Some relationships themselves come to no, others end up with a gap due to irreconcilable contradictions between characters, and the third - as a result of surprises, for example, the treason of one of the partners. Greing everyone under one comb and say that there is only the right way out of relationships we will not. Why? Because they themselves not only did not find this option, but also, to be honest, I do not believe in its existence. Let's analyze several behavioral scenarios after parting and help you choose the path for which you should go.
Path First - Meanous Sexual Communications
Do you have a heart breakdown? The first thing that comes to mind is to go to the club and find a new couple for one night, just to charge yourself adrenaline and feel a spark that can mow you on changes. We are not a hunger, and therefore in disorderly connections, if both use the means of protection and are honest with each other, we do not see anything bad. The truth is worth looking at your psychological state. If you are all close to heart and quickly fall love, random sex can aggravate your complexes and even become a provocateur depression. The rest of the same, who is not attached to partners, you can try to go to this way to distract, just do not improve!
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Way of the second - return to the former
We do not advise you this path. It is better to lie down in a bed with a new guy, than to return to the old one, with which you broke up clearly not just like that. Old familiar rakes are sitting: you already know a person with all his advantages and minuses, you are satisfied with the intimate side of relationships, but believe me, just as good as at the dating stage, will not be. You just spend your time when you can go to your development or try to find a guy even cooler former. Believe that the new partner will be even smarter, caring and pretty, because with your experience, queries are growing. So really you do not want to meet him, instead of spending evenings with already familiar Vasya?
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The third way is to deal with
We sincerely approve this way and consider the most versatile. After a long relationship, many need to take a pause, no matter how difficult it seemed to fall asleep alone. Go to the psychologist, buy a subscription to the gym, more often meet with friends - take all your daily routine business and do not miss alone with you at least a couple of months. And after you can already engage in self-analysis and think about how you want to see a new partner and over what mistakes in your behavior you are ready to work.
New relations are unlikely to fill out spiritual emptiness
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Fourth way - jump into new relationships
It is difficult for us to submit such an outcome, but we will be honest, there are thousands of people who have not been carried out with their adult life without a relationship. From one partner, they pass to the other, as if the relay wand, and often even at the stage of the passion, they begin to seek a potential cavalier. True, it happens that your new guy may turn out to be the one who prepared fate. However, in most cases, a new partner will become a temporary psychologist, with whom you will soon be override and want to be alone with you.
And what path will choose or have you chosen? Write your opinion in the comments, let's discuss which option is the most successful.