A matsayinka na mai mulkin, jayayya kan ƙasa ta faru a nau'i-nau'i, waɗanda tare na dogon lokaci. A makonni na farko da watanni, wani mutum da mace sun tsage juna, suna ƙoƙarin son shi, don haka rikice rikice ke fitowa, kuma yawanci bai kai rikici ba. Koyaya, yayin da matsaloli suka tara, "fashewar" na iya faruwa yayin da ɗaya daga cikinku ba za ku iya tsayawa ba kuma ya fara yin kokawa. Za mu yi kokarin ganowa, tare da wasu matsaloli ana iya zama ma'aurata a cikin zurfin yanayi da kuma yadda za a magance su daidai.
A wani farkon mataki, mun tabbatar da abokin, mun yi imani da cewa dole ne ya karanta tunaninmu kuma ya san abin da muke so da abin da muke so da abin da ba. Kusan koyaushe, mafarkinmu sun kasu kashi mai tsaurara, lokacin da sha'awar ba ta da ƙarfi tare da damar, saboda haka yawancin matsalolin ke biye. Idan akwai matsala, babban abin shine don tattauna shi don kada a sami rashin fahimta. Idan ka sanya matsalar a Samone, da fushi zai tara, kamar dusar ƙanƙara, a cikin irin wannan adadi akwai wahalar yanke shawara.
Kyauta awa daya don tattauna matsalar
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Manyan dalilai
Daban-daban mahaya
Ba kowane mutum zai iya shiga Marathon na yau da kullun ba. Tuni a farkon dangantaka, ma'aurata suna fuskantar matsaloli idan abokin tarayya yana buƙatar ƙarin jima'i fiye da yadda aka miƙa. Idan matsalar ita ce kaɗai wacce mutum ya shirya don yin haƙuri a cikin safe da safe, da maraice, an magance komai sauƙin: kawai zauna ku tattauna wannan tambayar.
Keta halal
Wasu lokuta wasu biyu suna fuskantar wasu abubuwa, cewa su sanya shi a hankali, basu gamsu ba. A ce ka gaji da tunani game da jima'i na baki, kuma abokin tarayya tuni ya kama ka ka tafi tare da shi zuwa jam'iyyar swinger ta rufe. Wannan kuma yana iya haɗawa da amfani da kayan wasan kwaikwayo na jima'i da kwatankwacin kwatankwacinsu a cikin jima'i, misali, BDSM. A farkon farko, kuna buƙatar tattauna tare da abokin tarayya, wanda yake yarda, kuma menene ba, ba haka ba rikici ne da rashin fahimta.
Kafin ka fara zargin mutum, zauna ka yi magana da shi
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Yi watsi da rashin watsi
Ba za a iya la'akari da dangantaka a cikin kowane fannoni ba cikakke ba tare da girmama ba. Idan ka nemi abokin tarayya ya yi amfani da kwayoyin cuta yayin aiwatar da kanta, kuma abokin aikin bai kula da duk bukatun ku ba, yi tunani game da duk mutumin da kake bukata.
Rarraba Matsakaicin Rarrabawa
Haka ne, za ku yi mamaki, amma, daga ra'ayi na tunani, ba duk ma'aurata suna jin haka ba. Tsakanin wani mutum da mace a cikin dangantaka yana nufin dangantaka ta soyayya, jima'i, amma sau da yawa sau biyu a cikin ma'aurata da uba, saboda sonta Kuma flirt ya ɓace suna zuwa don maye gurbin kulawa, mai tsaro da sauran bayyanannun ji, kaɗan ya dace da sha'awar sha'awar.
Mun magance rikicin gaggawa
Duk wani rikici, ka kasance yana rashin fahimta game da kasar jima'i ko a wani yanki, zaka iya warware tattaunawar. Da aka ba da sha'awar juna, zaku iya samun sakamako mai ban mamaki da rage matakin damuwa a cikin dangantaka.
Zaɓi lokacin da ake so da wuri.
Babu bukatar yin bunkasa matsalolin mutanen kasashen waje: a kan ziyarar, a kan titi, a cikin cafe. Bayan ku biyu, ya kamata a sami kowa. Kuma babu, abincin rana ko wani abinci kuma ba lokacin da ya dace don tattauna matsaloli a gado ba.
A mafi yawan lokuta, zaku iya zuwa wani sasantawa
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Kar a tilasta
Da zaran kun fara tattaunawa tare da sake fasali - komai, zaku iya gama kai tsaye. Yana da mahimmanci a bar abokin tarayya ya fahimci cewa yana da tsada sosai a gare ku kuma yana da mahimmanci, sabili da haka kuna so ku fayyace wasu abubuwan da zaku basu rashin jin daɗi. Guji cin mutunci kuma kada ku yarda irin wannan jumla: "Dole ne ku yi laifi", "ba ku yi kuskure ba."
Saurari abokin tarayya
Wataƙila mutuminku ya ɗan kwantar da kai ko kuma wata mace ta bayyana, kodayake a zahiri yana iya samun matsalolin da bai faɗa maka ba saboda dalilai daban-daban. Don haka, kafin ku zargi, saurare zuwa wancan gefen - zamu iya samun yarjejeniya da gujewa rikici game da rashin amana.