Tabbas, kowane mai kusanci dole ne ya faru ne a buƙatun kowane mahalarta, amma yana faruwa cewa an riga an biya muradin, har ma don haifar da lahani ga ɗayan abokan aikin. Mafi sau da yawa, mata suna fuskantar kwarewar jima'i mara kyau, tunda ko da a cikin yanayin da ba tsammani ba su da sauƙin jimre wa mutum. Don haka menene bayyanar bayyana da zarar kun fara jin rashin jin daɗi? Munyi kokarin ganowa.
Ba ku ne sarki ba
Yawancin maza sun himmatu ga iko, ba wai kawai a cikin kwararru ba, amma kuma a gado. A cikin iyakance mai ma'ana don damuwa da abin da, duk da haka, sha'awar da ba a sarrafa shi ba ta iya zama da mummunan tasiri sosai game da zahiri da ta'aziyya ta mace. A matsayinka na mai mulkin, don gane rinjaye kawai kafin yanke shawarar yin ritaya - wannan mutumin koyaushe shine farkon, mai tsananin ƙarfi yana yin watsi da shi. Da wuri-wuri, bari mu fahimci cewa ba ku doke duk wata tilastawa ba kuma musamman tashin hankali daga gefen.
Kada ku yi wani abu a kanku
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Ba ku da ikon zagi na
Kyakkyawan sanannun gaskiya - kyawawan mutane ba su wanzu ba, har ma a tsakanin shahararrun mutane. Kuma duk da haka maza ne suke ɗaukar kansu kawai abin mamaki a ciki da kwalliyar kwalliya. Irin wannan abokin tarayya fiye da sau ɗaya alamu don kiba, wasu lahani na waje kuma zasuyi sha'awar wasu mata, sanya su misali. Shin kuna ganin wani abu zai canza a gado? Ee bai taba ba. Kuna buƙatar bayyananniyar matsayi - ba za ku yarda da sharhi game da kamanninku ko halinku ba, irin wannan kyakkyawan mutum zai iya bincika irin wannan kyakkyawar mace, don me kuke buƙatar rasa lokaci tare da shi.
Ba za mu shiga jima'i ba
Yanayin da ya zo mai yiwuwa kowace mace ta biyu. Tabbas, kowane mutum zai nuna ƙarin sha'awa a kusancin "ba tare da cikas ba, amma a zahiri, zai yi amfani da hanyar kariya idan yana da mahimmanci ga lafiya a matsayin abokin tarayya. Amma wani lokacin don isar da abubuwan da ke da asali mai farin ciki ba zai yiwu ba, kuma a wannan lokacin bai kamata a kula da lafiyar ku ba, musamman idan ba wanda zai kula da lafiyar ku, musamman idan kun saba da cewa ba wanda zai kula da lafiyar ku . Sanya mummunan yanayi, mai isasshen mutum koyaushe zai fahimta koyaushe kuma ɗaukar matsayinku.