Despite the fact that the name "Bedroom" comes from the word "to sleep", sleep is far from the only lesson, relevant to this place. Let's call the bedroom playerly - "Bedroom sexy". Indeed, the bedroom is one of the sexiest rooms in the house. It is here that we can lose the "masks" and, finally, be ourselves, enjoying the caresses of your loved one. But still a bedroom is a place where not all is allowed. Some things that women are doing in bed are not just undesirable, but are not allowed. What are these things, and why can they destroy your relationship?
Julia Lansk
Tell me "No" clarify relationships in the bedroom
The bedroom is a place for the intimate proximity of two lovers, and not to clarify the relationship. Transferring "flight dissembly" to the bedroom, you risk turning it from "sexy" into "oral". According to statistics, pairs that often swear in the bedroom, over time, cease to perceive this room as a place for proximity. This negatively affects the sex life of the pair and the development of relations in general.
Let the bedroom become a kind of "island of tenderness" for you, where there is no place of swearing and scandals. The place where love, passion and pleasure live. This will help you strengthen relationships with your loved one, making them more harmonious.
Do not "brake" process
Women and men perceive the intimate proximity process in different ways. And if the male mind during sex, often "turns off", then female, on the contrary, is activated, demanding recognition in eternal love. However, such spiritual impulses often cause a radically opposite reaction: a man who perceives intimate proximity as a process of conquering a woman, feels confused.
Yes, "passing" conversations about love are perceived by men exactly as "braking" of the process. Therefore, during intimate intimacy, try to focus on it, and conversations about feelings move to a more suitable place for this.
Bedroom - place for intimate proximity of two lovers, and not to clarify relationships
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Do not tolerate what you are unpleasant
Sex - multifaceted phenomenon, and those elements that like one partner can be unacceptable for the other. But for some reason, modern women are often preferred to endure unpleasant moments of intimate proximity, and sometimes even closing their eyes on painful sensations. In order for sex to bring pleasure to both partners, first of all, it is necessary to establish a trust relationship with a man. He must listen to your desires, respect them, treat you as a crystal vase. Only in this case the relationship will develop as harmoniously as possible.
To achieve such a relationship of a man, by the time of the first intimate proximity it is necessary to approach. It should not happen prematurely, but also to delay the moment. If you are able to turn first sex for a man in the desired and long-awaited "dish", then in the future it will relate to you as a queen.
Do not rush in extremes
Do not be excessively egoistic, considering that only a man must "try" in bed, and at the same time you will take it caress. The role of "women-logs", which lies in bed without movement, is one of the most disadvantageous female roles. After all, sex is, first of all, the exchange of energies, and satisfying and not giving anything in return, it will not be possible to achieve harmony.
At the same time, in sex it is not necessary to be absolute altruis, pleaseing your man "in all respects" and trying to surprise him every time. Such behavior is not characteristic of a woman who wants to conquer.
During intimate proximity, follow the Golden Middle. Taking the masters of a man and giving him in return, you can feel a special unity that will help you get closer.
Do not deprive each other's pleasure
If in bed with your beloved man you have not reached "apogee", do not stop moving in this direction. The fact is that many women believe that orgasms are not about them, and have sex on inertia. In fact, the achievement of culmination is only a matter of practice and permanent training. Having learned a man better, you will begin to trust him, fully open and learn without constraint to discuss your intimate life: what you like that - no, but what would like to try.
Women who do not simulate orgasms, men appreciate much more. After all, it is important for them not only to receive, but also to give pleasure.
Performing "rules of behavior" in the bedroom, you will be able to harmonize relationships with your beloved man as much as possible, learn to trust him and deliver true pleasure to each other.