Nk'uburyo, 90% ku ijana by'abaturage bakorera bakora buri munsi hamwe na bagenzi bacu 3 na benshi, kandi ntabwo buri gihe itumanaho nk'iryo rirashobora kwitwa guhuza. Nibyo, ndetse nanzobere uko ari ikonje, utabonye, birashoboka ko hashobora kubaho ibintu bishobora kugorana kumuntu, akenshi biganisha ku kutumvikana. Uyu munsi twahisemo guteranya ibintu bizwi cyane kandi mugihe kimwe bidasubirwaho, byifuzwa gutekereza mbere yo kuvuga cyane.
"Nuko waguhaye? Blimey! "
Kuba inyangamugayo, niyo waba udashaka kuvuga ikintu kibi, interuro isa neza cyane. Umuntu wese akunda iyo ashimwe, ariko ntabwo abantu bose bashobora kwerekana ibyiyumvo bye neza. Inyuma yinteruro: "Ntabwo nari niteze ko bizakugeraho," Hano harashobora kubahatira ko ikintu cy'ingenzi cyagiye ku muntu, mu bushobozi bwa nde wowe ubwawe utwizera ku giti cyawe nk'Umuyobozi wawe. Gerageza kwirinda imanza zo gusuzuma, niba udashaka ko umuntu agira icyaha gikomeye.
Gerageza gutanga inkunga
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"Nakumvise"
Imwe mu nteruro ikaze cyane, ishobora kuvana kuringaniza umuntu uruhura cyane. Iyo tubwiwe ko "twunvise", akenshi ntabwo twateze amatwi, mubyukuri, iki nikibazo cyose. Rero, ntusubiza ikibazo cyabakozi, ariko usakuze gusa, wirinde kwibizwa mumirongo. Kandi uko twavuze inshuro zirenze imwe, umuntu wese azashimisha cyane niba amagambo ye adafashwenwa uburemere kandi arenganuwe n'amatwi. Gira hafi cyane, kuko ubutaha ushobora kwirengagiza icyifuzo cyawe cyingenzi.
"Ni bwo nazi!"
Ntakintu kibi nko kuvuga iyi nteruro muriki gihe mugenzi wawe atagenda neza. Ibintu byose bibi bimaze kuba, ugomba gushakisha uburyo bwo gukemura ikibazo, ariko aho kuba interuro ifite agaciro isuka amavuta mumuriro hanyuma utware umuntu kugirango uhebeshye cyane. Wibuke ko abantu ari ngombwa gushyigikira, cyane cyane niba ushyikirana neza nuyu muntu, none kuki utatanga amahitamo, mubitekerezo byawe, yaba ikibazo cyangwa umuntu. Gerageza kwirinda kwibizwa muburyo bubi.