . Akenshi twumva imvugo: "Ugomba gukunda no kwifatira." Ariko, ntabwo abantu bose bumva icyo bivuze. Abagore bavugana no kurakara: "Nishimiye cyane, niguze imyenda, nakoze imisatsi, njya mu gihe cyo gukora nka massage," mu gihe nkora nk'umuntu, Sisitemu y'imitsi ntabwo ikora iki Ashaka, umugabo arababaza imigozi, nta mahirwe afite yo kuba wenyine wenyine ... urukundo no kwemerwa wenyine ni kimwe mu bipimo by'ibanze by'imihigo no mu rukundo, Kandi mubucuti nabakunzi nabakunzi hamwe numwuga, kandi, byumvikane, kubura ibibazo byubuzima.
Reka tumenye icyo Unkunda ? Gukora ibi, reba ikiremwa cyawe. Dufite umubiri mwiza, ibitekerezo byacu, amarangamutima yacu, umwuka wacu ... kandi ibyo byose dukeneye cyane kwitaho, ibitekerezo byurukundo. Umukobwa wacu muto imbere ashaka rwose kumva, gutegereza guhimbaza n'impano. Naburanishwa nti: "Oya", "ntabwo ubu", "dusanzwe twitanga", "ni ko ikintu cyingenzi ni ukureba ababo."
Reka duhere kubiyitaho: kubyerekeye umubiri wawe, kubyerekeye imyumvire yawe, kubyerekeye iterambere ryawe nubugingo bwawe!
Gukunda wenyine ntabwo ari egoism. Birashobora, byanze bikunze, wikunda, ariko biterwa nubwiza bwumuntu ubwe.
2. Wibuke ko Umugabo akunda amaso kandi asaba kwitabwaho . Isura ivuguruye, uruhu rubitswe neza, umusatsi woroshye hamwe nimpumuro nziza, iza kuri wewe - ibi byose ni ngombwa cyane kumugabo wawe.
Hariho itegeko ryingenzi: Iyo umugabo ageze murugo, ni ngombwa muminota 20 yambere yo kumuha igihe cye. Abagabo bakunze kwinubira ko mu ishyingiranwa umugore yibagirwa buhoro buhoro aya mategeko, akingura urugi mu ikoti ishaje, atangira guhura n'abana, n'amakuru mbi. Ibaze ikibazo: Impamvu umugabo ataha nyuma yumunsi ukomeye wakazi? Akeneye umutungo. Akeneye kuzuza ubuzima bwe. Niba kandi atabibonye, azajya ahandi.
3. . Ubushake Ubuzima bwimbitse : Shakisha isi yibinezeza bishimishije hamwe, soma tantra, udushya murwego rwimibonano mpuzabitsina. Wumve neza gusura amahugurwa ashimishije kuriyi ngingo, jya mu iduka ryimibonano mpuzabitsina. Abashakanye benshi bemera ko abashakanye batakigikora kenshi mugihe abakurambere bacu babigenje. Bamwe bivuga umunaniro kukazi, abandi - kubera kubura amahirwe yo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina neza kubera kuza k'umwana cyangwa ku zindi mpamvu. Ariko, bigomba kumvikana ko ubuzima bwimbitse buringaniza buzana abashakanye, bibemerera kumva byose kandi binakuraho ibishuko bishoboka "kuruhande". Tekereza ku buzima bwawe bw'abagore kandi nta rubanza ari "nyina wa Teresa" n '"uwahohotewe" na gahunda: bose kubana! N'ubundi kandi, umwana wawe arashobora kuguma adafite se. Reba mubyukuri uko ibintu bimeze: Ese koko harabagirana umuntu cyangwa ikintu kikubuza urukundo, cyangwa hari aho byimbitse, kandi nawe ubwawe ushaka kwemera ko wenda udashaka gusa ko udashaka? Niba kandi aribyo, ni ngombwa cyane kumva iki kibazo. Nibyiza kuvugana ninzobere - umuhanga mu bya psychologue cyangwa igitsina gore - kandi ukemure ibyo bibazo byose. Niba utameze neza (uko byagenda kose, cyangwa ikintu mumubiri wawe wumugore kigenda nabi), ntugomba kubihisha umugabo wanjye. Bitabaye ibyo, azatekereza ko utabishaka, atangira kukubabaza.
