Pakafika pomwe m'mphepete mwa ubale, pamakhalidwe a anthu amagawidwa m'misasa iwiri. Ena amakhala okonzeka kukhululuka aliyense ndikusintha mnzake, kuyesera kugwiritsitsa ubalewo mpaka kumapeto. Ena, m'malo motsutsana, amalengeza mwatsatanetsatane: mayendedwe amodzi - kusiya. Tikukhulupirira kuti muyenera kudzitengera, koma pali zochitika zingapo ubale wabwino pansi pa chiletso chokwanira.
Ubwenzi Waulere
Tikulankhula za iwo ndi kachigawo kakang'ono kovuta, popeza pansi pa chigoba chomasulidwa, amuna ambiri amabisa kuti asinthane ndi magololo monga magololo. M'banja laulere palibe cholakwika ngati onse awiri adavomera. Komabe, chiwembu, chokopana ndi chinthu chilichonse chosasangalatsa ndikutsagana ndi chidwi chofuna kunyenga theka lachiwiri - adani a ubale wabwino. Ngati munthu akukwaniritsidwa pa zochitika ngati izi, amalankhula za kusalemekeza kwathunthu komanso kusayanjanitsidwa kwa inu monga munthu. Osayesa kubisa zinthu ngati izi poledzera, kutengedwa kwa mbuye kapena kukangana nanu. Munthu si nyama yomwe imaganiza mwachilungamo. Kulungamitsa ndi kutenga munthu wotere, mumadzinyazitsa. Ndikhulupirireni, ndinu woyenera kukhala wokondana ndi anzanu moona mtima, ngakhale ali ndi zaka zingati, mawonekedwe ndi mawonekedwe ake.
Osalowa munzeru zachinyengo
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Kutsutsa kwa mawonekedwe anu
Mwa maonekedwe ake, nthawi zambiri mutha kumva madandaulo a azimayi omwe amuna awo amatsutsa mawonekedwewo, zovala kapena tsitsi. Ndi chinthu chimodzi, ngati inu munavala mozama zochitika zosayenera ndipo bambo akufuna kukuuzani kuti musinthe zovala, ndipo wina ndi mnzake akamakudzudzulani nthawi zonse. M'magulu ogona muyenera kukhala okhazikika komanso ogwirizana, osadzidzudzula ndipo mumvere zonena. Mawu, oyenera: "Bwanji ukujambula zochulukirapo," sakambirana za malingaliro abwino kwa inu. Izi zikufotokozedwa chifukwa chakuti mahomoni akuyamba kukondana, kotero kuti sangalankhule ndi zophophonya zazing'ono.
Kusalemekeza zachilengedwe zanu
Ngati bambo wanu nthawi zonse amadzudzula atsikana ndi anzanu, abale apamtima komanso anzanu apamtima, ndiye dziwani kuti simuyenera kudikirira munthu wotere. Chilichonse chomwe anthu awa anali, koma ndi okondedwa anu, ndipo ichi ndi chifukwa chachikulu chochitira ulemu. Nthawi zambiri, kutsutsidwa ndikuyesa kukuchotsa kwa anthu ena mukakhala mwa inu mbewu yokayikira chifukwa cha inu. Musalole kudziptolo tokha, posakhalitsa mupeza kuti muli ndi 24 mpaka 7 okha ndi munthu wanu. Amadalira kwambiri okondedwa anu, ndipo ngati munthu samvetsetsa kusakhutira kwanu, ndiye kuti muyenera kumuuza mwachindunji za izi.
Banja - chinthu chofunikira kwambiri m'moyo
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Kufuna kusintha mawonekedwe anu
Pa madeti oyamba, ndizosatheka kudziwa munthu pano - aliyense akufuna kuwoneka ngati maso a anthu ena kuposa momwe alili. Komabe, patatha miyezi ingapo, munthuyo amadziwululabe. Ngati wachinyamata wanu sakusangalalira ndi inu, koma sawona zophophonya zake, - patsogolo panu "Narcisy". Ndikosatheka kusintha chikhalidwe cha munthu wina, mpaka iye amapita patsogolo. Tikuganiza kuti zikuyenera kumvetsetsa munthu aliyense wokwanira. Chifukwa chake, khalani omasuka kunena kuti simusintha, ndipo mupatseni mnzanu woti ndikuchitireni. Simuyenera kudzipereka nokha, chifukwa nsembe si ulemu kuti muyenera kunyadira. Lemekezani umunthu wanu ndi ufulu wanu, osalola kuti mnzanuyo akuyang'anireni.
Kufuna Kugonjera Kwambiri
Kuchotsa kwa anzeru ake, pempho losiya ntchito ndipo musasamale nyumba zanu zokhala ndi nyumba zanu. Chinanso, ngati munthu akukuitanani kuti muchepetse katundu kuntchito kapena kuyambitsa bizinesi yanu. Poyesera kuti mubwezeretse mkazi pakuwongolera bwino thanzi lake, iyenera kukhala chizindikiro chofiira chofiira. Chimodzi mwazinthu zofunikira kwa munthu - kudziwonetsa - palibe njira yomwe iyenera kungokhala ndi mnzanu popanda pempho lanu. Thandizo mwanzeru, chikhulupiriro mwa inu, thandizani - izi ndi zomwe munthu amene amakugonani ayenera kutenga.