No one wants to be a bad parent, nevertheless we are hardly insured against mistakes. You may not even suspect that wishing your spell the best, at the same time apply a psychological trauma to the child.
You raise a child with a scream
There is no more helpless parent than the one who emotionally scolds the child in the middle of the shopping center. We all saw similar situations. Firstly, the child is simply scared, he will simply not be able to delve into what a teaching adult wants to achieve from him. Secondly, your baby has attached attachment to such emotional splashes and in the future it will also contact his child.
Be a child friend
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You mock him
Do not do it! Especially in the presence of other people. What you consider a joke can be the end of the world. The psyche of the kids is not yet so formed to adequately perceive sarcasm and thin pods on your part.
You do not support the child
Parents are the only source of inspiration for a child, especially very small. Insignificant in your understanding, the encouraging phrase can turn the world of the child, forcing him to believe in his strength. In addition, the support of the closest people helps the child to acquire leadership features that will undoubtedly use him in adulthood.
Children's psyche is extremely unstable
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You compare it with other children
It is mistaken to believe that the comparison with Vasya-Sasha-Kake will make the child become better and working on himself. Not. Your baby can block in herself, you will develop in him insecurity in yourself, and with the consequences of your "help" he will have to fight all his life. To achieve success in this case, he will be very difficult.
You control his personal life
This applies in the main parents of adolescents. First, we perceive the love of your child as a very cute phenomenon, however, after some time, many parents begin to scare the fact of having a personal life from his teenager because of what the surveillance and control begins, as a rule, by mom. It is not surprising that the child will annoy it.