Ubuzima bwimbitse ntabwo ari imibonano mpuzabitsina gusa, arimo akubita umugabo we, ubwuzu kuriwo, kwamamara byoroshye mugihe ureba firime. Iyi ni ingufu hamwe na tactile itumanaho rikenewe kubashakanye. Mukundane kandi wishimye kandi uhanga, shakisha ibihe bishya kandi bishimishije kugirango utandukanye ubuzima bwumuryango.
Bane. Wige Jya mu makimbirane kandi kora neza. Fashanya kugirango uganire. Kandi ntiwumve, ntibigera kunegura umugabo wawe imbere yabandi bantu cyangwa abavandimwe. Imitekerereze y'abagabo ni mbi mbisi. Ego ye irashobora kumvikana, kandi kubwibyo, ibibazo bizatangirira murwego rumwe, kandi icyifuzo cyo kubana numugore "kimubaha" gishobora kuba burundu!
5. Buri gihe ugume umugabo wawe amayobera make , Mugire ibyo ukunda, amabanga yawe y'abagore. Hindura ishusho yawe kenshi. Rimwe na rimwe kuba "Coquette", rimwe na rimwe "Umugore-Vamp", rimwe na rimwe umwuka, umucyo kandi wishimye "mukobwa.
6. Ntutinye gutakaza umugabo wawe kandi Ntusuzugura ishyari . Ba umunyabwenge. Ntukigereranye n'abandi bagore. Ni ngombwa guhitamo rimwe na rimwe kuri wewe ko uri umugore na nyina mwiza cyane. Ibitekerezo byawe bifite amahirwe yo kwitondera, ntibifata nabi. Muri icyo gihe, komeza kuba maso kumutima wawe. Gushyigikira guhura numugabo wawe, reba inyungu ze numwuka. Niba kandi ibyo, reba ingingo yambere: Ikunda. Niba umugore ubwe adashishikajwe na we, ntabwo ashimishije n'umugabo we. Iyo umwe mubakiriya banjye yatangiraga gukeka umugabo we mugutakaza inyungu (kandi wenda mubugambanyi), ikintu cya mbere twatangiye gukora kirimo kuzura umugore. Kandi batwitayeho n'imbaraga zose kuri we. Kandi rero igihe yatangiraga kumera mu buryo butunguranye (yakoze ibikorwa by'ingufu, yiyobora atuje kandi amaso ye yarakandutse afite ingufu z'imibonano mpuzabitsina), umugabo we yari afite impungenge, yabonaga umuntu wari umaze kwishima cyane kandi mwiza? Kandi asingizwa ku ishyaka rye rimeze mu buki.
7. Ni ngombwa guha umuntu kumva nk "ubwitonzi" . Reka ifate ibyemezo (nubwo iki gisubizo ari icyawe). Dushimire byinshi kandi uyishyigikire, cyane cyane hamwe ninshuti nabakobwa bakundana, nkaho kubwamahirwe. Kandi ntiwumve, mumfashe kukumva. Vuga ibyifuzo byawe nibyo ukunda. N'ubundi kandi, arashaka kandi gukenerwa no kugukunda,
Wibuke ko umubano rero witwa "unual", kubera ko iki cyifuzo cyo kubana nabafatanyabikorwa numwe witabiriwe mubuzima bwawe hamwe. Kubwibyo, rimwe na rimwe dushobora kwigisha abagabo bacu kubaka umubano mwiza. Kandi reka ukire kumyaka myinshi!