Any woman is nice attention from the man, but only if a person does not move the boundaries permitted. Sometimes men are forgotten and perceive female smiles in response to their words as a signal to action, although in fact a woman only answered politeness to a compliment. Any action of a man hinting at close contact and the women committed against the will can be regarded as a harassment. We tried to figure out what causes such behavior and how not to become a victim of male lust.
Family problems
Men whose wives refuse them in proximity or do not burn with the desire to satisfy the needs of the spouse, try to surrender sexual satisfaction on the side, including those who may try to do this and in the workplace - the victim in this case becomes a young colleague who cannot persist .
It is impossible to be silent
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Problems at work
When a man fails to achieve the desired in a professional environment, he begins to experience incredible stress, because every representative of strong sex seeks to take his "place under the sun", is in constant voltage due to increased competition. When his plans are not destined to come true, the man begins to look for ways to reduce stress and tries to assert themselves, as a rule, it consisites again at the expense of his colleagues behind the career ladder.
Psychological problems
This situation is much more complicated and, you can say more dangerous: a person with impaired psyche is not able to think critically and does not think about the consequences. If a man liked this man, having received a refusal, he will be with maniacal perseverance to try to get it. Such a person is able to even violate the law for the achievement of his goal.
How to avoid harassment at work?
be careful
Most of the problems arise due to the fact that the woman, being in the new team, is losing vigilance and does not immediately recognize the seduder, which hides its intentions under the mask of politeness. Therefore, do not recall the active attempts of rapprochement as a sincere desire to help - keep the distance.
Do not hints yourself
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Do not make ambiguous hints
Easy flirt with a colleague, flirting in order to establish relationships with a male part of the team only to spur men act actively. To resort to female tricks should not be at least because you just wake you in a dark corner with a lot of probability, and you will blame for you - you yourself sent "signals". Therefore, watch your manner of communication.
Show hardness
A person who tries to become your good friend, but at the same time you understand that you are interested in it exclusively as a sexy object, should clearly understand where your personal boundaries begin. Let us understand that you are willing to discuss a certain range of topics, and are not going to make a company "on a cup of coffee" after work.
Do not be silent
Let a man possesses power, threatens you and trying to suppress morality - never silent. If you notice at least the slightest signs of harassment, start resisting if it does not help, also threaten to tell about this bosal. If you are obedient to endure, the likelihood is great that a man doses and try to rape you.