Yankhani yankho, ngakhale kuti mukhale ndi bambo pafupifupi mu sabata loyamba la chibwenzi kapena kudikira, zovuta - zonse zimatengera momwe mungathere ndi kumvetsetsa pakati pa inu ndi bambo. Komabe, kuchuluka kwa azimayi kumachitika pamaziko a momwe akumvera, koma chifukwa choopa kutaya maubale ofunikira. Ndipo kwenikweni, ngati munthu akukuonani ngati mtsikana kwa milungu ingapo, adzachokadi ngati mungamukana poyandikira deti lachitatu.
Zosintha zomwe zingachitike, ngati munthu adakukondanidi ndipo mumamukonda monga mkazi, osati monga zosangalatsa - pankhaniyi, kugonana kofulumira kumangongopeka kwa iye nthawi iliyonse. Musadabwe kuti pambuyo poti munthu wake wamaloto omwe muyenera kuyang'ana "ndi agalu."
Vuto lina lililonse lachilendo ndikuwona kuti pambuyo pakugonana chidzawoneka ngati sichinapangidwe. Pofuna kudzutsa kumvetsetsa kwathunthu, ndikofunikira kuti mugwiritse ntchito limodzi - m'malo opanda kanthu osakhalapo konse, monga kugonana, sikutha kuyendayenda, koma kugonana kwadzidzidzi kungawonongedwe .
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Kodi Mungatani Mwa Munthu Kuti Mukhale Ndi Chibwenzi Chomwe Mumagonana?
Chinthu chachikulu ndikukumbukira kuti munthu saganizira zogonana pafupi, zake monga inu, ndimakondwera ndi zinthu zambiri zomwe zili kutali. Ngati ndinu munthu wokonda kuyang'ana, moto uwu umatha kuletsa chidwi cha anyamata kapena atsikana - amuna saphonya amayi omwe samadalira malingaliro a munthu wina ndipo ndi othandizana nawo.
Osamadziyendetsa. Zowonadi Pezani nthawi yosunga ziwerengero - sikofunikira kwambiri kuti munthu akhale ndi chidwi chanu.
Khalani otsimikiza. Palibe amene amakonda anthu atsopano. Inde, mutha kugawana mavuto ndi mwamunayo, koma simuyenera kuyang'ana dziko lakuda ndi loyera, chifukwa kukhudzidwa koyipa kumakhala kovuta kwambiri kuposa zokhumudwitsa, chifukwa chake anthu amayesetsa kuti afesere ndi kachilombo. Ngati muli ndi vuto lotere, yesani kuzikonza nokha kapena palimodzi ndi katswiri.