The other day, Julia Savicheva shared with subscribers an unpleasant news - the singer broke up with her husband Alexander Arshinov. The artist posted a photo on which together with an already ex-husband posing on the day of the wedding.
Julia and Alexander were familiar for a long time, since the participation of Savicheva in a popular music project. According to the singer, the couple was parted, it was peacefully and again lived calmly. Nevertheless, the marriage could not be preserved, the spouses broke up completely.
In almost every pair, moments arise when someone claps the door, but always returns. Psychologists are confident that it is not worth recovering the relationship after a long time, because if at least one of the partners is not interested in the conservation of communication, nothing good will turn out of the second or the tenth times.
We thought and decided to figure out why the return to the former is always a bad idea.
You demonstrate your weakness
Suppose you have already parted, but your abandoned half can not let you go. All this indicates the manipulation by the former partner. If you allow this person to become part of your life again, you will not get anything other than unscrupulous use of you, after all, thereby you make it clear that the person you are extremely disposable, and therefore you can turn anything.
Your failed relationships you show that your pair cannot exist
What other evidence of incompatibility do you need if you already parted? It is almost impossible to find a new feeling for the past, you yourself understand this, as they lived enough with this man to understand how different people you are.
Your future in this relationship is unknown
When the relationships enter the corner, then you will not be promoting the current partner. At the same time, you will not be able to look for a new person, as it was not yet fully separated from the previous one, let you have only sex. Just imagine that you can suddenly appear a child, and then you already do not go anywhere from each other, but for a family there is nothing worse than your parents hate each other.